In love to have nothing to do with the house Want, say good-bye time such as love such as _ for house
The appearance is unworthy of but loves each other
I know Zhou Cheng's mother first, and then know Zhou Cheng's.
In autumn of 2006, I was in the health product of home
The company makes to a salesman, Zhou Cheng's mother is my customer, see once by irregular steps, I tell her some keeping in good health, sanitary knowledge. Perhaps it is that I speak gently, the personality is good, his mother likes me very much, It's nothing come to chat, still brought some fruits, would bring my son with her together unexpectedly finally.
On October 27 in the same year, I and Zhou Cheng make an appointment and meet at the gate of Beijing Hua Lian store of Zhengzhou. This one sees, I understood that sentence of his mother at last - -The city of city of my home, it is " melon not ripe " !
I 1.63 meters in height, but Cheng Zhou I high yet, and weight exceeds standard, 73 kilograms - -Really as if not ripe melon. When the hotel has a meal, he does not speak very much, I say, he is staring at me. Estimate, he is similar to what I thinks of - -It is not matched that too.
In fact, he does not have no advantage: Network senior engineer, the work is very busy, treat with courtesy more at ordinary times, but very filial, stay at home and accompany mother to chat, watch TV as soon as being free on weekend. Even after our love, strolling in the park will bring to the old man sometimes. He is still very careful, flower, book which I like, give an account of he remembers, often give me a pleasant surprise. All I found after contact slowly this.
For me at that time, a benevolent, responsible man is far more attractive than the man who has handsome appearance only.
We fall into love rapidly. After the love, we are happy too, quarrel too. I find slowly, Zhou Cheng is a piece of " petty " ,Any angry trifle thing often, make an apology voluntarily never, so we each quarrel over with compromise of me. However, think about he is good, I will not just care.
Up to now, I have thought, but for the hateful house, we should be able to come into the marriage.
The more the sadder houses are
Zhou Cheng has two elder sisters, the elder sister studies in Canada, has not got married yet. The second elder sister does small business in Zhengzhou, in Hunan mountain area, there is not a house in brother-in-law's native place, they have been living at parents' home all the time. Zhou Cheng's home, near the north ring of Zhengzhou, the houses of the drawing rooms of room two three, parents, Zhou Cheng, one respectively of second elder sister, live together peacefully. After our love, I stay and spend the night at his home too once in a while, the place is pretty good.
At the end of 2006, Zhou Cheng " April it " in pictures of parents A house of the Residential Area, should buy to us and get married and use. However, are still lack of several ten thousand yuan while paying the down payment. Two brothers-in-law of Zhou Cheng's say, he can borrow the money first, but should write his name in the house. Everybody is originally whole family, so his parents have just agreed.
Later on a everybody moves " April it " Bridal chamber,old house rent go out. Can be so, we have no house to get married.
At the end of 2007, Zhou Cheng parents saved up some money in the hand, bought a house for us in Dongfeng Road. His parents have paid 40,000 yuan of the down payment, 3700 yuan of monthly mortgage is born by us later. Because the economic pressure is too large, get the room we rent out. Then, a everybody still crowds in " April it " Second elder sister's family.
Dispute, begin from summer of 2008 buy house again. Zhou Cheng unit collected fund of father build room, because of cheap, he house scrape together, buy first also. In October, Zhou Cheng moves out of second elder sister's home with his parents, lives in a bridal chamber here.
At the end of the year, Zhou Cheng's elder sister comes back from Canada, lives in together too. She sticks with the second elder sister together everyday, plan to do business, even the second elder sister comes here in the evening, imprison, get up door have a chat with private elder sister. One day, it was pleasant to the ear that I had no intention they have talked about " house " .
As expected in a couple of days, elder sister, the second elder sister will call Zhou Cheng and me in the room and have a showdown, "two sisters and you both have rooms, I can't not have alone? This house and Dongfeng Road that set, you select one, the one left is mine. " The elder sister is straightforward. Finally, Cheng Zhou select Dongfeng Road those suit. The elder sister requires parents to make the property ownership certificate of this suite at present into her name again.
Subsequently, the elder sister urges us to move out quickly. But Dongfeng Road, that house, is being hired out, we can not live in. Zhou Cheng parents say that give us 30,000 yuan first, let us buy one more set of small types of house to live in. The elder sister is displeased, " why give them money again? "
That period of time, I am as if sitting on pins and needles at his home. Move out, but Zhou Cheng thinks, it is not filial that do not look after the old man! I blame his elder sister " Overbearing" ,He is unhappy too.
At the end of 2008, I am unable to endure any longer, propose saying good-bye, has never expected the city has not urged to stay at all in week, talk about this kind of wife not filial of mine " Do not want " .
Parents blame after departure
He no " Non- filial wife " ,I do not want " The man of house work with many thing " Woolen cloth, strike two to break up, it so happened. But my parents are unwilling.
Shortly after departure is the Spring Festival, I get back to Xinzheng native place. Parents, relative have seen that asks when to get married, I said I would say good-bye, mother does not believe, I have repeated it once, she raises one's hand on a slap on the face of mine of fan, say: "Assign to and assign to shutting jointly, you are still eighteen nine as you! "
Spend the Spring Festival while being whole, today aunt, two aunt pitch into the work by turns tomorrow, speak what I get married, following cousin, cousin can all do nothing about forming; Talk about lots of ages of my, the reality that and then found someone not to fall in love either, even if may not look for either than Zhou ChengQiang. I begin to review too. Zhou Cheng is really a good man, know that loves me, have sense of duty on also the family. Besides, his undergraduate course education, network senior engineer, the condition must not be chosen either.
After the Spring Festival, I get back to Zhengzhou, phone Zhou Cheng and want to become reconciled, has never expected he is so firm, one are subscribed, I " Do not want to support the old man, not filial " ,How to explain that won't do to take the post as me. For this reason, my parents run to look for Zhou Cheng from Xinzheng specially too. He has not refused the old man face to face, but the answer given to me in a wink is to " disagree " .
Last month, my mother was ill for this thing. I come back home, watch she, she first sentence still " you plan what time where does it marry? " I deceive she, say, look for one, she this does not better than, exhort me " strive for, run thing right away this year " !
Though I hope to come back to week city's side, know obviously he will not turn round easily. After but this year passes by, I
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