Blindly date it is in fact _'s guide of blindlying date of such a thing

Blindly date, it is in fact _'s guide of blindlying date of such a thing

The overwhelming majority, the young men and women not providing for a rainy day in the campus estimate that participate in blindlying date --This kind has history of one hundred years in China, the most primitive, old stuff the most, but the most effectual love way. Although, this traditional way is received at present
It is bizarre and motley to reach great a thousand in the world, multifarious other love ways (such as love online, have a trial marriage etc.) Impact,last brilliant glory, be shone if you can't crowd by heads broken, want to enter to one peep by their men and women at lookses after encircling a city to those.
First, the serious difference exists just the same as urban and rural areas among men and women in the successful rate of blindlying date in successful rate of blindlying date.
1,Before 25 years old, the woman's blind date succeeds in being be far greater than men far in rate. Be basically said to be, so long as the wife agrees, then succeed; So long as the wife talks about " No " ,The husband even if one cries for two and makes a noise is no use that three hang oneself. After all, as to the woman, before 25 years old, it is looks beauty such as flower the most in all one's life, the period that the youth flies upward; The man almost has no difference with him at the age of 10 before 25 years old, one young, the proverb is spoken " a man too young to grow a heard is not dependable" well ,So, which woman would like to hand over one's own happiness the child accomplishing nothing in a flighty and impatient air rashly and temporarily on the hand?
2,But 25 years old later, the successful rate that men and women blindly date is basically the same. Say " you chose you, I chose me " with the colloquial speech ,Everybody has and talks about " Yes " With " No " Right and chance,there are fair right and the applications of chance on and this kind. But should talk about the psychological advantage of blindlying date, the man should defeat raising. The reason is self-evident, after the course of changing in quality on the hair head that is gone through, the boy has become a man, just as the ugly pupa begins to represent the look of the beautiful butterfly, and may be more and more outstanding; On the contrary, the woman's florescence will enter autumn when cold wind huddle oneself up from beautiful and warm Xia Ri, whether could find the place that settle down and get on with one's work before severe winter coming, extremely urgent, sad.
3,Then 30 years old later? The man will be named " Improving " ,Certainly only need withstand parents Suo and plaintive and sad sight. But it is just opposite that the woman's situation is followed before 25 years old. Often take a fancy to by oneself, can not take a fancy to oneself; And take a fancy to one's own one, not perfectly willing. Time waste time soon, a beautiful one spoil mother, estimate, is every night difficult to sleep, the ordinary food and drink will not be thought of. (Fortunately, I rush to marry oneself at 30 years old, a sweat. )Second, blindly date in the only stage which must be passed by that blindlies date, it is one that seems to be easy, in fact knowledge advanced Dongdong.
Every times of the people of activity, N of experience, know, blindly date, have three period of stage:
The first stage looks around and accumulates one, it is affectedly shy, tense and uneasy to behave. The same as student's first time admission examination, uneasy, agitated in the heart, regard the situation as very grave or critical. The second time or the probability of the appointment will not be high again afterwards, generally all " once light " ,Since then, forget Yu JiangHu.
, would not be more nervous, will not be more choosy either. Basically see, and will not be shy again, it is too shy to ask many questions, but follow " Slice is alert " The same, to the other side's family, the hobby, the education, working and even aunt of seven aunts eight, niece's nephew all have at fingertips. In this period, if can meet one and get along well, the person whose conditions of various fields can regard as, must catch, is it in because this " in to time meet by right person " ,Can't have not good vainly hope, we want until " the dark blind person break stick off with the fingers and thumb " Story alarm oneself.
Issue of trusting to chance and strokes of luck at the third stage. Miss best time, as blindly date, turn suffering into again used to iting, good deed to the doer's credit in the next word depending on the previous existence can be done. Regret without any result, pin effection on on work or show filial respect for parents then, by the way wait to come down from the Heaven " The extremely large size pie " . Amen, bring blessings, can only bless.
In sum, no matter man man or woman woman, want in marry, shed or capture the sweet-smelling heart for period of gold oneself the most by oneself, also could comfort countless people's heart only in this way, Papa and Mama, relatives and friends, the most important thing is one's own one!


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