Blindly date and meet lechers I have _'s guide of blindlying date deceived and go to bed

Blindly date and meet lechers I have _'s guide of blindlying date deceived and go to bed

Parents force me to blindly date again and again
I am 29 years old, is a company clerk. Because of good at speech, it is lighter to enclose communication, it is introverted to combine with, has stepped into the ranks of the adult single unconsciously. In the past
I have been never one's own personal question when matter, all worry for my marriage wedding as relatives and friends, I have crisis awareness. Hear mother's every day's urgency sound, my pressure is larger and larger, though I do not like blindlying date in this way, but for not allowing mother to chatter, I meet those men under the matchmaker's arrangement again and again. Can see much, not a person is suitable.
One day of last November, colleague Xiao Li found me mysteriously, said and introduced a perfect match man to me. In Li's mouth while as a child, I knew the husband is 30 years old, lived in Ningbo suburbs, it was a taxi driver. This kind of job that I do not like the driver very much, originally want to refuse Xiao Li's good intention, but see she is so enthusiastic and a bit uneasy, think about oneself go straight three the intersection of age and single one people already after all, have what reason refuse to blindly date and then? Then agree to meet first reluctantly.
He pays no attention to my indifference
The man is called Wang Ping, stature is about one meter Sixth Five-Year Plan Period, the person looks general, I feel very unsatisfactory after seeing, but Wang Ping is unusually hospitable to me. Xiao Li jokes we have about equal stature, it is the golden boy that matches the teenage girl, I tell her not to speak carelessly, but an improper thing that she grins.
Wang Ping should invite Xiao Li and me to dinner voluntarily, he asks me whether can leave a telephone to him or not. I have told him the telephone number out of being courteous. That meal is basically that Xiao Li is speaking alone, my expression is thin. I thought Wang Ping saw I was sure to beat a retreat to his neither very warm nor cold attitude, not thinking of the next day, I just turned on the mobile phone early in the morning, received Wang Ping's message. The message content is very simple, " it is cool these days, add garments while going out, so as not to catch a cold " . I am hot after finishing thinking, in so many years, opposite sex never cared about me like this. In one week later, I will receive similar information every morning, my heart has been moved by Wang Ping slowly.
When I plan to accept this emotion, face apology of Xiao Li tells me that Wang Ping divorces, she said she did not know either in the past, thought Wang Ping was single, so introduced to me. Having listened to her, I have been just gone out in the twinkling of an eye by the enthusiasm lighting. Though I am very cold to Wang Ping's telephone, Wang Ping often phones to look for me to chat, I am perfunctory courteously once in a while for being courteous, but the invitation to Wang Ping, I do not always go to fulfill an appointment with various excuses.
Wan reach Ping Wang invite me go there play again open such as square, I ponder on the past and future it thinks to be no way even so always, make thing clear, let Wang Ping die the heart to me face to face. So, I went to fulfill an appointment that day.
Because of feeling self-humiliation So move
Without too much transition, I ask Wang Ping whether Wang Ping divorce without preamble. Wang Ping says so very candidly. I ask why divorce, Wang Ping says he can not stand former wife's playing mahjong every day, he chose to divorce after being married for three years. I ask think in any case, I can't look for a one that divorced either at will just at that time. I thought so that it was mostly that it did not injure Wang Ping's self-esteem how to say at that time, can let Wang Ping understand that does not want to associate with him again oneself. A gust of cold wind has been blown through at this moment, one is cold and quiver that I can't help hitting. Wang Ping sees this, takes off the clothes on the body at once, wraps to it on me. I did not originally think of to the mouth if associating again, saw Wang Ping was so careful to oneself, swallow this sentence.
Coming back home, mother and I talked about the thing that Wang Ping divorced, mother said my age was not little, should relax the condition of choosing spouse some, choose a few years and can not really marry, divorce and does not blame him, anyway they have no child, it does not matter to divorce. Think of Wang Ping to oneself so diligently, combine with advice of mother, I determine and then with some time such as contacts such as Wang Ping.
One day, Wang Ping took out a box attractive in packing to give to me, I opened and looked, it is a new mobile phone to mix telephone number. When I accept the present cheerfully, this telephone number charge bidirectionally to read the question sentence smoothly? Wang Ping who has never expected one sentence is not be in the mood for bore in mind unexpectedly, he brought a cell-phone number of one-way charge to me the next day, this makes me very moved.
Love should beautiful a pure one in the heart in me, but a word of Ping Wang make that kind so bright as to ice quickly. We and for example went to have a meal equally usually that day, ate meals, Wang Ping put forward wanting to go to open a room to me suddenly. I have not understood his meaning at the beginning, when I find his intention out, I can not accept. I have refused him with extremely abominable attitude, and tell he himself it is not a very careless woman.
Two people parted on bad term that day. Afterwards, I think of saying good-bye again, but the friends all say I am too suspicious, this is a normal requirement. They think my age not little unanimously, it is difficult to meet one appropriately.
She was calculated by him at last
After this, Wang Ping has not phoned me for a long time, the attitude thinking about it one's own that day perhaps really frightened to him. Then I make the telephone to Wang Ping voluntarily, ask why he has not looked for me so for a long time. Wang Ping just says he has been very busy recently, a over section looks for me if having time. Every several days, Wang Ping really makes over telephone. He lets me accompany him to go back to home once, sees his parents.
Actually agreed to go on the same day on the same day to go back, had never expected Wang Ping went to friend's place to have a meal after getting home, been having it very late all the time. Going home so late has no car, sees my awkward appearance, Wang Ping's mother says the family room is numerous, just lived in Wang Ping next door by me. Can tidy up as the intersection of I and everything appropriate to plan sleep, the door next door can not be opened really. I knock open door of Ping Wang let him help to open, never expect Wang Ping sees me come in, have me in one's arms, no matter how I struggle, Wang Ping clings to like grim death. I am broken through by Wang Ping in the last line of defence. The next day, it is being full and ventral and hurt and wronged that bringing I went home. I am not sure again to our emotion at this moment, my comfort Wang Ping likes me, he will marry me, otherwise will not occupy me. But one day, two days, three days I wait for him to look for me again earnestly, but he does not even have a telephone.
Expect that has already developed into this kind of intensity with him by oneself, I put down the girl's restrained and self-respect, hit
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