's guide of blindlying date till the end of the world of the looks of blindlying date
If you have first love, love deeply, say good-bye Some desserts suitable for diverting oneself after dinner like that; If you know the wonderful sexual love is a cup of cocktail, from adjusting the wine to empty a glass at one gulp to the lingering musical sound of lip of the tongue Enjoy and use women out and out
Right. You want to finish single life, till the end of the world, please enter the era of blindlying date in the marriage now!
Get married most popular to best embody equal statements of men and women, ask even " Get married " ,Seeing letting before getting married " Blindly date " . Last century, it represents a kind of civilization and progress to blindly date, become the modish emotional life mode for a time. Although
But hereafter, especially it was facing the condition smashed into pieces, laughed at and cast aside constantly in the most recent ten years, but finally because it shuts the doctrine of the golden mean at heart of compatriots most " The spring breeze blows and grows again " .
The ones that blindly date produce clouds with one turn of the hand and rain with another firsthandly - -Parents' group
After you have floated for more than 10 years like kite breaking, give parents a chance this time, they had decided to regret in order to let you look for the mistake of the scholarly honor of official rank that year for a long time. Must believe the old man transfer to you the silver grain like skillful her father Liu. He will command the relatives and friends from various places, including catching the big aunt of serious illness, she remembers the trust of your mother on the sick bed, look at you and say with the expression in one's eyes that will said farewell to soon: While I see, make a boyfriend quickly.
Their greatest advantage is to know all materials of persons who are analogous to of annual looks' not including eight generations, and make great efforts to learn the modernized weapon - -The mobile phone, e-commerce are used thoroughly, is extracted QQ number by them carelessly, the intimate eldest brother whom you met in the network, probably you reconnoiter the daddy who was soldier originally.
The chance of success: 20% . And the downward trend. Can treat it as working interview not essential.
The plot supposes - -
The target of blindlying date: Daddy's old companion's second wife's younger brother's son. Belong to newspaper, advertise for a life partner the intersection of man and copies of the intersection of bus and high one on the special column.
Make an appointment in in Beijing famous third seat in right-hand side of the main entrance of Beihai Park, the secret signal is with wearing the white muffler. How does it I wonder, President this make me remember the intersection of revolutionary martyr and the intersection of river and the intersection of snow and the intersection of musical instrument and comrade, begin, look for high will just in lineal and collaterals.
In order to express the attention to this activity, I had a perm on the previous day, that kind full of angry. And specially bought a newest CD lipstick to SOGO, the color of the lipstick is that fine arts designers are commonly used and red and yellow 100. I put on mother spend the polo-neck long sleeves in vain skirt for red bottom that me select meticulously, wear getting white maos of bib to press bottom of the case, go out of the door after parents' image to me expressed and affirmed fully. The most obvious climate characteristic is the sandstorm on the same day.
I have seen a car of man who wears and reports success bird brand suit high as what is desired, his surprised expression in one's eyes seems to look like and see the bizarre entity. After awkwardly silent 3 minutes, he says: " I have not expected you have a perm and still wipe red lip " . Then on the grounds of gale, disappear making the red flag in the rate of traffic flow.
A new vista:>The plot at the beginning, men and women protagonists are greatly disgusted with the other side's dress simultaneously, in addition the hearsay, assume subjectively, has performed and presented " arrogance and prejudice " which take the place of edition from now on, fortunately the result is that Jack shall have Jill, all shall be well.
Is two Na who Jin Xishan acted enough for different class? But the docile rule must make her mother nearly amazing while blindlying date. Whether you are Zhang Fei's cousin or Victorian elder sister, blindly date on the same day clothes, hairdo, dressing must be neat and in good taste, slovenly and intolerable equally while doing things creatively and slovenly.
Blindly date, what is the looks?
One mouth, one face who similar, where is it bad on earth? Collect many location blind dates and succeed and lady with happy life is handed down in a direct line from the master, " from top to bottom that get the Eight Character and pass, sound is combined " ,The concrete index is as follows - -
The socks: See the man's grade, it depends on his socks. Observe the socks mouth emerging on his foot conscientiously. Tie might ask whom high people give advice, the socks could reveal a moral standing location of his.
The leather shoes: If he goes to fulfill an appointment by car the leather shoes can't keep clean, you may have discrepancy to the standard of the personal hygiene.
Trouser pocket: If he is drawing selling machine, billfold, cigarette, lighter from the trouser pocket constantly Your future family may be like the grocery.
Belt: This concerns his health status. The belt is a waist - -If not too young or thin type innately, the free, energy that show him, healthy life; Tie on the belly - -Clockwork spring orange of picture of working hard of life; Tie slightly on the belly - -" the Three Tenors " Hold a by-election hand. The expression in one's eyes: See the man's intention, it depends on his expression in one's eyes. This seems very profound, it is in fact very simple, his expression in one's eyes makes you uncomfortable, needn't pester.
The position of sitting: If he " Win the plucked instrument " ,Unless you have the same defect, leave as soon as possible.
Walk: Perhaps the posture that he walks is not graceful enough, but if he will walk outside you voluntarily, also can be regarded as allowing the gentleman.
Catch the hand shape of the steering wheel: How he grasps the steering wheel, this can expose his moral integrity and courage and uprightness.
Blindly date produce clouds with one turn of the hand and rain with another secondhand - -Friend's group
Always some become direct relative in your friend through the fact that others introduce. It has justice that they are in love, can't bear to see you fall low in the towns and villages all over the country definitely.
The chance of success: 40% .
The plot supposes - -
The target of blindlying date: From various places friend offer thickness like one sharp one in the packs of photo of poker especially ' Have recorded this person's national native place working property and even interest hobby) of date of birth of height weight in detail behind the photo .
It is generally here to gamble the life" It is good " Have smoked one in option Zhong.
1.75 meters in height, weight is 70 kilograms, sons and younger brothers of the Eight Banners of Beijing born in A.D. 1973, IT employee, the hobby dances.
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Tuesday, April 30, 2013
I disguise oneself as _'s guide of blindlying date back to the fair maiden while blindlying date
I disguise oneself as _'s guide of blindlying date back to the fair maiden while blindlying date
While having supper, mother said, had a meal and went to bed earlier, did not stay up today, will go to see aunt Du give to that boy who you introduced tomorrow.
Put down the chopsticks, do I ask, is this named blindlying date? Mother have a look I for a moment
,Say to father, our girl is silly.
I am silly, blindly date two words are just like a pack of dynamite, shoo away bad all of my normal brain cells. What I think shivers all over, the hollow one be able to hold the next earth in the heart.
Having had a meal, having watched " wedding and conspiracy " of the TV station of Shandong, I have hung on the net again, hang ten hour already daytime, to extremely can't ask headache, hang, come up again now, really meet one's death like a hero, will really die on QQ if not doing a good job, can change one and hang devils. At I plan to will it be morning the next day, do the intersection of he and piece, disorderly, look forward to even tongue longer than small pox come on overnight, people see people's evil, no one will make my idea.
Surf the Net, feel more lost. Everybody is happy, in high spirits, I have a worried look, do not even have attention of nipping shelf. Looking for somebody to chat, others ignore me. Looking for me to chat, I am irritated again to want to commit suicide. Think of, want, blindly date, I regard the situation as very grave or critical, sad to come on from it.
Toss about until six o'clock in the morning, roll off the production line, buy back breakfast for the younger brother. Have a meal, mother smile breathe out say, small and graceful, you complexion seem right today, is it very glad? I say nothing, the won ton chokes in throat eyes, it is itching to break the TV.
At two o'clock in the afternoon, begin to wash and dress, plan to blindly date. For the thing in clothes, mother and I are big and noisy. I insist on piercing through the loose Korea S. edition to hold, can not find out the bust, wrap up that kind of the buttocks, disagree, say I look like a big sack to fill with coal piece in mother's life or death. She has taken out the thin and thin small overcoat for me, asks me to disguise as the fair maiden's appearance. I do not listen to, she scolds me, I scold her too, the family wails like ghosts and howls like wolves at one time, great disorder. Afford to wrinkle by brow at mother,plan tears whirling beginning to in I condemn by love and care, I compromised at last. Having put on that small overcoat, I retaliate against a piece of fat trousers not decent of set, 12 trouser pockets. Seven, eight supercilious looks that mother has turned over, I put on one side, she has not said anything. Then I, what the jacket is worn is gentle and quiet, it is slack and undisciplined to play the clothing, has reached the incongruous result that I want.
When over three o'clock, I saw good boy and his mother in that legend at aunt Du's home. Aunt Du smile as pieces of Maitreya Buddha, introduce each other to us. His name is Li Shuai, and I am of the same age. My looking at he, a face with honest and tolerant looks, the type which my mother likes carefully. Not very high, it is not 178 that I want, the height leg is short, the big potato of only picture. Previous I have asked mother, need to say nothing while blindlying date, mother says, it says something what is thought of. I suddenly thought of forgetting to feed the dog this noon, asked he had fed the dog now, he says his family has not raised dogs.
Handsome the intersection of purt and purt Li aslant a aslant one ask me many issue such as you like, wipe out anything later on, like playing with anything. I say I like eating oranges, what wanted to play not, generally having and surfing the Net. Unless there are surprised say on he, it is surf the Net not to like you,at how long,like I too, surf the Net on the two year I. I say, last two months for me. He is very glad to say, that is all right, it is good that the girl don't often surf the Net, several friends of mine often look for the love of one night, the present girl on the net, clicking the tongue.
What's the matter with the love of one night? I ask. Mouth circle that he is amazed by quickly. I wonder if why, I suddenly remembered another man, he once said to me, graceful, I have three years can come back to your side, if you can't take care, then let a man look after you, so long as you will not love him for exceeding me, go to bed without mattering, a woman likes with a man and likes having no differences with 100 men, wash to the clean good wife that you are still me.
Remembering that man, I am getting sad quickly. I am fidgety, want to leave. I have looked at mother, she and what Li Shuai's mother had a chat about are exultant, assume the air of into the appearance of the relative by marriage. Irritated in the heart, a stratagem comes to mind. I stretch handle stealthily into clothes pocket, touch to the mobile phone, find out, according to going down, the music is getting loud. I installed the mould and made taking the mobile phone out of kind, the ones that talked to oneself said, eh, it is me. Ah? What's the matter? No way, I can not go out now. Right? Well, I will go over at once not to worry.
Set telephone of giving free, I say to mum wooden wood in a hurry, let I, I must pass by. Mother's face is a little unhappy, should just blame me, Li Shuai's mother said, let her go, we have had a chat for a long time too, oh, it is very clever that I think it graceful, let's go to my home to have a meal next time. I hear, start running, run.
Go home evening, mother say I think the general Li pieces of fine child, the intersection of you and his praising you without a break move, you will really hold.
I have grunted.
Does mother say again, how about he that you feel?
I have grunted again, have said for a few days.
How about it,what how,I will fall in love as one piece potatoes big? Except that that large printing factory of his home can increase some weights for him, he has any advantage! Long fault, does not speak well, the opinion is vulgar. Not cool - not handsome - not individual -. But think about it is nothing bad with him, it may not not be a good thing that it is of great literary talent that he does not have, it is not so good as me, let me have an opportunity to take advantage of instead that clever. I may install and fall in love with him, the stable mother's father's heart, and then look for the target separately stealthily, at the opportune moment, I kick and open him, make an escape. He so dull-witted, I can do without extra effort, pretend pure appearance, he connect the intersection of hand and Yala of me with guarantee love. Hey hey.
But use up all one's tricks, miss the intersection of you and life always, the gamble 90 percent sure in I, do not dare to make a bet in vain. Let it be, let it be, let's forget this blind date. If mother comes to ask me again, I answer her without liking Li Shuai simply, the intersection of she and the intersection of threat and I, want, visit each other all their lives with me, I drown oneself in a river and commit suicide.
This first the intersection of blind date and experience of me, meet one big potato, whom he show one's teeth say to me, graceful, there are few fair maidens like you now.
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While having supper, mother said, had a meal and went to bed earlier, did not stay up today, will go to see aunt Du give to that boy who you introduced tomorrow.
Put down the chopsticks, do I ask, is this named blindlying date? Mother have a look I for a moment
,Say to father, our girl is silly.
I am silly, blindly date two words are just like a pack of dynamite, shoo away bad all of my normal brain cells. What I think shivers all over, the hollow one be able to hold the next earth in the heart.
Having had a meal, having watched " wedding and conspiracy " of the TV station of Shandong, I have hung on the net again, hang ten hour already daytime, to extremely can't ask headache, hang, come up again now, really meet one's death like a hero, will really die on QQ if not doing a good job, can change one and hang devils. At I plan to will it be morning the next day, do the intersection of he and piece, disorderly, look forward to even tongue longer than small pox come on overnight, people see people's evil, no one will make my idea.
Surf the Net, feel more lost. Everybody is happy, in high spirits, I have a worried look, do not even have attention of nipping shelf. Looking for somebody to chat, others ignore me. Looking for me to chat, I am irritated again to want to commit suicide. Think of, want, blindly date, I regard the situation as very grave or critical, sad to come on from it.
Toss about until six o'clock in the morning, roll off the production line, buy back breakfast for the younger brother. Have a meal, mother smile breathe out say, small and graceful, you complexion seem right today, is it very glad? I say nothing, the won ton chokes in throat eyes, it is itching to break the TV.
At two o'clock in the afternoon, begin to wash and dress, plan to blindly date. For the thing in clothes, mother and I are big and noisy. I insist on piercing through the loose Korea S. edition to hold, can not find out the bust, wrap up that kind of the buttocks, disagree, say I look like a big sack to fill with coal piece in mother's life or death. She has taken out the thin and thin small overcoat for me, asks me to disguise as the fair maiden's appearance. I do not listen to, she scolds me, I scold her too, the family wails like ghosts and howls like wolves at one time, great disorder. Afford to wrinkle by brow at mother,plan tears whirling beginning to in I condemn by love and care, I compromised at last. Having put on that small overcoat, I retaliate against a piece of fat trousers not decent of set, 12 trouser pockets. Seven, eight supercilious looks that mother has turned over, I put on one side, she has not said anything. Then I, what the jacket is worn is gentle and quiet, it is slack and undisciplined to play the clothing, has reached the incongruous result that I want.
When over three o'clock, I saw good boy and his mother in that legend at aunt Du's home. Aunt Du smile as pieces of Maitreya Buddha, introduce each other to us. His name is Li Shuai, and I am of the same age. My looking at he, a face with honest and tolerant looks, the type which my mother likes carefully. Not very high, it is not 178 that I want, the height leg is short, the big potato of only picture. Previous I have asked mother, need to say nothing while blindlying date, mother says, it says something what is thought of. I suddenly thought of forgetting to feed the dog this noon, asked he had fed the dog now, he says his family has not raised dogs.
Handsome the intersection of purt and purt Li aslant a aslant one ask me many issue such as you like, wipe out anything later on, like playing with anything. I say I like eating oranges, what wanted to play not, generally having and surfing the Net. Unless there are surprised say on he, it is surf the Net not to like you,at how long,like I too, surf the Net on the two year I. I say, last two months for me. He is very glad to say, that is all right, it is good that the girl don't often surf the Net, several friends of mine often look for the love of one night, the present girl on the net, clicking the tongue.
What's the matter with the love of one night? I ask. Mouth circle that he is amazed by quickly. I wonder if why, I suddenly remembered another man, he once said to me, graceful, I have three years can come back to your side, if you can't take care, then let a man look after you, so long as you will not love him for exceeding me, go to bed without mattering, a woman likes with a man and likes having no differences with 100 men, wash to the clean good wife that you are still me.
Remembering that man, I am getting sad quickly. I am fidgety, want to leave. I have looked at mother, she and what Li Shuai's mother had a chat about are exultant, assume the air of into the appearance of the relative by marriage. Irritated in the heart, a stratagem comes to mind. I stretch handle stealthily into clothes pocket, touch to the mobile phone, find out, according to going down, the music is getting loud. I installed the mould and made taking the mobile phone out of kind, the ones that talked to oneself said, eh, it is me. Ah? What's the matter? No way, I can not go out now. Right? Well, I will go over at once not to worry.
Set telephone of giving free, I say to mum wooden wood in a hurry, let I, I must pass by. Mother's face is a little unhappy, should just blame me, Li Shuai's mother said, let her go, we have had a chat for a long time too, oh, it is very clever that I think it graceful, let's go to my home to have a meal next time. I hear, start running, run.
Go home evening, mother say I think the general Li pieces of fine child, the intersection of you and his praising you without a break move, you will really hold.
I have grunted.
Does mother say again, how about he that you feel?
I have grunted again, have said for a few days.
How about it,what how,I will fall in love as one piece potatoes big? Except that that large printing factory of his home can increase some weights for him, he has any advantage! Long fault, does not speak well, the opinion is vulgar. Not cool - not handsome - not individual -. But think about it is nothing bad with him, it may not not be a good thing that it is of great literary talent that he does not have, it is not so good as me, let me have an opportunity to take advantage of instead that clever. I may install and fall in love with him, the stable mother's father's heart, and then look for the target separately stealthily, at the opportune moment, I kick and open him, make an escape. He so dull-witted, I can do without extra effort, pretend pure appearance, he connect the intersection of hand and Yala of me with guarantee love. Hey hey.
But use up all one's tricks, miss the intersection of you and life always, the gamble 90 percent sure in I, do not dare to make a bet in vain. Let it be, let it be, let's forget this blind date. If mother comes to ask me again, I answer her without liking Li Shuai simply, the intersection of she and the intersection of threat and I, want, visit each other all their lives with me, I drown oneself in a river and commit suicide.
This first the intersection of blind date and experience of me, meet one big potato, whom he show one's teeth say to me, graceful, there are few fair maidens like you now.
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How to choose the restaurant while blindlying date
How to choose the restaurant while blindlying date
Awkward and sensitive to blindly date and have a meal. Environment, ornamental atmosphere, ambience, choice, quality of product, traffic of this place of geographical position, going where one stays of taste of whole of the restaurant, there is cost performance,etc. considered synthetically, are all important factors. Thus, select, get one appropriate restaurant come, blindly date, difficulty itself easy than blindly date.
You can't choose some fast food restaurant come, blindly date at first, seem you sample no, the second environment is too noisy, " the communication basically depends on roaring " ,Say some everything should shout tearing the throat, it is itching to let the people around all know you are blindlying date, is it silly to rise more? ! So the environment, elegant this, is very important, How do you do, both sides behave a bit more gracefully more reasonably, people relax, the sincere words " gurgle " And come.
Certainly usually the pre-capita consumption will be a little bit higher in such place, but if you watch right eyes, what is the money? Use the flower? Really think that feels sorry, propose AA has in advance. Present girl to it takes boys to be the host to entertain simply, have beginning clear, can have under the situation hereinbelow still just in you, the comparative science of the Dutch treatment, bearing each other and psychological pressure.
Taste and quality of producing are very key factors. Blindly date and have a meal, the nothing difference of in fact having meal with two strangers together, does not find out about taste and eating habit of the other side each other, it is hot whether to for example can eat or not, for example have something else and does not eat such as this kind of attentive matters, whether the other side is very particular about, study to eating, can eat very well very much, if these can do a general understanding in advance, have a little help more or less in choosing the restaurant, this was said at ordinary times by us " Get rid of the law " .
Have dinner place had better choose on downtown area quiet, the intersection of suburb and inconvenient traffic very much, the other side think that and have to let" Harbor evil intentions " Dislike," whether last places such a remote first appointment " ,If is a girl, such suspicion will arise mostly. So the place to have a meal, had better look for a piece of gold to click in two people more convenient areas. Environment around the restaurant had better too reasonable, needn't pierce through street walk lane cross the intersection of rubbish and hillock, scale and ford, reach even, the traffic should be more smoothly too, regardless of calling a taxi or using the public means of transportation, can all be easier to find, go to.
How much silver total cost performance also should be considered, blindly date and have a meal and probably hope to cost, some these have pieces of kind table in the heart, even if you have " look at money such as dung and dirt " Spirit,but think bill of silver or bank at small bag so.
If confirm the place to have a meal, you had better book a seat ahead of time, that kind by the window. Say the window seat will let people's mood be optimistic, the ability to accept to the fresh things can be a bit stronger in theory - --You are her biggest fresh things at present, certainly hope to leave a bright impression on her during the time of a meal meal.
Choose one restaurant, it takes anything to be test attention of you, have a dinner. If you are a man, the initiative of ordering can be given to girls, the first reveals your poise, the second is the first barrier of considering the girl too. A person's personality can find out some clues from food that she likes more or less, for example like the sweet girl perhaps the personality is comparatively quiet, the so salty girl may be a little stubborn, it is more optimistic to like hot girl's personality, perhaps the girl with dull taste is a bit proud, wait a moment, certainly this is only a kind of probability too, understand the concrete personality specifically. Any important, while ordering, the girl can consider your eating habit, respect taste of you, require detail these can reflect girl to someone else's respecting and careful intensity.
Pieces of dish knowledge have grown up, has eaten anything and concerned image and primary impression. If the girl comes up to give you Dongdong that chicken's claw or rabbit's head,etc. needs gnawing sinister in appearancely, obviously she is not very good to your primary impression, does not this become the heart is difficult? One's table manner is no doubt important, but one pile of points let you take the cuisine of the table manner into account, not also any reasonable thing, give to somebody and has not felt very sincerity at least. Certainly, if the boy orders, please avoid these dishes.
Needn't etiquette having dinner in the the course be spoken more? Don't break the mouth loudly, don't pick the tooth in public, don't wave the chopsticks, cutlery and speak, please keep silent when there is food in the mouth, remember inserting dishes for the girl with the serving chopsticks or public tableware, the thing of general knowledge the has not been launched discussing here.
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Awkward and sensitive to blindly date and have a meal. Environment, ornamental atmosphere, ambience, choice, quality of product, traffic of this place of geographical position, going where one stays of taste of whole of the restaurant, there is cost performance,etc. considered synthetically, are all important factors. Thus, select, get one appropriate restaurant come, blindly date, difficulty itself easy than blindly date.
You can't choose some fast food restaurant come, blindly date at first, seem you sample no, the second environment is too noisy, " the communication basically depends on roaring " ,Say some everything should shout tearing the throat, it is itching to let the people around all know you are blindlying date, is it silly to rise more? ! So the environment, elegant this, is very important, How do you do, both sides behave a bit more gracefully more reasonably, people relax, the sincere words " gurgle " And come.
Certainly usually the pre-capita consumption will be a little bit higher in such place, but if you watch right eyes, what is the money? Use the flower? Really think that feels sorry, propose AA has in advance. Present girl to it takes boys to be the host to entertain simply, have beginning clear, can have under the situation hereinbelow still just in you, the comparative science of the Dutch treatment, bearing each other and psychological pressure.
Taste and quality of producing are very key factors. Blindly date and have a meal, the nothing difference of in fact having meal with two strangers together, does not find out about taste and eating habit of the other side each other, it is hot whether to for example can eat or not, for example have something else and does not eat such as this kind of attentive matters, whether the other side is very particular about, study to eating, can eat very well very much, if these can do a general understanding in advance, have a little help more or less in choosing the restaurant, this was said at ordinary times by us " Get rid of the law " .
Have dinner place had better choose on downtown area quiet, the intersection of suburb and inconvenient traffic very much, the other side think that and have to let" Harbor evil intentions " Dislike," whether last places such a remote first appointment " ,If is a girl, such suspicion will arise mostly. So the place to have a meal, had better look for a piece of gold to click in two people more convenient areas. Environment around the restaurant had better too reasonable, needn't pierce through street walk lane cross the intersection of rubbish and hillock, scale and ford, reach even, the traffic should be more smoothly too, regardless of calling a taxi or using the public means of transportation, can all be easier to find, go to.
How much silver total cost performance also should be considered, blindly date and have a meal and probably hope to cost, some these have pieces of kind table in the heart, even if you have " look at money such as dung and dirt " Spirit,but think bill of silver or bank at small bag so.
If confirm the place to have a meal, you had better book a seat ahead of time, that kind by the window. Say the window seat will let people's mood be optimistic, the ability to accept to the fresh things can be a bit stronger in theory - --You are her biggest fresh things at present, certainly hope to leave a bright impression on her during the time of a meal meal.
Choose one restaurant, it takes anything to be test attention of you, have a dinner. If you are a man, the initiative of ordering can be given to girls, the first reveals your poise, the second is the first barrier of considering the girl too. A person's personality can find out some clues from food that she likes more or less, for example like the sweet girl perhaps the personality is comparatively quiet, the so salty girl may be a little stubborn, it is more optimistic to like hot girl's personality, perhaps the girl with dull taste is a bit proud, wait a moment, certainly this is only a kind of probability too, understand the concrete personality specifically. Any important, while ordering, the girl can consider your eating habit, respect taste of you, require detail these can reflect girl to someone else's respecting and careful intensity.
Pieces of dish knowledge have grown up, has eaten anything and concerned image and primary impression. If the girl comes up to give you Dongdong that chicken's claw or rabbit's head,etc. needs gnawing sinister in appearancely, obviously she is not very good to your primary impression, does not this become the heart is difficult? One's table manner is no doubt important, but one pile of points let you take the cuisine of the table manner into account, not also any reasonable thing, give to somebody and has not felt very sincerity at least. Certainly, if the boy orders, please avoid these dishes.
Needn't etiquette having dinner in the the course be spoken more? Don't break the mouth loudly, don't pick the tooth in public, don't wave the chopsticks, cutlery and speak, please keep silent when there is food in the mouth, remember inserting dishes for the girl with the serving chopsticks or public tableware, the thing of general knowledge the has not been launched discussing here.
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borrowed is single to blindly date in man's BMW
borrowed is single to blindly date in man's BMW
That day, the sky ravaged for a long time by the haze was fine with great difficulty, the fresh breeze is lifting the curtain, kiss windowsill of warm sun - -With spring in all its brightness and charm, it is really an auspicious day. Exactly at this moment, chrysanthemum pretty call, the story that said in a kindly and informal fashion, thin sorrow. Does she ask timidly and timidly, this can be regarded as a love? Can be regarded as an experience?
Blindly date in man's BMW and is borrowed
The graceful man is a temporary labourer
Having passed on the 28th birthday, I seem to see age such as flood swells fiercely. At that time, a lot of friends got married successively, the ones that did not get married are being fermented too, on I or loner, daddy it is worried for Mummy to begin, seven major the intersection of aunt and eight aunt speak leisurely mood, stand up garrulously in one's ear in me too. Under their kind consideration, I have begun endless " blindly date on the way " ,But those men, either I dislike them for being dirty, or parents hate them having no money.
I begin to advertise for a life partner in some websites register. One evening, I landed websites just now, met a boy who calls the Chinese sweet gum by chance. Anyway it is boring, have a chat with him! Not having a chat, it is surprising to have a chat! I find, his interest and hobby
Unexpectedly the picture like this with me, and he has erudite knowledge, have an uncommon style of conversation.
Otherwise we meet have a chat? He says throwing a stone to clear the road.
That day I did not promise, I said I wanted to go to bed earlier, thought the girl should keep restrained a bit.
It is in a coffee shop that the first blind date of ours is met, my impression to him is better comparing with the time of meeting, he praises me ceaselessly too " Much more beautiful than in his imagination " . He plays the conversation in a gay manner, but I have not written with a free pen at the time of voice-enabled chat, a bit overcautious, also the haphazard feeling fan of some purpose. Half on the day, the Chinese sweet gum was not asked my view on the marriage, I said in all seriousness, at first, he needs and I am well-matched in social and economic status; Secondly, he should have " three hearts " --Sense of responsibility, dedication and enterprise. He nods in the place with a spurious smile.
Then, we mention the mutual work, I tell him proudly I am a civil servant, there are smile on he, it say whether I am to to realtor " work as a temporary labourer " .
Hear these three words, I am a burst of convulsion. I thought of the Chinese sweet gum and perhaps worked as a temporary labourer in a small-scale property firm in Changsha, the salary was originally low, add the financial crisis, has lived a extremely more frustrated life. Thinking so, I express my idea immediately: I want to look for a man with steady job, because our job disparity is too great, we are improper!
Chinese sweet gum flash one sad silk immediately at the face, he want until what I say, explain. I speak too awkward endlessly sentence that, afford to have no will of one's own, have left the scene like fleeing from.
Chinese sweet gum stand in gate, afford to stare blankly. At that time, I did not turn round, I thought, how I hope that Chinese sweet gum is not a temporary labourer!
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That day, the sky ravaged for a long time by the haze was fine with great difficulty, the fresh breeze is lifting the curtain, kiss windowsill of warm sun - -With spring in all its brightness and charm, it is really an auspicious day. Exactly at this moment, chrysanthemum pretty call, the story that said in a kindly and informal fashion, thin sorrow. Does she ask timidly and timidly, this can be regarded as a love? Can be regarded as an experience?
Blindly date in man's BMW and is borrowed
The graceful man is a temporary labourer
Having passed on the 28th birthday, I seem to see age such as flood swells fiercely. At that time, a lot of friends got married successively, the ones that did not get married are being fermented too, on I or loner, daddy it is worried for Mummy to begin, seven major the intersection of aunt and eight aunt speak leisurely mood, stand up garrulously in one's ear in me too. Under their kind consideration, I have begun endless " blindly date on the way " ,But those men, either I dislike them for being dirty, or parents hate them having no money.
I begin to advertise for a life partner in some websites register. One evening, I landed websites just now, met a boy who calls the Chinese sweet gum by chance. Anyway it is boring, have a chat with him! Not having a chat, it is surprising to have a chat! I find, his interest and hobby
Unexpectedly the picture like this with me, and he has erudite knowledge, have an uncommon style of conversation.
Otherwise we meet have a chat? He says throwing a stone to clear the road.
That day I did not promise, I said I wanted to go to bed earlier, thought the girl should keep restrained a bit.
It is in a coffee shop that the first blind date of ours is met, my impression to him is better comparing with the time of meeting, he praises me ceaselessly too " Much more beautiful than in his imagination " . He plays the conversation in a gay manner, but I have not written with a free pen at the time of voice-enabled chat, a bit overcautious, also the haphazard feeling fan of some purpose. Half on the day, the Chinese sweet gum was not asked my view on the marriage, I said in all seriousness, at first, he needs and I am well-matched in social and economic status; Secondly, he should have " three hearts " --Sense of responsibility, dedication and enterprise. He nods in the place with a spurious smile.
Then, we mention the mutual work, I tell him proudly I am a civil servant, there are smile on he, it say whether I am to to realtor " work as a temporary labourer " .
Hear these three words, I am a burst of convulsion. I thought of the Chinese sweet gum and perhaps worked as a temporary labourer in a small-scale property firm in Changsha, the salary was originally low, add the financial crisis, has lived a extremely more frustrated life. Thinking so, I express my idea immediately: I want to look for a man with steady job, because our job disparity is too great, we are improper!
Chinese sweet gum flash one sad silk immediately at the face, he want until what I say, explain. I speak too awkward endlessly sentence that, afford to have no will of one's own, have left the scene like fleeing from.
Chinese sweet gum stand in gate, afford to stare blankly. At that time, I did not turn round, I thought, how I hope that Chinese sweet gum is not a temporary labourer!
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Those dirty men _'s guides of blindlying date met while blindlying date
Those dirty men _'s guides of blindlying date met while blindlying date
33 -year-old Li Hong lives the single life that flowers blooming like a piece of brocade, has never believed that can become the luck fellow of the emotion oneself. Meeting A, he is merciless; Meeting B, he is of wretched appearance; Meeting C, he is selfish; Meeting D, he feels self-humiliation. Really who can let her dare to believe.
The light was had at the beginning, assistant Amy and I just had a meal, two people passed by Wan Chai. On the left is noisy Central commercial mansion, an flashing one on the right is the neon lamp in Causeway Bay's, bustling with vehicles, the passerby shuttles back and forth in a hurry to departly. The rosy clouds all over the sky, it is unable to let noisily to come down quietly.
" flowers blooming like a piece of brocade " ,Amy says in this way. Yes,this be can used for and lasted our instituted pieces of word in the city,this era not living in, even my life. Engaged in medicine popularize trade, meet with a variety of personage every day, speech laugh at, say goodbye to, meet and then. Money and fulfillment, increase like age, seem to be the luck fellow of the business society, also cause all good sisters to care about this of mine one after another " The woman noble of diamond " Whereabouts question. Even people covet say attacking by innuendo: Unless sisters red, so persevering,really it is women ordinary can,but when is for end.
By this time, I will remember L. Think sometimes
It is being apt to rotate that thinking about not to come curved. I am in unrequited love with L for two years, associate for two years each other, later L flew to U.S.A. and pursued the Ph.D, the contacts became more and more intermittent hereafter, break off the message for about three years finally. It is a section of simple such relations, but just let me suffocate for it, it is unable to stay in Beijing, would rather change one's profession, then with the help of relative of distant place, go to Hong Kong to make a living.
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33 -year-old Li Hong lives the single life that flowers blooming like a piece of brocade, has never believed that can become the luck fellow of the emotion oneself. Meeting A, he is merciless; Meeting B, he is of wretched appearance; Meeting C, he is selfish; Meeting D, he feels self-humiliation. Really who can let her dare to believe.
The light was had at the beginning, assistant Amy and I just had a meal, two people passed by Wan Chai. On the left is noisy Central commercial mansion, an flashing one on the right is the neon lamp in Causeway Bay's, bustling with vehicles, the passerby shuttles back and forth in a hurry to departly. The rosy clouds all over the sky, it is unable to let noisily to come down quietly.
" flowers blooming like a piece of brocade " ,Amy says in this way. Yes,this be can used for and lasted our instituted pieces of word in the city,this era not living in, even my life. Engaged in medicine popularize trade, meet with a variety of personage every day, speech laugh at, say goodbye to, meet and then. Money and fulfillment, increase like age, seem to be the luck fellow of the business society, also cause all good sisters to care about this of mine one after another " The woman noble of diamond " Whereabouts question. Even people covet say attacking by innuendo: Unless sisters red, so persevering,really it is women ordinary can,but when is for end.
By this time, I will remember L. Think sometimes
It is being apt to rotate that thinking about not to come curved. I am in unrequited love with L for two years, associate for two years each other, later L flew to U.S.A. and pursued the Ph.D, the contacts became more and more intermittent hereafter, break off the message for about three years finally. It is a section of simple such relations, but just let me suffocate for it, it is unable to stay in Beijing, would rather change one's profession, then with the help of relative of distant place, go to Hong Kong to make a living.
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Encounter lechers while blindlying date is single the first night that deceived and lost
Encounter lechers while blindlying date is single the first night that deceived and lost
Parents force me to blindly date again and again
I am 29 years old, is a company clerk. Because of good at speech, it is lighter to enclose communication, it is introverted to combine with, has stepped into the ranks of the adult single unconsciously. In the past
I have been never one's own personal question when matter, all worry for my marriage wedding as relatives and friends, I have crisis awareness. Hear mother's every day's urgency sound, my pressure is larger and larger, though I do not like blindlying date in this way, but for not allowing mother to chatter, I meet those men under the matchmaker's arrangement again and again. Can see much, not a person is suitable.
One day of last November, colleague Xiao Li found me mysteriously, said and introduced a perfect match man to me. In Li's mouth while as a child, I knew the husband is 30 years old, lived in Ningbo suburbs, it was a taxi driver. This kind of job that I do not like the driver very much, originally want to refuse Xiao Li's good intention, but see she is so enthusiastic and a bit uneasy, think about oneself go straight three the intersection of age and single one people already after all, have what reason refuse to blindly date and then? Then agree to meet first reluctantly.
He pays no attention to my indifference
The man is called Wang Ping, stature is about one meter Sixth Five-Year Plan Period, the person looks general, I feel very unsatisfactory after seeing, but Wang Ping is unusually hospitable to me. Xiao Li jokes we have about equal stature, it is the golden boy that matches the teenage girl, I tell her not to speak carelessly, but an improper thing that she grins.
Wang Ping should invite Xiao Li and me to dinner voluntarily, he asks me whether can leave a telephone to him or not. I have told him the telephone number out of being courteous. That meal is basically that Xiao Li is speaking alone, my expression is thin. I thought Wang Ping saw I was sure to beat a retreat to his neither very warm nor cold attitude, not thinking of the next day, I just turned on the mobile phone early in the morning, received Wang Ping's message. The message content is very simple, " it is cool these days, add garments while going out, so as not to catch a cold " . I am hot after finishing thinking, in so many years, opposite sex never cared about me like this. In one week later, I will receive similar information every morning, my heart has been moved by Wang Ping slowly.
When I plan to accept this emotion, face apology of Xiao Li tells me that Wang Ping divorces, she said she did not know either in the past, thought Wang Ping was single, so introduced to me. Having listened to her, I have been just gone out in the twinkling of an eye by the enthusiasm lighting.
Though I am very cold to Wang Ping's telephone, Wang Ping often phones to look for me to chat, I am perfunctory courteously once in a while for being courteous, but the invitation to Wang Ping, I do not always go to fulfill an appointment with various excuses.
Wan reach Ping Wang invite me go there play again open such as square, I ponder on the past and future it thinks to be no way even so always, make thing clear, let Wang Ping die the heart to me face to face. So, I went to fulfill an appointment that day.
Because of feeling self-humiliation So move
Without too much transition, I ask Wang Ping whether Wang Ping divorce without preamble. Wang Ping says so very candidly. I ask why divorce, Wang Ping says he can not stand former wife's playing mahjong every day, he chose to divorce after being married for three years. I ask think in any case, I can't look for a one that divorced either at will just at that time. I thought so that it was mostly that it did not injure Wang Ping's self-esteem how to say at that time, can let Wang Ping understand that does not want to associate with him again oneself. A gust of cold wind has been blown through at this moment, one is cold and quiver that I can't help hitting. Wang Ping sees this, takes off the clothes on the body at once, wraps to it on me. I did not originally think of to the mouth if associating again, saw Wang Ping was so careful to oneself, swallow this sentence.
Coming back home, mother and I talked about the thing that Wang Ping divorced, mother said my age was not little, should relax the condition of choosing spouse some, choose a few years and can not really marry, divorce and does not blame him, anyway they have no child, it does not matter to divorce. Think of Wang Ping to oneself so diligently, combine with advice of mother, I determine and then with some time such as contacts such as Wang Ping.
One day, Wang Ping took out a box attractive in packing to give to me, I opened and looked, it is a new mobile phone to mix telephone number. When I accept the present cheerfully, this telephone number charge bidirectionally to read the question sentence smoothly? Wang Ping who has never expected one sentence is not be in the mood for bore in mind unexpectedly, he brought a cell-phone number of one-way charge to me the next day, this makes me very moved.
Love should beautiful a pure one in the heart in me, but a word of Ping Wang make that kind so bright as to ice quickly. We and for example went to have a meal equally usually that day, ate meals, Wang Ping put forward wanting to go to open a room to me suddenly. I have not understood his meaning at the beginning, when I find his intention out, I can not accept. I have refused him with extremely abominable attitude, and tell he himself it is not a very careless woman.
Two people parted on bad term that day. Afterwards, I think of saying good-bye again, but the friends all say I am too suspicious, this is a normal requirement. They think my age not little unanimously, it is difficult to meet one appropriately.
She was calculated by him at last
After this, Wang Ping has not phoned me for a long time, the attitude thinking about it one's own that day perhaps really frightened to him. Then I make the telephone to Wang Ping voluntarily, ask why he has not looked for me so for a long time. Wang Ping just says he has been very busy recently, a over section looks for me if having time. Every several days, Wang Ping really makes over telephone. He lets me accompany him to go back to home once, sees his parents.
Actually agreed to go on the same day on the same day to go back, had never expected Wang Ping went to friend's place to have a meal after getting home, been having it very late all the time. Going home so late has no car, sees my awkward appearance, Wang Ping's mother says the family room is numerous, just lived in Wang Ping next door by me. Can tidy up as the intersection of I and everything appropriate to plan sleep, the door next door can not be opened really. Let him help to open on the door where I knock open Wang Ping, has never expected Wang Ping sees me come in, have me in one's arms, no matter how I struggle, Wang Ping clings to like grim death. I am broken through by Wang Ping in the last line of defence. The next day, it is being full and ventral and hurt and wronged that bringing I went home. I am not sure again to our emotion at this moment, my comfort Wang Ping likes me, he will marry me, otherwise will not occupy me. But one day, two days, three days I wait for him to look for me again earnestly, but he does not even have a telephone.
Expect that has already developed into this kind of intensity with him by oneself, I put down the girl's
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Parents force me to blindly date again and again
I am 29 years old, is a company clerk. Because of good at speech, it is lighter to enclose communication, it is introverted to combine with, has stepped into the ranks of the adult single unconsciously. In the past
I have been never one's own personal question when matter, all worry for my marriage wedding as relatives and friends, I have crisis awareness. Hear mother's every day's urgency sound, my pressure is larger and larger, though I do not like blindlying date in this way, but for not allowing mother to chatter, I meet those men under the matchmaker's arrangement again and again. Can see much, not a person is suitable.
One day of last November, colleague Xiao Li found me mysteriously, said and introduced a perfect match man to me. In Li's mouth while as a child, I knew the husband is 30 years old, lived in Ningbo suburbs, it was a taxi driver. This kind of job that I do not like the driver very much, originally want to refuse Xiao Li's good intention, but see she is so enthusiastic and a bit uneasy, think about oneself go straight three the intersection of age and single one people already after all, have what reason refuse to blindly date and then? Then agree to meet first reluctantly.
He pays no attention to my indifference
The man is called Wang Ping, stature is about one meter Sixth Five-Year Plan Period, the person looks general, I feel very unsatisfactory after seeing, but Wang Ping is unusually hospitable to me. Xiao Li jokes we have about equal stature, it is the golden boy that matches the teenage girl, I tell her not to speak carelessly, but an improper thing that she grins.
Wang Ping should invite Xiao Li and me to dinner voluntarily, he asks me whether can leave a telephone to him or not. I have told him the telephone number out of being courteous. That meal is basically that Xiao Li is speaking alone, my expression is thin. I thought Wang Ping saw I was sure to beat a retreat to his neither very warm nor cold attitude, not thinking of the next day, I just turned on the mobile phone early in the morning, received Wang Ping's message. The message content is very simple, " it is cool these days, add garments while going out, so as not to catch a cold " . I am hot after finishing thinking, in so many years, opposite sex never cared about me like this. In one week later, I will receive similar information every morning, my heart has been moved by Wang Ping slowly.
When I plan to accept this emotion, face apology of Xiao Li tells me that Wang Ping divorces, she said she did not know either in the past, thought Wang Ping was single, so introduced to me. Having listened to her, I have been just gone out in the twinkling of an eye by the enthusiasm lighting.
Though I am very cold to Wang Ping's telephone, Wang Ping often phones to look for me to chat, I am perfunctory courteously once in a while for being courteous, but the invitation to Wang Ping, I do not always go to fulfill an appointment with various excuses.
Wan reach Ping Wang invite me go there play again open such as square, I ponder on the past and future it thinks to be no way even so always, make thing clear, let Wang Ping die the heart to me face to face. So, I went to fulfill an appointment that day.
Because of feeling self-humiliation So move
Without too much transition, I ask Wang Ping whether Wang Ping divorce without preamble. Wang Ping says so very candidly. I ask why divorce, Wang Ping says he can not stand former wife's playing mahjong every day, he chose to divorce after being married for three years. I ask think in any case, I can't look for a one that divorced either at will just at that time. I thought so that it was mostly that it did not injure Wang Ping's self-esteem how to say at that time, can let Wang Ping understand that does not want to associate with him again oneself. A gust of cold wind has been blown through at this moment, one is cold and quiver that I can't help hitting. Wang Ping sees this, takes off the clothes on the body at once, wraps to it on me. I did not originally think of to the mouth if associating again, saw Wang Ping was so careful to oneself, swallow this sentence.
Coming back home, mother and I talked about the thing that Wang Ping divorced, mother said my age was not little, should relax the condition of choosing spouse some, choose a few years and can not really marry, divorce and does not blame him, anyway they have no child, it does not matter to divorce. Think of Wang Ping to oneself so diligently, combine with advice of mother, I determine and then with some time such as contacts such as Wang Ping.
One day, Wang Ping took out a box attractive in packing to give to me, I opened and looked, it is a new mobile phone to mix telephone number. When I accept the present cheerfully, this telephone number charge bidirectionally to read the question sentence smoothly? Wang Ping who has never expected one sentence is not be in the mood for bore in mind unexpectedly, he brought a cell-phone number of one-way charge to me the next day, this makes me very moved.
Love should beautiful a pure one in the heart in me, but a word of Ping Wang make that kind so bright as to ice quickly. We and for example went to have a meal equally usually that day, ate meals, Wang Ping put forward wanting to go to open a room to me suddenly. I have not understood his meaning at the beginning, when I find his intention out, I can not accept. I have refused him with extremely abominable attitude, and tell he himself it is not a very careless woman.
Two people parted on bad term that day. Afterwards, I think of saying good-bye again, but the friends all say I am too suspicious, this is a normal requirement. They think my age not little unanimously, it is difficult to meet one appropriately.
She was calculated by him at last
After this, Wang Ping has not phoned me for a long time, the attitude thinking about it one's own that day perhaps really frightened to him. Then I make the telephone to Wang Ping voluntarily, ask why he has not looked for me so for a long time. Wang Ping just says he has been very busy recently, a over section looks for me if having time. Every several days, Wang Ping really makes over telephone. He lets me accompany him to go back to home once, sees his parents.
Actually agreed to go on the same day on the same day to go back, had never expected Wang Ping went to friend's place to have a meal after getting home, been having it very late all the time. Going home so late has no car, sees my awkward appearance, Wang Ping's mother says the family room is numerous, just lived in Wang Ping next door by me. Can tidy up as the intersection of I and everything appropriate to plan sleep, the door next door can not be opened really. Let him help to open on the door where I knock open Wang Ping, has never expected Wang Ping sees me come in, have me in one's arms, no matter how I struggle, Wang Ping clings to like grim death. I am broken through by Wang Ping in the last line of defence. The next day, it is being full and ventral and hurt and wronged that bringing I went home. I am not sure again to our emotion at this moment, my comfort Wang Ping likes me, he will marry me, otherwise will not occupy me. But one day, two days, three days I wait for him to look for me again earnestly, but he does not even have a telephone.
Expect that has already developed into this kind of intensity with him by oneself, I put down the girl's
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Blindly date overflow love of era really very " L The bone sense " R
Blindly date, overflow love of era really very " L The bone sense " R
A clicking only several days amount exceeds 10 The models of ten thousand times>,Let Xu Yang Zhang obtain one " L The most rule blind date civil servant " . 32 -year-old he hold office in one organ in Luoyang in Henan, call oneself " L Either is blindlying date over the past three years, or on the way of blindlying date " ,Have participated in some famous friend-making program, has still had no result. While frequently is interviewed by newspaper, exposes the TV programming, he explodes and comes from innovative discipline again " L China blindlies date and studies " R And is devoted to its popularization, and plan to run blindlying date in the school. (March 17 >)
Era has been developed, scientific and technological progress, the material is abundant, but people choose spouse ability is degrading. It blindlies date once a year to be really the intersection of thunder and people very much, this kind of record seems to apply for Guiness Records. Actually this is not so, as to the thing that numerous at present" L Have the man left and have the woman left " R Come to talk, even not overstate as Xu Yang Zhang, can blindly date the number of times is still many times of young men and women's before ten or twenty years. Opposite exactly, the more number of times of blindlying date is, the lower the probability succeeding is. It can make people smart more to blindly date, Xu Yang Zhang illustrates, several hundred blind dates let him acquaint the ability of seeing through the other side in half an hour in training. Have way originally in the world, take large to have Luis; Have, blindly date treasured book originally in this world, looks getting many to not only has, may even become " L Blindly date and study " ,People so become precise step by step.
People are cleverer and cleverer, because of the development of the media, the wider the range of the choice is, a local one not all right to look for other places, not native not all right to look for not foreign, even what be after year, the earth is not all right, look for the alien one and all have. However, even so convenient, so swift, " L Have the man left and have the woman left " R More and more instead,in a word, there are getting more and more on lonely person. In conformity with this era, the marriage love is followed too " L Raise speed " ,As will be sung in the song, " L Even if on hurriedly at one glance, are destined we to love each other " ," The wedding flashes to flash and leave " R Compatriot getting small more number,really stimulate fashionable and, getting more interesting also. People, for being fresh, now, through network and person that TV blindly date being to rise violently constantly. The audience rating of the program of blindlying date rises suddenly, the host has a sudden rise in social status, such as>Unless watch several hundred million people each issue, there are getting more lonely too really on the world,old few man that woman in " L Play and blindly date " .
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A clicking only several days amount exceeds 10 The models of ten thousand times>,Let Xu Yang Zhang obtain one " L The most rule blind date civil servant " . 32 -year-old he hold office in one organ in Luoyang in Henan, call oneself " L Either is blindlying date over the past three years, or on the way of blindlying date " ,Have participated in some famous friend-making program, has still had no result. While frequently is interviewed by newspaper, exposes the TV programming, he explodes and comes from innovative discipline again " L China blindlies date and studies " R And is devoted to its popularization, and plan to run blindlying date in the school. (March 17 >)
Era has been developed, scientific and technological progress, the material is abundant, but people choose spouse ability is degrading. It blindlies date once a year to be really the intersection of thunder and people very much, this kind of record seems to apply for Guiness Records. Actually this is not so, as to the thing that numerous at present" L Have the man left and have the woman left " R Come to talk, even not overstate as Xu Yang Zhang, can blindly date the number of times is still many times of young men and women's before ten or twenty years. Opposite exactly, the more number of times of blindlying date is, the lower the probability succeeding is. It can make people smart more to blindly date, Xu Yang Zhang illustrates, several hundred blind dates let him acquaint the ability of seeing through the other side in half an hour in training. Have way originally in the world, take large to have Luis; Have, blindly date treasured book originally in this world, looks getting many to not only has, may even become " L Blindly date and study " ,People so become precise step by step.
People are cleverer and cleverer, because of the development of the media, the wider the range of the choice is, a local one not all right to look for other places, not native not all right to look for not foreign, even what be after year, the earth is not all right, look for the alien one and all have. However, even so convenient, so swift, " L Have the man left and have the woman left " R More and more instead,in a word, there are getting more and more on lonely person. In conformity with this era, the marriage love is followed too " L Raise speed " ,As will be sung in the song, " L Even if on hurriedly at one glance, are destined we to love each other " ," The wedding flashes to flash and leave " R Compatriot getting small more number,really stimulate fashionable and, getting more interesting also. People, for being fresh, now, through network and person that TV blindly date being to rise violently constantly. The audience rating of the program of blindlying date rises suddenly, the host has a sudden rise in social status, such as>Unless watch several hundred million people each issue, there are getting more lonely too really on the world,old few man that woman in " L Play and blindly date " .
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What a high _'s guide of blindlying date can the success rate of blindlying date have
What a high _'s guide of blindlying date can the success rate of blindlying date have
There are men and women, there is love. There is love, must blindly date. God want thing that consider too much, so, the men and women at the ground, can't exist by way of mating naturally.
It is one kind which looks for the companion to blindly date
The way is a way to comply with the nature too. If will live and liken to a ball of flame, then, at a lot of people's place, it is a match which lights it to blindly date. Why is some people's match always fired? You know, blindlying date has no fault, however, the person blindlying date is wrong correctly.
Some people regard blindlying date as the game, lack the serious attitude. Some people regard blindlying date as to perform, lack the sincere dialogue. Each blind date, the last a word, usually: Thanks and contact again!
Then, how many people are there to really contact again?
Speech of blindlying date
Brave man's game
Sympathize with those blindly date friend who fought repeatedly after suffering repeated defeats constantly at one's side very much once, think sillily it is bitter that others are ordered very much, why the condition is not bad not to find the satisfying person.
Oneself have its owner later on, life steady as one cup purified water, watch those, fight brave friend at blindlying date road and then, think, beat for all over the intersection of hole and flame that full valley hope on the others' eyes suddenly, passion, free and easy of life its intensity far from I constant people have.
Such as the good friend Auce. On nearly each Friday morning, she complains on the caffee room brow locking closely, will go to blindly date again tomorrow, the life is bitter! Then, it is still a red skirt to for example wear the white shirt, go to the electricity a piece of hair is still all sorts of eyelashes, on the mouth mild and indirect and melodious in her take green eye shadow purple eye shadow little the intersection of woman and topic lovely sing like babbler. At 4:30 in the afternoon, she runs glistening to say, I flashed first, do a facial film with eyebrow. I nearly begin to envy --If does not blindly date, someone tosses about passionately so.
It is a beautiful thing to dress up beautifully to see one may change your stranger in all one's life. This kind beautiful to have an admirable label ask youngly. Even if you have already crossed thirty years of age, so long as is still blindlying date, can be active and or melancholy, optimistic or pessimistic as when the youth has been young. No one comes to criticize you for being immature, speak in course of making because of living to you by the generally acknowledged that steady part of maturity.
Enthusiastic friend described a strange man to you suddenly, and affirmed it was likewise a beautiful thing that this person was closely linked to with you in all one's life perhaps. Even if you pass already 10 8 kiss, will can't help, guess the intersection of feature and style of conversation of him, can't help wanting to dress up oneself like a princess, even if that person is actually a pig the first. This is course of moving towards hoping that a strip hopes, your single life is interesting because such and such hope become in great numbers and mediocre.
The primitive purpose to blindly date is to find the remaining half and finish lonely life. Many roads of a plurality of friends, perhaps the marriage does not become friendship is here. However, the present man lets woman down more and more, the strong wind is not increased day by day in the lethargy, it is like this in working, it is like this, in the occasion of blindlying date on the family, mostly too so
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There are men and women, there is love. There is love, must blindly date. God want thing that consider too much, so, the men and women at the ground, can't exist by way of mating naturally.
It is one kind which looks for the companion to blindly date
The way is a way to comply with the nature too. If will live and liken to a ball of flame, then, at a lot of people's place, it is a match which lights it to blindly date. Why is some people's match always fired? You know, blindlying date has no fault, however, the person blindlying date is wrong correctly.
Some people regard blindlying date as the game, lack the serious attitude. Some people regard blindlying date as to perform, lack the sincere dialogue. Each blind date, the last a word, usually: Thanks and contact again!
Then, how many people are there to really contact again?
Speech of blindlying date
Brave man's game
Sympathize with those blindly date friend who fought repeatedly after suffering repeated defeats constantly at one's side very much once, think sillily it is bitter that others are ordered very much, why the condition is not bad not to find the satisfying person.
Oneself have its owner later on, life steady as one cup purified water, watch those, fight brave friend at blindlying date road and then, think, beat for all over the intersection of hole and flame that full valley hope on the others' eyes suddenly, passion, free and easy of life its intensity far from I constant people have.
Such as the good friend Auce. On nearly each Friday morning, she complains on the caffee room brow locking closely, will go to blindly date again tomorrow, the life is bitter! Then, it is still a red skirt to for example wear the white shirt, go to the electricity a piece of hair is still all sorts of eyelashes, on the mouth mild and indirect and melodious in her take green eye shadow purple eye shadow little the intersection of woman and topic lovely sing like babbler. At 4:30 in the afternoon, she runs glistening to say, I flashed first, do a facial film with eyebrow. I nearly begin to envy --If does not blindly date, someone tosses about passionately so.
It is a beautiful thing to dress up beautifully to see one may change your stranger in all one's life. This kind beautiful to have an admirable label ask youngly. Even if you have already crossed thirty years of age, so long as is still blindlying date, can be active and or melancholy, optimistic or pessimistic as when the youth has been young. No one comes to criticize you for being immature, speak in course of making because of living to you by the generally acknowledged that steady part of maturity.
Enthusiastic friend described a strange man to you suddenly, and affirmed it was likewise a beautiful thing that this person was closely linked to with you in all one's life perhaps. Even if you pass already 10 8 kiss, will can't help, guess the intersection of feature and style of conversation of him, can't help wanting to dress up oneself like a princess, even if that person is actually a pig the first. This is course of moving towards hoping that a strip hopes, your single life is interesting because such and such hope become in great numbers and mediocre.
The primitive purpose to blindly date is to find the remaining half and finish lonely life. Many roads of a plurality of friends, perhaps the marriage does not become friendship is here. However, the present man lets woman down more and more, the strong wind is not increased day by day in the lethargy, it is like this in working, it is like this, in the occasion of blindlying date on the family, mostly too so
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Monday, April 29, 2013
How to turn into to eat _'s guide of blindlying date to the boxed meal to blindly date
How to turn into to eat _'s guide of blindlying date to the boxed meal to blindly date
Successful she and a those who actually have strength and hold power man are in love, the other side requires her to raise children and play the kitchen by all means.
Finish transient love, she transfer, try, get matrimonial agency make friends, fail, wait until " moon pay the tip of a branch of the willow " too .
Someone " Instruct " She can seek help from the network, she has confused
As I see this are called oneself " White Bone Demon " Young lady at,grow she by " the white Bone Demon " and that imagination China There is no alike at all. She is not a beauty of that kind of bone sense type, but petite and plump, " white Bone Demon " It is bantering call of white collar, backbone, elite. She went back to Shanghai to start an undertaking " Return in the sea " ,Cross setting up every year, successful, there are cars in rooms, do not have a marriage target so far. She specially pours out, because she does not know how to find one's own lover.
He wants me to do " The little toad "
I must admit, I have begun to want to look for the man more outstanding, more better than I than me all the time, this's a man in my mind. I to meet such a man, but they stand first virtuous wife and good mother for a long time behind generally.
Also some such persons like regarding oneself as the centre. I have ever talked about a short falling in love with a person of those who actually have strength and hold power man. But in front of him, he scorns to take even a glance at all of my achievement. When he finds time to accompany me to stroll around Yu Garden in the midst of pressing affairs, his courtship word really takes the course of its own. The enclosure sculpture of Yu Garden is very characteristic, it is the dark dragon that wheels on it, he points to the tap to let me examine carefully, I appreciate greatly, carve carefully, magnificent and out of the ordinary after appreciating carefully. He mobile phone conversed just to put down connect, down what just now say at this moment: "It was that little toad carved under the tap that I let you see, do you know what purpose it is? " I ask modestly, he says, when he accompanies the foreigner to visit for the first time, guide said, interdependent with the dragon, it is very deep to leave a impression on him. His additional remarks, my work is unimportant to him, he appreciates such " famous saying " most : The woman's bounden duty is to raise children and play the kitchen, then can accompany him to attend some cocktail parties when he treats with courtesy, come on
He tenderness ask me whether like, make little toad of him very finally? Then taking over machine, wait for my answer.
I continue the mobile phone gazing at him self-assuredly, have nipped off that lingering affection very consciously, have avoided the destiny of the toad.
It is not I that do not want to look for a piece of those who actually have strength and hold power, but with such those who actually have strength and hold power, I want to all die one's own work for him; If one day, he is tired of my love, then my life will be a disaster! I have been thinking all the time in the present society, the independence that the woman should be economic first, could pay attention to the love, the work is more important than the man. Do not know, OK?
So I am in a conscientious and down-to-earth manner, have to work hard. But I feel a woman soon " White Bone Demon " Grief. I suitable repeatedly at the love. I ask friends to introduce, declare the condition has no him, should be in love first, secondly it is the ability that is better than me, the combination among the strong ones, create beautiful life. That friend of mine shook the head repeatedly, said my idea was wrong finally. Where I am really gloomy, spend money looking for a quite famous psychologist, ask anything, study in college, study abroad master, it is still a doctor at once, still not so good as an ordinary female worker on love, they often get married to give birth to the son at more than 20 years old, but my annual Zhyuan's seat plum, can not yet marry? Talk about this, " white Bone Demon " The young lady still stops, specially make a explanation of nouns: " Zhyuan's seat plum " Meaning familiar completely,need people not to be adopted, fall down oneself.
The psychologist told me finally, my serious mistake of view, love knowledge and my education became serious inverse ratio. This kind of consciousness that the woman looks for a man better than oneself, belong to typical " peasant's consciousness " ,This was 2,000 the model in the agricultural society decided the thought, in fact women's independence now, can well consider looking for one to be not so good as one's own lover. The psychologist still illustrates with examples, Diana, late princess of Britain, can fall in love with her groom, why can't I accept the condition is not so good as my man?
I heard gapingly at that time, introspected one's own mistake deeply, but thought later, princess Diana can fall in love with her groom, but not married him. Look for one want, rely on man of me, I psychology uneven really.
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Successful she and a those who actually have strength and hold power man are in love, the other side requires her to raise children and play the kitchen by all means.
Finish transient love, she transfer, try, get matrimonial agency make friends, fail, wait until " moon pay the tip of a branch of the willow " too .
Someone " Instruct " She can seek help from the network, she has confused
As I see this are called oneself " White Bone Demon " Young lady at,grow she by " the white Bone Demon " and that imagination China There is no alike at all. She is not a beauty of that kind of bone sense type, but petite and plump, " white Bone Demon " It is bantering call of white collar, backbone, elite. She went back to Shanghai to start an undertaking " Return in the sea " ,Cross setting up every year, successful, there are cars in rooms, do not have a marriage target so far. She specially pours out, because she does not know how to find one's own lover.
He wants me to do " The little toad "
I must admit, I have begun to want to look for the man more outstanding, more better than I than me all the time, this's a man in my mind. I to meet such a man, but they stand first virtuous wife and good mother for a long time behind generally.
Also some such persons like regarding oneself as the centre. I have ever talked about a short falling in love with a person of those who actually have strength and hold power man. But in front of him, he scorns to take even a glance at all of my achievement. When he finds time to accompany me to stroll around Yu Garden in the midst of pressing affairs, his courtship word really takes the course of its own. The enclosure sculpture of Yu Garden is very characteristic, it is the dark dragon that wheels on it, he points to the tap to let me examine carefully, I appreciate greatly, carve carefully, magnificent and out of the ordinary after appreciating carefully. He mobile phone conversed just to put down connect, down what just now say at this moment: "It was that little toad carved under the tap that I let you see, do you know what purpose it is? " I ask modestly, he says, when he accompanies the foreigner to visit for the first time, guide said, interdependent with the dragon, it is very deep to leave a impression on him. His additional remarks, my work is unimportant to him, he appreciates such " famous saying " most : The woman's bounden duty is to raise children and play the kitchen, then can accompany him to attend some cocktail parties when he treats with courtesy, come on
He tenderness ask me whether like, make little toad of him very finally? Then taking over machine, wait for my answer.
I continue the mobile phone gazing at him self-assuredly, have nipped off that lingering affection very consciously, have avoided the destiny of the toad.
It is not I that do not want to look for a piece of those who actually have strength and hold power, but with such those who actually have strength and hold power, I want to all die one's own work for him; If one day, he is tired of my love, then my life will be a disaster! I have been thinking all the time in the present society, the independence that the woman should be economic first, could pay attention to the love, the work is more important than the man. Do not know, OK?
So I am in a conscientious and down-to-earth manner, have to work hard. But I feel a woman soon " White Bone Demon " Grief. I suitable repeatedly at the love. I ask friends to introduce, declare the condition has no him, should be in love first, secondly it is the ability that is better than me, the combination among the strong ones, create beautiful life. That friend of mine shook the head repeatedly, said my idea was wrong finally. Where I am really gloomy, spend money looking for a quite famous psychologist, ask anything, study in college, study abroad master, it is still a doctor at once, still not so good as an ordinary female worker on love, they often get married to give birth to the son at more than 20 years old, but my annual Zhyuan's seat plum, can not yet marry? Talk about this, " white Bone Demon " The young lady still stops, specially make a explanation of nouns: " Zhyuan's seat plum " Meaning familiar completely,need people not to be adopted, fall down oneself.
The psychologist told me finally, my serious mistake of view, love knowledge and my education became serious inverse ratio. This kind of consciousness that the woman looks for a man better than oneself, belong to typical " peasant's consciousness " ,This was 2,000 the model in the agricultural society decided the thought, in fact women's independence now, can well consider looking for one to be not so good as one's own lover. The psychologist still illustrates with examples, Diana, late princess of Britain, can fall in love with her groom, why can't I accept the condition is not so good as my man?
I heard gapingly at that time, introspected one's own mistake deeply, but thought later, princess Diana can fall in love with her groom, but not married him. Look for one want, rely on man of me, I psychology uneven really.
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Blindly date and always meet the man of wretched appearance I dare to claim _'s guide of blindlying date but not the emperor ordained by Heaven
Blindly date and always meet the man of wretched appearance I dare to claim _'s guide of blindlying date but not, the emperor ordained by Heaven
The light was had at the beginning, assistant Amy and I just had a meal, two people passed by Wan Chai. On the left is noisy Central commercial mansion, an flashing one on the right is the neon lamp in Causeway Bay's, bustling with vehicles, the passerby shuttles back and forth in a hurry to departly. The rosy clouds all over the sky, it is unable to let noisily to come down quietly.
" flowers blooming like a piece of brocade " ,Amy says in this way. Yes,it if you can't can used for pieces of word, last our institute in the city,this era not living in, even my life. Engaged in medicine popularize trade, meet with a variety of personage every day, speech laugh at, say goodbye to, meet and then. Money and fulfillment, increase like age, seem to be the luck fellow of the business society, also cause all good sisters to care about this of mine one after another " The woman noble of diamond " Whereabouts question. Even people covet say attacking by innuendo: Sisters red, so persevering,really it is women ordinary can,but when is for end.
By this time, I will remember L. Think about sometimes apt to rotate that can not come curved. I am in unrequited love with L for two years, associate for two years each other, later L flew to U.S.A. and pursued the Ph.D, the contacts became more and more intermittent hereafter, break off the message for about three years finally. It is a section of simple such relations,
But just let me suffocate for it, unable to stay in Beijing, would rather change one's profession, then with the help of relative of distant place, go to Hong Kong to make a living.
No need, the intersection of contacts and every man
On every weekend, the bosses should all take the connection on I and all stores and play mahjong, have a meal before the good fortune first, then reached the private clubhouse. The intersection of mahjong and sound of the successive sounds of crackling, let women whose professions are either illegitimate or disreputable four the intersection of uncle and eight grandfather, display, profit if have no bone, the five fingers are accepted and put freely. People these, one pieces of body mere neck beautiful, bird's nest shark's fin have, get fed up for a long time, more cordial than everyone need you, when being needless, please don't near. Hong Kong from Shenzhen made this line originally, walked the inside famous good fortune uncle brought me, but still let people look down upon. When being the saddest, there is a married man more than 30 years old in the company will tell me some things one says only to one's intimates once in a while, also will take me to the mini-bar to enjoy Happy Hour. But soon, the others' wife washes to come to the doorstep, almost bring the broom to hit me.
Amy has shielded me, she rushes forward, say: Who of XX it will be you, take the intersection of you and husband, take your husband, hear some the intersection of wind and speech come over, hit the person right away, so impolite people ' Lose face) ,You afraid of you husband old to fire while being detailed, the intersection of you and any other things then! That woman suddenly lost courage, the calamity is dragged away by her husband.
In fact, Amy has not always had deep friendship with me. She probably goes through too, probably taking a fancy to me will have development in the future too, so will appear. She tells me: The the intersection of complaint and the intersection of life and unfair, the intersection of wife and man that nothing know except eating and drinking and spending money, in the little company of Hong Kong, have 95 in the 100 married man, worth you speak to him own thing at all, you have host of future, don't sprain the foot in the low-lying.
I bear in mind. It is not the person of every level that deserves the deep friendship, especially in your rising period, you are snowballing, then need snow wet enough, and a way long enough. And a branch nearby of snow, the less the better.
How many men, worth stopping over?
In the up-growth stage, made several boyfriends. A first week knowing, found an excuse to take the wine to call, thought I am being defeated by wine strength, make oneself drunk in result. Shakeout his health on the sofa calmly, I laugh at oneself, it is fairly young perhaps, somebody plots your beauty. One after knowing half a year, because presented the interests relation suddenly on the business, he lets the familiar lawyer coerce me, will pretend on the surface to be calm. One likes spinning in the flowering shrubs, but called oneself already very old, would have not all right, " that thing is so interesting " ,Everybody it makes intimate good friends to be most comfortable, until several let girlfriend " come at someone's call continuously he finally, the ones that wave go promptly " --He wanted to look for some people to give an added grace to what is already beautiful originally for deserted and lonely life, it will not injure you but known as, then live and stop over living, you, waste host of of your attention and time.
In the fifth year in Hong Kong, met bigly and richly. It is few owners of of imports and exports firm to be big, carry on parent's cause, think of weight-reducing medicines of a certain women of our company of the agent very much. Associate, big to find I does not an easy woman travelled, appointment time when he said and place, it might not be the last scheme. He thinks, the interests that must be added me finally are weighed. Gradually, find he likes mixing with the little staff member more and more, especially some women delicately pretty, waiter of the restaurant of the bar of the monopolized shop, he likes provoking, then will have some little contacts privately. I watch with the tail of one's eye, do not think this man can make a change, can't stay for a long time. Once, when singing K, he, in front of my friend, with consulting servinging and saying some decadent jokes unprincipledly, I, quickly on anger, lose the temper with him, put down, speak, walk right away resolutly. After coming back home, he asked me not to leave, say that did not have confidence in front of me oneself, liked me for being competent in the past, it is discovered that now not to tie me, living all the time must have a pressure very much, especially others talk about achievement of me, listen to all of jump always. I am cold to smile, a word and a word is told him: You are certainly all of jump, because you do not know those of yours betray when the behavior will be worn and helped. Nobody forces you to court me, all is just you, for satisfied one's own Vanity, cover up the one's own feeling self-humiliation heart and choice made. Finally, he will calculate with me in the house which we charter together, electrical home appliances furniture,etc. that he paid and purchased.
Look for a one that have a chat to obtain at least
One year recently, someone always got busy about, the question that wants to be married for me. The acquaintance of a variety of good friends and mother either lures by promise of gain or threatens: There are not a lot of ages to select, one's own chance that you do not give? The same presumably, in addition, too much to expect, go, meet just. But each blind date, I feel unnatural, affectedly shy, the east talk about forget by first west often, a meal is eaten and can not get to everyone and mention the interest. The matchmaker is angry, the toilet on the excuse, draw me and go out outside: See you can not marry!
So when meet Mike, the matchmaker decides, gives Mike's QQ, MSN,etc. to me, says it is a new way of new times first. Happen, conclude a business the same day, I catch people and chat with enthusiasm, and Mike happens
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The light was had at the beginning, assistant Amy and I just had a meal, two people passed by Wan Chai. On the left is noisy Central commercial mansion, an flashing one on the right is the neon lamp in Causeway Bay's, bustling with vehicles, the passerby shuttles back and forth in a hurry to departly. The rosy clouds all over the sky, it is unable to let noisily to come down quietly.
" flowers blooming like a piece of brocade " ,Amy says in this way. Yes,it if you can't can used for pieces of word, last our institute in the city,this era not living in, even my life. Engaged in medicine popularize trade, meet with a variety of personage every day, speech laugh at, say goodbye to, meet and then. Money and fulfillment, increase like age, seem to be the luck fellow of the business society, also cause all good sisters to care about this of mine one after another " The woman noble of diamond " Whereabouts question. Even people covet say attacking by innuendo: Sisters red, so persevering,really it is women ordinary can,but when is for end.
By this time, I will remember L. Think about sometimes apt to rotate that can not come curved. I am in unrequited love with L for two years, associate for two years each other, later L flew to U.S.A. and pursued the Ph.D, the contacts became more and more intermittent hereafter, break off the message for about three years finally. It is a section of simple such relations,
But just let me suffocate for it, unable to stay in Beijing, would rather change one's profession, then with the help of relative of distant place, go to Hong Kong to make a living.
No need, the intersection of contacts and every man
On every weekend, the bosses should all take the connection on I and all stores and play mahjong, have a meal before the good fortune first, then reached the private clubhouse. The intersection of mahjong and sound of the successive sounds of crackling, let women whose professions are either illegitimate or disreputable four the intersection of uncle and eight grandfather, display, profit if have no bone, the five fingers are accepted and put freely. People these, one pieces of body mere neck beautiful, bird's nest shark's fin have, get fed up for a long time, more cordial than everyone need you, when being needless, please don't near. Hong Kong from Shenzhen made this line originally, walked the inside famous good fortune uncle brought me, but still let people look down upon. When being the saddest, there is a married man more than 30 years old in the company will tell me some things one says only to one's intimates once in a while, also will take me to the mini-bar to enjoy Happy Hour. But soon, the others' wife washes to come to the doorstep, almost bring the broom to hit me.
Amy has shielded me, she rushes forward, say: Who of XX it will be you, take the intersection of you and husband, take your husband, hear some the intersection of wind and speech come over, hit the person right away, so impolite people ' Lose face) ,You afraid of you husband old to fire while being detailed, the intersection of you and any other things then! That woman suddenly lost courage, the calamity is dragged away by her husband.
In fact, Amy has not always had deep friendship with me. She probably goes through too, probably taking a fancy to me will have development in the future too, so will appear. She tells me: The the intersection of complaint and the intersection of life and unfair, the intersection of wife and man that nothing know except eating and drinking and spending money, in the little company of Hong Kong, have 95 in the 100 married man, worth you speak to him own thing at all, you have host of future, don't sprain the foot in the low-lying.
I bear in mind. It is not the person of every level that deserves the deep friendship, especially in your rising period, you are snowballing, then need snow wet enough, and a way long enough. And a branch nearby of snow, the less the better.
How many men, worth stopping over?
In the up-growth stage, made several boyfriends. A first week knowing, found an excuse to take the wine to call, thought I am being defeated by wine strength, make oneself drunk in result. Shakeout his health on the sofa calmly, I laugh at oneself, it is fairly young perhaps, somebody plots your beauty. One after knowing half a year, because presented the interests relation suddenly on the business, he lets the familiar lawyer coerce me, will pretend on the surface to be calm. One likes spinning in the flowering shrubs, but called oneself already very old, would have not all right, " that thing is so interesting " ,Everybody it makes intimate good friends to be most comfortable, until several let girlfriend " come at someone's call continuously he finally, the ones that wave go promptly " --He wanted to look for some people to give an added grace to what is already beautiful originally for deserted and lonely life, it will not injure you but known as, then live and stop over living, you, waste host of of your attention and time.
In the fifth year in Hong Kong, met bigly and richly. It is few owners of of imports and exports firm to be big, carry on parent's cause, think of weight-reducing medicines of a certain women of our company of the agent very much. Associate, big to find I does not an easy woman travelled, appointment time when he said and place, it might not be the last scheme. He thinks, the interests that must be added me finally are weighed. Gradually, find he likes mixing with the little staff member more and more, especially some women delicately pretty, waiter of the restaurant of the bar of the monopolized shop, he likes provoking, then will have some little contacts privately. I watch with the tail of one's eye, do not think this man can make a change, can't stay for a long time. Once, when singing K, he, in front of my friend, with consulting servinging and saying some decadent jokes unprincipledly, I, quickly on anger, lose the temper with him, put down, speak, walk right away resolutly. After coming back home, he asked me not to leave, say that did not have confidence in front of me oneself, liked me for being competent in the past, it is discovered that now not to tie me, living all the time must have a pressure very much, especially others talk about achievement of me, listen to all of jump always. I am cold to smile, a word and a word is told him: You are certainly all of jump, because you do not know those of yours betray when the behavior will be worn and helped. Nobody forces you to court me, all is just you, for satisfied one's own Vanity, cover up the one's own feeling self-humiliation heart and choice made. Finally, he will calculate with me in the house which we charter together, electrical home appliances furniture,etc. that he paid and purchased.
Look for a one that have a chat to obtain at least
One year recently, someone always got busy about, the question that wants to be married for me. The acquaintance of a variety of good friends and mother either lures by promise of gain or threatens: There are not a lot of ages to select, one's own chance that you do not give? The same presumably, in addition, too much to expect, go, meet just. But each blind date, I feel unnatural, affectedly shy, the east talk about forget by first west often, a meal is eaten and can not get to everyone and mention the interest. The matchmaker is angry, the toilet on the excuse, draw me and go out outside: See you can not marry!
So when meet Mike, the matchmaker decides, gives Mike's QQ, MSN,etc. to me, says it is a new way of new times first. Happen, conclude a business the same day, I catch people and chat with enthusiasm, and Mike happens
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Blindly date nine awkward the intersection of _ and guide of blindlying date that will meet time
Blindly date nine awkward the intersection of _ and guide of blindlying date that will meet time
Blindly date, pieces of awkward topic originally, thinking of life let awkward drama this easily, now we say nine in relative grows the looks is big and awkward:
Female
The five awkward lookses of blind date of getting to the husband's home are:
The first largest awkwardness:Four generations of boyfriend's family are the same as the hall, enter his home, there are four old men present in one's face, though the shrewd boyfriend will introduce one by one, the call very the same as boyfriend, it is too ridiculous not to strive, it is not enough to respect the other side to nod again. Think of call, the awkward state of good call.
The second largest awkwardness:Have a meal at boyfriend's home for the first time, shy that the boyfriend's mother fears you, insert and give you a lot of dishes, you do not eat in that the same dish, and is very afraid of eating, but the boyfriend's mother is regarded as a good dish, the big chopsticks of big chopsticks are inserted while entering to the bowl for you, make you eat and can not eat any more, not also easy to throw to throw away, very awkward.
The third largest awkwardness:There was a thing suddenly oneself, wanted to leave boyfriend's home, but all members of boyfriend's family, afford to run high warmly, oneself it moves to be no even at this time, not staying well either, the awkward feeling overflows in the heart.
The fourth largest awkwardness:Just bringing curiosity by oneself, come to boyfriend's home to play, the boyfriend's family were with great emphasis finally, having asked many relatives and friends to have a meal, in practice come to help to blindly date. If saying good-bye, this let oneself have face see people very in the future instead, let people experience that awkward in life " Ubiquitous " With " having when not having " .
The fifth largest awkwardness:A gang of people have broken up, want to go home by oneself, the boyfriend's family insist on oneself putting up for the night at his home, he very crowded in inhabitancy of house, follow strange the intersection of boyfriend and women folk of a family of house, sleep a bed altogether, flavour that feel better a little really, really: "Awkward on mind life. "
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Blindly date, pieces of awkward topic originally, thinking of life let awkward drama this easily, now we say nine in relative grows the looks is big and awkward:
Female
The five awkward lookses of blind date of getting to the husband's home are:
The first largest awkwardness:Four generations of boyfriend's family are the same as the hall, enter his home, there are four old men present in one's face, though the shrewd boyfriend will introduce one by one, the call very the same as boyfriend, it is too ridiculous not to strive, it is not enough to respect the other side to nod again. Think of call, the awkward state of good call.
The second largest awkwardness:Have a meal at boyfriend's home for the first time, shy that the boyfriend's mother fears you, insert and give you a lot of dishes, you do not eat in that the same dish, and is very afraid of eating, but the boyfriend's mother is regarded as a good dish, the big chopsticks of big chopsticks are inserted while entering to the bowl for you, make you eat and can not eat any more, not also easy to throw to throw away, very awkward.
The third largest awkwardness:There was a thing suddenly oneself, wanted to leave boyfriend's home, but all members of boyfriend's family, afford to run high warmly, oneself it moves to be no even at this time, not staying well either, the awkward feeling overflows in the heart.
The fourth largest awkwardness:Just bringing curiosity by oneself, come to boyfriend's home to play, the boyfriend's family were with great emphasis finally, having asked many relatives and friends to have a meal, in practice come to help to blindly date. If saying good-bye, this let oneself have face see people very in the future instead, let people experience that awkward in life " Ubiquitous " With " having when not having " .
The fifth largest awkwardness:A gang of people have broken up, want to go home by oneself, the boyfriend's family insist on oneself putting up for the night at his home, he very crowded in inhabitancy of house, follow strange the intersection of boyfriend and women folk of a family of house, sleep a bed altogether, flavour that feel better a little really, really: "Awkward on mind life. "
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Blindly date visit daughter Jin guide net friend surround and watch expert call one of shouts of cursing psychology to be balanced
Blindly date, visit daughter Jin guide net friend surround and watch expert call one of shouts of cursing psychology to be balanced
The blind date program which many TV stations introduced one after another, it causes public general attention even more to publish the speech of one. " L I prefer to sit in treasure Mali crying, unwilling to sit after the bicycle smiling at too " R A word,even more let" L Non- sincere to disturb " Woman horse promises of blind date in the program are red all over the Divine Land in one night, the shouts of cursing that the net friend covers the sky and the earth " L Visit the gold woman " R While,there are getting getting more high more still in audience rating on program of this kind of. Rather alike to this kind, psychological expert analyzes, this kind of psychology of the audience's is for pursuing the psychological equalization point.
Obtain ethical sense of superiority in scolding and fighting
In the time that scalp in an all-round way, have audience the intersection of suspicion and blind date program that topic produce frequently these to make square planning, even the honoured guest asks, it is false. Suspect that belongs to suspecting, the audience is still continuing looking, may be said that seeing and scolding while scolding and looking. As to this, South China Normal University late the intersection of Yu and triumphant doctor react calm, he point out, visit gold speech for blindly date some of language that appear under program, audiences generally say that repugnant, but must look each program, what this kind of contradiction response actually displayed is people's ethical sense of superiority. The form of expression of this kind of sense of superiority is through attacking the language publishing a honoured guest on the program, thus reflect one's own morals should be superior to the honoured guest and obtain psychological sense of achievement.
It is for defending the morals and curious to surround and watch
Compare the triumphant doctor of late Yu, Guangdong saves worry and pays attention to the crisis to intervene the association and provide different explanations in the east brightness. He thinks, blindly date some speeches appearing in the program include visiting values such as gold,etc., violated with China's traditional values. Many audience to start from to to violate traditional values to criticism of program these, can't accept such undisguised money view for the moment. He analyze arrive, chase, watch the program still as to many audience because speech to publish these in daily life very much unpleasant to reach, it is the need of starting from and hunting for novelty. First in order that to the maintenance of the traditional values, it is second the need of starting from and hunting for novelty, the demands of two respects lead to the fact the audience presents this kind of contradiction response of scolding while seeing.
It is not terrible to visit gold, the terrible one is to enlarge it and melt
The one comparable to horse's promise has " L 200,000 could touch my small hand " , " A million " necessary salaries of my future boyfriend R Zhu ZhenFang. As to the thing that these go out of visiting the gold theory of the location, late Yu shows triumphantly, the modern society advocates the pluralism of social value, also allow the values different from traditional values to exist. He points out, it is not terrible to visit gold, take U.S.A. as examples, a lot of people hold and visit the gold view, but people these accomplish one piece balanced too in ethics, outlook on life, other respect, so U.S.A.'s development is still faster on the whole. " In fact, visit gold view, have since ancient times, blindly date some of speech in the program go out through masses' media communication, so has just exerted a so great influence. "
" The greatest crime of the program of blindlying date, lie in that if visits gold to enlarge unrestrictedly some non-mainstream values. " Yu DongHui says, does not get on very well and say, visiting the gold theory remains a kind of small and all values among the public, and the program of blindlying date enlarges this kind of values unrestrictedly as the medias of masses, and then mislead to the public to the society, let them think this is the values of the mainstream, value system or collapsing of the whole society.
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The blind date program which many TV stations introduced one after another, it causes public general attention even more to publish the speech of one. " L I prefer to sit in treasure Mali crying, unwilling to sit after the bicycle smiling at too " R A word,even more let" L Non- sincere to disturb " Woman horse promises of blind date in the program are red all over the Divine Land in one night, the shouts of cursing that the net friend covers the sky and the earth " L Visit the gold woman " R While,there are getting getting more high more still in audience rating on program of this kind of. Rather alike to this kind, psychological expert analyzes, this kind of psychology of the audience's is for pursuing the psychological equalization point.
Obtain ethical sense of superiority in scolding and fighting
In the time that scalp in an all-round way, have audience the intersection of suspicion and blind date program that topic produce frequently these to make square planning, even the honoured guest asks, it is false. Suspect that belongs to suspecting, the audience is still continuing looking, may be said that seeing and scolding while scolding and looking. As to this, South China Normal University late the intersection of Yu and triumphant doctor react calm, he point out, visit gold speech for blindly date some of language that appear under program, audiences generally say that repugnant, but must look each program, what this kind of contradiction response actually displayed is people's ethical sense of superiority. The form of expression of this kind of sense of superiority is through attacking the language publishing a honoured guest on the program, thus reflect one's own morals should be superior to the honoured guest and obtain psychological sense of achievement.
It is for defending the morals and curious to surround and watch
Compare the triumphant doctor of late Yu, Guangdong saves worry and pays attention to the crisis to intervene the association and provide different explanations in the east brightness. He thinks, blindly date some speeches appearing in the program include visiting values such as gold,etc., violated with China's traditional values. Many audience to start from to to violate traditional values to criticism of program these, can't accept such undisguised money view for the moment. He analyze arrive, chase, watch the program still as to many audience because speech to publish these in daily life very much unpleasant to reach, it is the need of starting from and hunting for novelty. First in order that to the maintenance of the traditional values, it is second the need of starting from and hunting for novelty, the demands of two respects lead to the fact the audience presents this kind of contradiction response of scolding while seeing.
It is not terrible to visit gold, the terrible one is to enlarge it and melt
The one comparable to horse's promise has " L 200,000 could touch my small hand " , " A million " necessary salaries of my future boyfriend R Zhu ZhenFang. As to the thing that these go out of visiting the gold theory of the location, late Yu shows triumphantly, the modern society advocates the pluralism of social value, also allow the values different from traditional values to exist. He points out, it is not terrible to visit gold, take U.S.A. as examples, a lot of people hold and visit the gold view, but people these accomplish one piece balanced too in ethics, outlook on life, other respect, so U.S.A.'s development is still faster on the whole. " In fact, visit gold view, have since ancient times, blindly date some of speech in the program go out through masses' media communication, so has just exerted a so great influence. "
" The greatest crime of the program of blindlying date, lie in that if visits gold to enlarge unrestrictedly some non-mainstream values. " Yu DongHui says, does not get on very well and say, visiting the gold theory remains a kind of small and all values among the public, and the program of blindlying date enlarges this kind of values unrestrictedly as the medias of masses, and then mislead to the public to the society, let them think this is the values of the mainstream, value system or collapsing of the whole society.
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Blindlying date succeeds in reading _'s guide of blindlying date of 10 soldier's rules
Blindlying date succeeds in reading _'s guide of blindlying date of 10 soldier's rules
1. Blindly date and blindly date, no the looks is not kissed. Must not be thought to blindly date to be only the old legend in last century, know the good woman of the good man with energy without enough time, it is a shortcut to blindly date.
2. Looks
There is the duplicity kissed from ancient times, it, in case of emergency, the matchmaker had better be a person who understands you, it can be the relatives and friends, but the person who had better not had interests connections with you.
3. Find out about the other side's basic situation first before meeting. If the other side have some hard wound for example height up to standard of ,It is out to consider right away.
4. Even one's own composite index is 10 fen, but only tell 7 points of the other side. The woman should have sense of risk.
5. Keep glamour at any time. Dress up oneself before dating. The girl wants to make up, must wear skirts.
6. Look for two happy thing hard first blindly date, let the intersection of oneself and mood hight stand up.
7. Prepared a fireman, while seeing the tendency is far from good, opened and slipped away at once.
8. It if you can't is it apt to blindly date, let by personnel first according to fantasy like,let people not be getting more easy to be more feel surprised especially too. So, needn't hold the psychology of becoming to go to fulfill an appointment and pitch into the work easily.
9. What the low cost blindlying date brought is risky. The risk exists in the result of blindlying date, mutual response. So result that needn't blindly date conscientiously too, who 's fault is everyone.
10. Believe that falls in love at first sight, but don't see heartily.
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1. Blindly date and blindly date, no the looks is not kissed. Must not be thought to blindly date to be only the old legend in last century, know the good woman of the good man with energy without enough time, it is a shortcut to blindly date.
2. Looks
There is the duplicity kissed from ancient times, it, in case of emergency, the matchmaker had better be a person who understands you, it can be the relatives and friends, but the person who had better not had interests connections with you.
3. Find out about the other side's basic situation first before meeting. If the other side have some hard wound for example height up to standard of ,It is out to consider right away.
4. Even one's own composite index is 10 fen, but only tell 7 points of the other side. The woman should have sense of risk.
5. Keep glamour at any time. Dress up oneself before dating. The girl wants to make up, must wear skirts.
6. Look for two happy thing hard first blindly date, let the intersection of oneself and mood hight stand up.
7. Prepared a fireman, while seeing the tendency is far from good, opened and slipped away at once.
8. It if you can't is it apt to blindly date, let by personnel first according to fantasy like,let people not be getting more easy to be more feel surprised especially too. So, needn't hold the psychology of becoming to go to fulfill an appointment and pitch into the work easily.
9. What the low cost blindlying date brought is risky. The risk exists in the result of blindlying date, mutual response. So result that needn't blindly date conscientiously too, who 's fault is everyone.
10. Believe that falls in love at first sight, but don't see heartily.
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Moment of blindlying date The man sees the woman's primary impression to click
Moment of blindlying date The man sees the woman's primary impression to click
The occasion of blindlying date, two persons that has never met take a desk and have a meal and chat altogether, appearance is the first " answer to a riddle " that can be provided each other . Usually the woman takes notice of in this respect, that, as you know, from what respects will he observe you?
Smile
Does your smile seem sincere and sweet? Reluctant and stiff? In a lot of beauty competitions move about, " what facial features (position) do you think oneself are The most pleasant? " It is a standing problem, the most classical and safest answer is exactly " one's own sweet smile " . Indeed, the sincere one can smile at the warm heart, so-called " smile at Ye and spend " again , " stretch out one's hand, fight, laugh at dough figurine " ,It is the best present to the person who is met to smile for the first time.
Hair
Man have, turn on fork hair, spend several hundred prevailing the intersection of BOB and hair that make just have no concepts without exception, what they minded is that your hair seem: 1. Gentle and agreeable; 2.Whether is there captivating taste. So need, sedulously must go too what model salon make, need, select, have pleasant shampoo of perfume often wash hair only, the oil, let the hair keep gentle and agreeable bright informal ok once in a while.
Dressing
If your very thick foundation cream, dense eye shadow, overly gorgeous blush go to blindly date, that will let the other side afraid of in the heart: Even true appearance dare not show people, fuzzy, what are wanted to conceal is it possible that? Had better keep the distance.
Chest
Though the man has natural tastes on women's chest, especially big chest, but face, in the future may become the intersection of oneself and person of remaining half, may not be certain happy to see her " dare, produce oneself while being beautiful " too . But he naturally will look up and down and appraise carefully, so ladies, hide without reveal and like, reveal standard reveal non-, must really also be weighed in the hand.
Skin
Goodlooking to stand up skin whole person seem health too, the girl with pale detailed slippery skin has a natural advantage in this respect, put down the happiness very much. Have some flaw is like spot, thin scar to need, lie between and cherish very much even at the face, can conceal, the more important thing is the whole person looks clean naturally when utilizing some makeup technology, win in makings.
Wrap up the bag
The extremely too fat and clumsy to move big knapsack of canvas is not this occasion definitely " The superior product " ,Especially filled up with the invoice, store receipt, plastic bag containing things unexpectedly inside when you open carelessly, eh, though is very practical, " house " like this One side should not at first meeting somebody experience. A hand satchel or shoulder satchel with succinct and fresh and cool design is the safest choice at this time, remember tidying up too inside.
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The occasion of blindlying date, two persons that has never met take a desk and have a meal and chat altogether, appearance is the first " answer to a riddle " that can be provided each other . Usually the woman takes notice of in this respect, that, as you know, from what respects will he observe you?
Smile
Does your smile seem sincere and sweet? Reluctant and stiff? In a lot of beauty competitions move about, " what facial features (position) do you think oneself are The most pleasant? " It is a standing problem, the most classical and safest answer is exactly " one's own sweet smile " . Indeed, the sincere one can smile at the warm heart, so-called " smile at Ye and spend " again , " stretch out one's hand, fight, laugh at dough figurine " ,It is the best present to the person who is met to smile for the first time.
Hair
Man have, turn on fork hair, spend several hundred prevailing the intersection of BOB and hair that make just have no concepts without exception, what they minded is that your hair seem: 1. Gentle and agreeable; 2.Whether is there captivating taste. So need, sedulously must go too what model salon make, need, select, have pleasant shampoo of perfume often wash hair only, the oil, let the hair keep gentle and agreeable bright informal ok once in a while.
Dressing
If your very thick foundation cream, dense eye shadow, overly gorgeous blush go to blindly date, that will let the other side afraid of in the heart: Even true appearance dare not show people, fuzzy, what are wanted to conceal is it possible that? Had better keep the distance.
Chest
Though the man has natural tastes on women's chest, especially big chest, but face, in the future may become the intersection of oneself and person of remaining half, may not be certain happy to see her " dare, produce oneself while being beautiful " too . But he naturally will look up and down and appraise carefully, so ladies, hide without reveal and like, reveal standard reveal non-, must really also be weighed in the hand.
Skin
Goodlooking to stand up skin whole person seem health too, the girl with pale detailed slippery skin has a natural advantage in this respect, put down the happiness very much. Have some flaw is like spot, thin scar to need, lie between and cherish very much even at the face, can conceal, the more important thing is the whole person looks clean naturally when utilizing some makeup technology, win in makings.
Wrap up the bag
The extremely too fat and clumsy to move big knapsack of canvas is not this occasion definitely " The superior product " ,Especially filled up with the invoice, store receipt, plastic bag containing things unexpectedly inside when you open carelessly, eh, though is very practical, " house " like this One side should not at first meeting somebody experience. A hand satchel or shoulder satchel with succinct and fresh and cool design is the safest choice at this time, remember tidying up too inside.
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The guide of blindlying date teaches me _'s guide of blindlying date how to blindly date
The guide of blindlying date teaches me _'s guide of blindlying date how to blindly date
Though perceptual young men and women often hang in the mouth " Fate " Two words, but analyze rationally, have a lot of advantages to blindly date more than the traditional love of the experience type. The traditional love is generally the close classmates with associating at one's side, colleague or the emotion takes place to the playmate, though
Think that it is very deep to understand, but to personal secrets such as the family background, economic situation, may not necessarily communicate candidly really in time. When develop into very deep stage, find the intersection of oneself and question that can't accept originally the other side had a little more, have to just admit at that time, this may bury the shade for emotion in the future. By contrast, making adequate preparation, woman matchmaker (common) Objective and serious blind date again, nearly solve this kind of problem once coming up, have not only link up the time for break-in prevented the psychology from striking in the future sparingly but also.
Say red and naked a bit, marriage one transaction of chip all kinds of in essence, at all times and in all lands all so, emotion and desire are only a catalyst, fuse. Between most men and women, so long as the intimate contacts are long, will produce emotion and physiological desire, depend on emotion at the beginning only, really form happy marriage how much pair does it have for a long time? Whether appearance, bodily form, economic condition, social status, family background, household register,etc. are matched, have determined the long-term stability of the marriage to a great extent. " grow the feeling with the passing of time " It is a thing that should be watched out for to a certain extent, because the feeling in one or two years of the love and feeling of five years, ten years after marriage are different. Has lost curiosity, possessiveness, feeling of freshness in oneself, and after dauntless spirit and sacrifice spirits of some idealism, go to face another spouse whose hard condition did not actually really match, although may not necessarily cause the relation to break, but the psychology is sure not to be too wonderful. So the emotion is before laying a foundation, check on the icy ruler, though might not be very effective, but must not be the bad thing.
Certainly, moral standing, world outlook, values, mode of thinking,etc., it is very central content in the sexual relations too, but these following categories, I'm afraid that it is very difficult to know oneself clearly, moreover, realize the other side in associating short a few years? What's more most men and women are less than mutually ordering all the life at 30 years old, a lot of inherent moral characters did not finalize the design at that time, understood each other even if clear, and how to guarantee to continue unifying harmoniously in the future? Moreover, there is about equal influence on that the other side's personality and disposition are in hard conditions such as education background, job, family,etc., exist some related cause and effect even, this go, realize, try to figure out moral standing and quality of the other side to be more effective and more reliable in the short time than oneself.
So, although the main roads lead to Rome, perhaps the appropriate blind date is to lead to the happy broad and well-paved road for a long time, and thistles and thorns may be more on the road to the happy fate which brings lovers together of water of duckweed.
Blindly date procedure ( One)
A lot of people including me, there is a less than satisfactory blind date experience. The main reason is the purpose and the self-contradictory place has appeared on the means, content and formal arrangement. Some time is that we lack experience, but a lot of people have already too accepted that blindly date in this way, but repel the basic law blindlying date at heart. For example too shy to understand, appear on the stage while being crude and rash fully information, orientate rationally oneself to the intersection of others and choosy terms again, moreover to revealing on websites one's own photo, education background, working, economic terms,etc. are affectedly shy, these do not follow the childish manifestation of game rules. So, having blindlied date more, it is pieces of one's own course of making a reservation rationally on the market of marriage, improve the course of the level of getting along with people by oneself, and even fully understand one's own human nature and course of real demand. As noted previously, the greatest advantage of blindlying date can launch the contacts on the basis of understanding the hard condition effectively in advance. So have information at all collect and communicate, run, it blindlies date to be very intelligently, cause the failure in eight or nine cases out of ten, and injure the party's self-respect and emotion. Follow two principles in preliminary information interchange: Honest and objective + appropriate information issue channel.
The former needn't speak more, but lack sincere consciousness and spirit of obeying game rules in the society overallly at present, must have psychological preparation meet several honest target or woman matchmaker in actual life. Protect the other side while being honest and objective, prevent oneself from add to the worry. Orient the optimistic young friend partially to oneself at ordinary times, it is necessary to reduce self-assessment sedulously at this moment. The latter mainly injures oneself or the other side for preventing the first round from screening. I once worked by giving the wife an introduction, or entrusted the other side (or the other side parents,etc.) in the past Help excuse that I look for a job, obtain resume and photograph (want, let the other side it sees to be out of ulterior motives on purpose certainly each other, otherwise others really place hope on you improper when helping to solve the employment problem) . Thought later it needn't be so troublesome in fact. Even if it is relatives and friends that introduce, can leave pieces of MSN,etc., have a chat first each other first, do BLOG of MSN well by oneself at the same time, the above puts information such as the photo, looks pleasing to the eye stealthily each other, and then both sides ' Or pass a woman matchmaker) Further understand other hard conditions. As for network making friends and marriage-seeking, it is really a very good issue channel. I let others go, watch I advertise for a life partner online message in order to obtain the first-hand materials directly later on. The hard condition is roughly out of question, MSN has a chat all rightly again, it is to meet to connect. I am still very cautious to meeting, because say good-bye to the other side after meeting, the great majority are reasons of the feature, the wife very particularly injures. If fortunately can also stand appearance respect, what is met and discussed? The new hand usually discusses irrelevant things such as weather, amusement,etc., finish, discover and waste for several hours and a pot of payment for tea. More ripely, get married person with strong desire, can discuss working present situation, expectancy of one's own undertaking future, among them can find out this person's working attitude, analytical capacity, expect the intensity etc. oneself. Certainly, young people just entered the society, the most suitable topic was still the life of the school. If education background, working state do not have a common language at all, can totally be combined, but may be the shortcoming of a life to some people. In addition, hobby, social frequency, friend-making attitude, parents' sisters' state,etc. are the question which everybody wants to face straightly, can understand best. Meeting avoids activity of arranging to see the film, bowl etc. most, sheerly waste the time and money for the first time.
Blindly date procedure ' Two)
The appearance question is the bank not getting around while blindlying date. My father adult has proposed in the looks of the swimming pool
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Though perceptual young men and women often hang in the mouth " Fate " Two words, but analyze rationally, have a lot of advantages to blindly date more than the traditional love of the experience type. The traditional love is generally the close classmates with associating at one's side, colleague or the emotion takes place to the playmate, though
Think that it is very deep to understand, but to personal secrets such as the family background, economic situation, may not necessarily communicate candidly really in time. When develop into very deep stage, find the intersection of oneself and question that can't accept originally the other side had a little more, have to just admit at that time, this may bury the shade for emotion in the future. By contrast, making adequate preparation, woman matchmaker (common) Objective and serious blind date again, nearly solve this kind of problem once coming up, have not only link up the time for break-in prevented the psychology from striking in the future sparingly but also.
Say red and naked a bit, marriage one transaction of chip all kinds of in essence, at all times and in all lands all so, emotion and desire are only a catalyst, fuse. Between most men and women, so long as the intimate contacts are long, will produce emotion and physiological desire, depend on emotion at the beginning only, really form happy marriage how much pair does it have for a long time? Whether appearance, bodily form, economic condition, social status, family background, household register,etc. are matched, have determined the long-term stability of the marriage to a great extent. " grow the feeling with the passing of time " It is a thing that should be watched out for to a certain extent, because the feeling in one or two years of the love and feeling of five years, ten years after marriage are different. Has lost curiosity, possessiveness, feeling of freshness in oneself, and after dauntless spirit and sacrifice spirits of some idealism, go to face another spouse whose hard condition did not actually really match, although may not necessarily cause the relation to break, but the psychology is sure not to be too wonderful. So the emotion is before laying a foundation, check on the icy ruler, though might not be very effective, but must not be the bad thing.
Certainly, moral standing, world outlook, values, mode of thinking,etc., it is very central content in the sexual relations too, but these following categories, I'm afraid that it is very difficult to know oneself clearly, moreover, realize the other side in associating short a few years? What's more most men and women are less than mutually ordering all the life at 30 years old, a lot of inherent moral characters did not finalize the design at that time, understood each other even if clear, and how to guarantee to continue unifying harmoniously in the future? Moreover, there is about equal influence on that the other side's personality and disposition are in hard conditions such as education background, job, family,etc., exist some related cause and effect even, this go, realize, try to figure out moral standing and quality of the other side to be more effective and more reliable in the short time than oneself.
So, although the main roads lead to Rome, perhaps the appropriate blind date is to lead to the happy broad and well-paved road for a long time, and thistles and thorns may be more on the road to the happy fate which brings lovers together of water of duckweed.
Blindly date procedure ( One)
A lot of people including me, there is a less than satisfactory blind date experience. The main reason is the purpose and the self-contradictory place has appeared on the means, content and formal arrangement. Some time is that we lack experience, but a lot of people have already too accepted that blindly date in this way, but repel the basic law blindlying date at heart. For example too shy to understand, appear on the stage while being crude and rash fully information, orientate rationally oneself to the intersection of others and choosy terms again, moreover to revealing on websites one's own photo, education background, working, economic terms,etc. are affectedly shy, these do not follow the childish manifestation of game rules. So, having blindlied date more, it is pieces of one's own course of making a reservation rationally on the market of marriage, improve the course of the level of getting along with people by oneself, and even fully understand one's own human nature and course of real demand. As noted previously, the greatest advantage of blindlying date can launch the contacts on the basis of understanding the hard condition effectively in advance. So have information at all collect and communicate, run, it blindlies date to be very intelligently, cause the failure in eight or nine cases out of ten, and injure the party's self-respect and emotion. Follow two principles in preliminary information interchange: Honest and objective + appropriate information issue channel.
The former needn't speak more, but lack sincere consciousness and spirit of obeying game rules in the society overallly at present, must have psychological preparation meet several honest target or woman matchmaker in actual life. Protect the other side while being honest and objective, prevent oneself from add to the worry. Orient the optimistic young friend partially to oneself at ordinary times, it is necessary to reduce self-assessment sedulously at this moment. The latter mainly injures oneself or the other side for preventing the first round from screening. I once worked by giving the wife an introduction, or entrusted the other side (or the other side parents,etc.) in the past Help excuse that I look for a job, obtain resume and photograph (want, let the other side it sees to be out of ulterior motives on purpose certainly each other, otherwise others really place hope on you improper when helping to solve the employment problem) . Thought later it needn't be so troublesome in fact. Even if it is relatives and friends that introduce, can leave pieces of MSN,etc., have a chat first each other first, do BLOG of MSN well by oneself at the same time, the above puts information such as the photo, looks pleasing to the eye stealthily each other, and then both sides ' Or pass a woman matchmaker) Further understand other hard conditions. As for network making friends and marriage-seeking, it is really a very good issue channel. I let others go, watch I advertise for a life partner online message in order to obtain the first-hand materials directly later on. The hard condition is roughly out of question, MSN has a chat all rightly again, it is to meet to connect. I am still very cautious to meeting, because say good-bye to the other side after meeting, the great majority are reasons of the feature, the wife very particularly injures. If fortunately can also stand appearance respect, what is met and discussed? The new hand usually discusses irrelevant things such as weather, amusement,etc., finish, discover and waste for several hours and a pot of payment for tea. More ripely, get married person with strong desire, can discuss working present situation, expectancy of one's own undertaking future, among them can find out this person's working attitude, analytical capacity, expect the intensity etc. oneself. Certainly, young people just entered the society, the most suitable topic was still the life of the school. If education background, working state do not have a common language at all, can totally be combined, but may be the shortcoming of a life to some people. In addition, hobby, social frequency, friend-making attitude, parents' sisters' state,etc. are the question which everybody wants to face straightly, can understand best. Meeting avoids activity of arranging to see the film, bowl etc. most, sheerly waste the time and money for the first time.
Blindly date procedure ' Two)
The appearance question is the bank not getting around while blindlying date. My father adult has proposed in the looks of the swimming pool
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's guide of blindlying date of a bit more awkward editions of men and women of blindlying date
's guide of blindlying date of a bit more awkward editions of men and women of blindlying date
The daughter reaches the husband's blind date of home
The first largest awkwardness: Four generations of boyfriend's house are the same as the hall, enter his house, have four old men who are here in one's face
The field, though the shrewd boyfriend will introduce one by one, the call very the same as boyfriend, rather ridiculous, it is not enough to respect the other side to nod again. Think of call, the awkward state of good call.
The second largest awkwardness: Have a meal at boyfriend's home for the first time, shy that the boyfriend's mother fears you, hold under the arm and give you a lot of dishes, you do not eat in that the same dish, and is very afraid of eating, but the boyfriend's mother is regarded as a good dish, the big chopsticks of big chopsticks are held under the arm for you, make you eat and can not eat any more, not also easy to throw to throw away, very awkward.
The third largest awkwardness: There was a thing suddenly oneself, wanted to leave boyfriend's home, but all members of boyfriend's family, afford to run high warmly, oneself it moves to be no even at this time, not staying well either, the awkward feeling overflows in the heart.
The fourth largest awkwardness: Just bringing curiosity by oneself, come to boyfriend's home to play, the boyfriend's family were with great emphasis finally, having asked many relatives and friends to have a meal, in practice come to help to blindly date. If saying good-bye, this let oneself have face see people very in the future instead, let people experience that awkward in life " Ubiquitous " With " having when not having " .
The fifth largest awkwardness: A gang of people have broken up, want to go home by oneself, the boyfriend's family insist on oneself putting up for the night at his home, he very crowded in inhabitancy of house, follow strange the intersection of boyfriend and women folk of a family of house, sleep a bed altogether, flavour that feel better a little really, really: "Awkward on mind life. "
The man is to the wife's blind date of home
The first largest awkwardness: Oneself reach the intersection of girlfriend and house just, find she house gather one everybody coming to blindly date people already, there are a lot of women folk of a family, just settle down, there are a women folk of a family, open the big mouth, and serve as the role, old aunt of residents committee meticulously, the duty of persons who hold the household register of local police station concurrently and criminal court judge, reality and history of carrying on every aspect of less than three generations are examined. In front of so many strangers, some ones that should avoid, but can't avoid, also have to make the clear answer, let people have to be in awkward state.
The second largest awkwardness: The girlfriend's whole family are all busy outside in the arrival that is one's own is busy, oneself is occupied with nothing, rotate arbitrarily everywhere, watch TV in the sitting room at the worst, want to act as a helper, but the girlfriend's mother don't help. Want to help, the future mother-in-law does not allow, does not help, is afraid again the mother-in-law can not take a fancy to oneself in the future, make people so awkward as to at a loss.
The third largest awkwardness: Began to have a meal, the future father-in-law adult loves to drink the small wine of mouth, did not drink at ordinary times by oneself, again easy to speak frankly, drink, oneself become high point to be common people oneself, the most serious one is that a future father-in-law adult is glad to drink too much. In the future the mother-in-law thinks that it is not easy to break out to break out again, have to act according to circumstances by oneself, make people awkward and multifarious.
The fourth largest awkwardness: Electric apparatus of girlfriend's house has a few small problems, I wonder if that tests the future son-in-law, really have no time to repair badly, this is unable to find out. Anyway, whether must repair for a moment affectedly, just find that there is a small out of order part, have to go out, the so great strength of the fee was bought back, repaired to that fellow at last, but the future mother-in-law must pay out the money used to buy the part, this lets people so awkward that some fell too ashamed to show one's face.
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The daughter reaches the husband's blind date of home
The first largest awkwardness: Four generations of boyfriend's house are the same as the hall, enter his house, have four old men who are here in one's face
The field, though the shrewd boyfriend will introduce one by one, the call very the same as boyfriend, rather ridiculous, it is not enough to respect the other side to nod again. Think of call, the awkward state of good call.
The second largest awkwardness: Have a meal at boyfriend's home for the first time, shy that the boyfriend's mother fears you, hold under the arm and give you a lot of dishes, you do not eat in that the same dish, and is very afraid of eating, but the boyfriend's mother is regarded as a good dish, the big chopsticks of big chopsticks are held under the arm for you, make you eat and can not eat any more, not also easy to throw to throw away, very awkward.
The third largest awkwardness: There was a thing suddenly oneself, wanted to leave boyfriend's home, but all members of boyfriend's family, afford to run high warmly, oneself it moves to be no even at this time, not staying well either, the awkward feeling overflows in the heart.
The fourth largest awkwardness: Just bringing curiosity by oneself, come to boyfriend's home to play, the boyfriend's family were with great emphasis finally, having asked many relatives and friends to have a meal, in practice come to help to blindly date. If saying good-bye, this let oneself have face see people very in the future instead, let people experience that awkward in life " Ubiquitous " With " having when not having " .
The fifth largest awkwardness: A gang of people have broken up, want to go home by oneself, the boyfriend's family insist on oneself putting up for the night at his home, he very crowded in inhabitancy of house, follow strange the intersection of boyfriend and women folk of a family of house, sleep a bed altogether, flavour that feel better a little really, really: "Awkward on mind life. "
The man is to the wife's blind date of home
The first largest awkwardness: Oneself reach the intersection of girlfriend and house just, find she house gather one everybody coming to blindly date people already, there are a lot of women folk of a family, just settle down, there are a women folk of a family, open the big mouth, and serve as the role, old aunt of residents committee meticulously, the duty of persons who hold the household register of local police station concurrently and criminal court judge, reality and history of carrying on every aspect of less than three generations are examined. In front of so many strangers, some ones that should avoid, but can't avoid, also have to make the clear answer, let people have to be in awkward state.
The second largest awkwardness: The girlfriend's whole family are all busy outside in the arrival that is one's own is busy, oneself is occupied with nothing, rotate arbitrarily everywhere, watch TV in the sitting room at the worst, want to act as a helper, but the girlfriend's mother don't help. Want to help, the future mother-in-law does not allow, does not help, is afraid again the mother-in-law can not take a fancy to oneself in the future, make people so awkward as to at a loss.
The third largest awkwardness: Began to have a meal, the future father-in-law adult loves to drink the small wine of mouth, did not drink at ordinary times by oneself, again easy to speak frankly, drink, oneself become high point to be common people oneself, the most serious one is that a future father-in-law adult is glad to drink too much. In the future the mother-in-law thinks that it is not easy to break out to break out again, have to act according to circumstances by oneself, make people awkward and multifarious.
The fourth largest awkwardness: Electric apparatus of girlfriend's house has a few small problems, I wonder if that tests the future son-in-law, really have no time to repair badly, this is unable to find out. Anyway, whether must repair for a moment affectedly, just find that there is a small out of order part, have to go out, the so great strength of the fee was bought back, repaired to that fellow at last, but the future mother-in-law must pay out the money used to buy the part, this lets people so awkward that some fell too ashamed to show one's face.
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Sunday, April 28, 2013
Guide to _'s blind date of blindlying date just like interview
Guide to _'s blind date of blindlying date just like interview
Have one above the average age for marriage the intersection of hunter and Ben tired on rush about in every teahouse the intersection of coffee house and inner from various places the intersection of blind date and target that friends and family give a recommendation speaking face to face friend recently. In fact this fellow has gone through a section of deep and eternal love, has experienced great things to embarrass so far
Water, he participate in, blindly date to give parents one explaination, it is one's own job that used to it, make right at the same time, so the blind date of he and the other side is dated even more it is to carry on preliminary interview screening or talent capacity for the customer.
Ben summarizes, in fact the affinity interview of the looks has a great deal of places that plays the same tune on different musical instruments. First of all, want, understand to some extent the other side before the intersection of looks and the intersection of affinity and interview, interested to can demand, meet, dilate. The content understood includes blindlying date the target's appearance stature, interest specialty, working condition,etc., and historical background, trade position, service of goods of interview company,etc.. Want to understand and blindly date the target's intension and capability of interview company more, can click the blog and chain and log in to company's websites, have full of turns the intersection of understanding and target of blindlying date at one's side and familiar personage may accomplish to know yourself as well as the enemy in work by the intersection of the other side and Company.
Secondly, when the ones that attend affinity interview of the looks are invited, will all decorate and dress up it meticulously. Everybody knows the importance of the primary impression, so the men turn over and go out of the famous-brand suit which press the bottom of the case to come into the hairdresser's and cut the hair and have a shave, ladies find out the most beautiful dress and sit in front of the dressing table the babbler copies the lip, thus the affinity interview of the looks was the candidates only freshest moment that day.
Moreover, the affinity interview of the looks is a course of two-way choice. Your blind date target will also be arranged and see the even good person of another condition by parents after seeing you, the interview company should select one from the candidates of several academic backgrounds with suitable working experience, position of applying for a job finally.
The affinity interview of the looks is over sometimes, the other side favors very you, but you think the other side not ideal enough and refusing to continue keeping in touch, perhaps you will later on run into and have chance with people and more desirable company, but perhaps you wrap up and walk around to find that lost the best one by mistake very too.
On the contrary, if you fall in love with target of blindlying date, particularly admire to the interview company, but the other side has not asserted you are that cup of tea, even if you express loyally, the other side will indicate to have no intention to develop with you too.
Most afraid you discussed it is very joyous after meeting the other side, thought that found each other congenial each other, then respectively carved, the other side says " Will get in touch with you soon " And then, but not contacted even after stalling for a long time. In fact, have news equal to bad news, if you happy talk and the other side for that day unwilling to free oneself in specious hint in remember everyday also, vainly hope the other side is sure to abide by the promise, then you can be rated as " fool No. two " ,Then nobody dares to call the first.
Certainly having a kind of situation uncomfortable in chest, you are very outstanding, the target is very outstanding too that blindly date, you are a talent, the other side is a good company too, but not felt between you, chemical reaction of getting up, the other side think you may best candidate but no most appropriate. The result can only shoot two scatteredly.
The analysis of Ben clearly and logically, let people admire. Let whom Ben admire the intersection of colleague and Alex of him, because the person Niu succeed in the interview and blindly date and combine into a single unit, employ, get one name find the agreeable lifelong companion for the intersection of customer and Company for oneself too while the sales manager of heart.
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Have one above the average age for marriage the intersection of hunter and Ben tired on rush about in every teahouse the intersection of coffee house and inner from various places the intersection of blind date and target that friends and family give a recommendation speaking face to face friend recently. In fact this fellow has gone through a section of deep and eternal love, has experienced great things to embarrass so far
Water, he participate in, blindly date to give parents one explaination, it is one's own job that used to it, make right at the same time, so the blind date of he and the other side is dated even more it is to carry on preliminary interview screening or talent capacity for the customer.
Ben summarizes, in fact the affinity interview of the looks has a great deal of places that plays the same tune on different musical instruments. First of all, want, understand to some extent the other side before the intersection of looks and the intersection of affinity and interview, interested to can demand, meet, dilate. The content understood includes blindlying date the target's appearance stature, interest specialty, working condition,etc., and historical background, trade position, service of goods of interview company,etc.. Want to understand and blindly date the target's intension and capability of interview company more, can click the blog and chain and log in to company's websites, have full of turns the intersection of understanding and target of blindlying date at one's side and familiar personage may accomplish to know yourself as well as the enemy in work by the intersection of the other side and Company.
Secondly, when the ones that attend affinity interview of the looks are invited, will all decorate and dress up it meticulously. Everybody knows the importance of the primary impression, so the men turn over and go out of the famous-brand suit which press the bottom of the case to come into the hairdresser's and cut the hair and have a shave, ladies find out the most beautiful dress and sit in front of the dressing table the babbler copies the lip, thus the affinity interview of the looks was the candidates only freshest moment that day.
Moreover, the affinity interview of the looks is a course of two-way choice. Your blind date target will also be arranged and see the even good person of another condition by parents after seeing you, the interview company should select one from the candidates of several academic backgrounds with suitable working experience, position of applying for a job finally.
The affinity interview of the looks is over sometimes, the other side favors very you, but you think the other side not ideal enough and refusing to continue keeping in touch, perhaps you will later on run into and have chance with people and more desirable company, but perhaps you wrap up and walk around to find that lost the best one by mistake very too.
On the contrary, if you fall in love with target of blindlying date, particularly admire to the interview company, but the other side has not asserted you are that cup of tea, even if you express loyally, the other side will indicate to have no intention to develop with you too.
Most afraid you discussed it is very joyous after meeting the other side, thought that found each other congenial each other, then respectively carved, the other side says " Will get in touch with you soon " And then, but not contacted even after stalling for a long time. In fact, have news equal to bad news, if you happy talk and the other side for that day unwilling to free oneself in specious hint in remember everyday also, vainly hope the other side is sure to abide by the promise, then you can be rated as " fool No. two " ,Then nobody dares to call the first.
Certainly having a kind of situation uncomfortable in chest, you are very outstanding, the target is very outstanding too that blindly date, you are a talent, the other side is a good company too, but not felt between you, chemical reaction of getting up, the other side think you may best candidate but no most appropriate. The result can only shoot two scatteredly.
The analysis of Ben clearly and logically, let people admire. Let whom Ben admire the intersection of colleague and Alex of him, because the person Niu succeed in the interview and blindly date and combine into a single unit, employ, get one name find the agreeable lifelong companion for the intersection of customer and Company for oneself too while the sales manager of heart.
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Treasured book of the blind date Meet the thing _ marriage psychology never done for the first time
Treasured book of the blind date Meet the thing _ marriage psychology never done for the first time
" fall in love at first sight " The probability taking place in actual life is very rare, the theory is to same sex or opposite sex, no matter in the commercial occasion or in the private occasion. But you of good fortune, have experienced the twinkling of an eye of stone fire of light produced by electricity of several times. One to one handsome man, eyes fall upon him, is unwilling to remove and then; One to one of the same age woman, you get to know when the corporation move about; One to the intersection of customer and first director of Company, he introduced myself at the meeting at that time.
Falling in love at first sight each time, you can take a sniff at people's fragrance from the other side. Fall into the intersection of network and desire musk that trigger, want until talk of everything under the sun it faint to wipe the intersection of tea and bad smell, sea wind breath of expecting to laugh heartily to one's heart's content together Thought that entered the field, world was clear and resounding at that time, the smile of the joy that your corner of the mouth split out unwittingly too.
Congratulations! You know, how rare the such twinkling of an eye is! People, while seeing the stranger, can building blow lines of fortification in heart instinctively often, for this reason, it is extremely difficult for the other side to drive straight in, direct at your heart. Certainly if you are that kind of person very apt to be excited, another cup of tea.
How do you do, as you have grown to the other side out to go beyond the emotion of good opinion, how should you do? Represent one's own best one side to the other side, let it understand your compliment and good opinion, and let the other side notice (even comes to like) You.
But, wait a moment! You can't because urgent in mood, it is eager to dump one's own all glamour out, the emotion overly exposed will be frightened the other side, to run counter to desire finally. You should know how to call stopping to oneself gracefully and restrainedly: " get here today! " Leave the other side a figure wanting to stop yet in language, lingering sound curls upwards so, the ones that wondered how much to trigger him are charmed, piss of the next meeting has already become inevitable. Once emotion turns into, otherwise blaze, totally burn one once; Otherwise the small fire is stewed slowly, go through and fill for a long time fragrantly. If you want to extend the fate with the other side for a long time, please consider more.
Blindlying date, it is one that seems to be easy, in fact knowledge advanced Dongdong. Every times of the people of activity, N of experience, know, blindly date, have three period of stage.
First stage: Look around and accumulate one, it is affectedly shy, tense and uneasy to behave. The same as student's first time admission examination, uneasy, agitated in the heart, regard the situation as very grave or critical. The second time or the probability of the appointment will not be high again afterwards, generally all " once light " ,Since then, forget Yu JiangHu.
Second stage: , would not be more nervous, will not be more choosy either.
Basically see, and will not be shy again, it is too shy to ask many questions, but follow " Slice is alert " The same, to the other side's family, the hobby, the education, working and even aunt of seven aunts eight, niece's nephew all have at fingertips.
In this period, if can meet one and get along well, the person whose conditions of various fields can regard as, must catch, is it in because this " in to time meet by right person " ,Can't have not good vainly hope, we want until " the dark blind person break stick off with the fingers and thumb " Story alarm oneself.
Third stage: Trust to chance and strokes of luck for period. Miss best time, as blindly date, turn suffering into again used to iting, good deed to the doer's credit in the next word depending on the previous existence can be done. Regret without any result, pin effection on on work or show filial respect for parents then, by the way wait to come down from the Heaven " The extremely large size pie " . Amen, bring blessings, can only bless.
In sum, no matter man man or woman woman, want in marry, shed or capture the sweet-smelling heart for period of gold oneself the most by oneself, also could comfort countless people's heart only in this way, Papa and Mama, relatives and friends, the most important thing is one's own one!
Who accompanies you to say good-bye to singly
Standard of choosing spouse can't " Demand perfection"
"The stage that I would not go so far as to reduce to advertising for a life partner? " Hear, have single too impatient with advertise for a life partner, draw a clear line of demarcation personal value here even in order to show oneself clan often. Many adult singles have seemed to take great pains to guard a secret to this all the time, has regarded advertising for a life partner as and lost face, especially some women will neither marry, nor pluck up one's courage and step out this step all the life. So, in the place of matchmakers, the stranger advertises for a life partner the proportion is far higher than natives, men exceed women.
The purpose to advertise for a life partner is for expanding the friend-making chance, if it is all money to open and close mouths, 30 year old stand fast at 20 that year such as year old still " Can go to the hall, play the kitchen, endowed with both beauty and talent " Standard of choosing spouse,naturally will lose a lot of marriage chance,where will it be meaning that be advertised for a life partner?
Go to blindly date candidly naturally
Such traditional acquaintance way of blindlying date radiated vigor again in new era. The greatest advantage is to blindly date, both sides are very clear what is done by oneself, guarantee to exchange effectively; Blindly date since introduced by others, although it is impossible to know the background, know a bit sort of, the credit threshold has already been improved artificially, the party sets up defences degree can reduce a bit.
If the result of blindlying date is less than satisfactory each time, you should make good preparations for fighting repeatedly after suffering repeated defeats.
Someone can't make the restrained form at once when liking to act as a go-between for you, wave and say " The ones that introduce are sure to be not so good as meeting by chance " ," I am not worried yet " ,In the face of others' enthusiastic introduction, should give up worry, remove the burden, accept candidly naturally. And in a situation that the love does not come even after stalling for a long time, you should put down the figure, mobilize relatives and friends voluntarily, ask them to look for the marriage partner for you.
Not crazy about not to refuse love online either
Certain someone says to you that does not believe the love fairy tale in love online, someone proposes " seeing the light and dying " you too Sincere advice,but young people when it have a lot of look for by love one after another on network, QQ blindlies date, dates with the city Do not miss a gleam of chance. If must be through recommending solving the marriage problem, it is the simplest way that the network blindlies date, many young people work nervous, have no time through meet, talk, meet, talk again and then these way consume time and fall in love, network
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" fall in love at first sight " The probability taking place in actual life is very rare, the theory is to same sex or opposite sex, no matter in the commercial occasion or in the private occasion. But you of good fortune, have experienced the twinkling of an eye of stone fire of light produced by electricity of several times. One to one handsome man, eyes fall upon him, is unwilling to remove and then; One to one of the same age woman, you get to know when the corporation move about; One to the intersection of customer and first director of Company, he introduced myself at the meeting at that time.
Falling in love at first sight each time, you can take a sniff at people's fragrance from the other side. Fall into the intersection of network and desire musk that trigger, want until talk of everything under the sun it faint to wipe the intersection of tea and bad smell, sea wind breath of expecting to laugh heartily to one's heart's content together Thought that entered the field, world was clear and resounding at that time, the smile of the joy that your corner of the mouth split out unwittingly too.
Congratulations! You know, how rare the such twinkling of an eye is! People, while seeing the stranger, can building blow lines of fortification in heart instinctively often, for this reason, it is extremely difficult for the other side to drive straight in, direct at your heart. Certainly if you are that kind of person very apt to be excited, another cup of tea.
How do you do, as you have grown to the other side out to go beyond the emotion of good opinion, how should you do? Represent one's own best one side to the other side, let it understand your compliment and good opinion, and let the other side notice (even comes to like) You.
But, wait a moment! You can't because urgent in mood, it is eager to dump one's own all glamour out, the emotion overly exposed will be frightened the other side, to run counter to desire finally. You should know how to call stopping to oneself gracefully and restrainedly: " get here today! " Leave the other side a figure wanting to stop yet in language, lingering sound curls upwards so, the ones that wondered how much to trigger him are charmed, piss of the next meeting has already become inevitable. Once emotion turns into, otherwise blaze, totally burn one once; Otherwise the small fire is stewed slowly, go through and fill for a long time fragrantly. If you want to extend the fate with the other side for a long time, please consider more.
Blindlying date, it is one that seems to be easy, in fact knowledge advanced Dongdong. Every times of the people of activity, N of experience, know, blindly date, have three period of stage.
First stage: Look around and accumulate one, it is affectedly shy, tense and uneasy to behave. The same as student's first time admission examination, uneasy, agitated in the heart, regard the situation as very grave or critical. The second time or the probability of the appointment will not be high again afterwards, generally all " once light " ,Since then, forget Yu JiangHu.
Second stage: , would not be more nervous, will not be more choosy either.
Basically see, and will not be shy again, it is too shy to ask many questions, but follow " Slice is alert " The same, to the other side's family, the hobby, the education, working and even aunt of seven aunts eight, niece's nephew all have at fingertips.
In this period, if can meet one and get along well, the person whose conditions of various fields can regard as, must catch, is it in because this " in to time meet by right person " ,Can't have not good vainly hope, we want until " the dark blind person break stick off with the fingers and thumb " Story alarm oneself.
Third stage: Trust to chance and strokes of luck for period. Miss best time, as blindly date, turn suffering into again used to iting, good deed to the doer's credit in the next word depending on the previous existence can be done. Regret without any result, pin effection on on work or show filial respect for parents then, by the way wait to come down from the Heaven " The extremely large size pie " . Amen, bring blessings, can only bless.
In sum, no matter man man or woman woman, want in marry, shed or capture the sweet-smelling heart for period of gold oneself the most by oneself, also could comfort countless people's heart only in this way, Papa and Mama, relatives and friends, the most important thing is one's own one!
Who accompanies you to say good-bye to singly
Standard of choosing spouse can't " Demand perfection"
"The stage that I would not go so far as to reduce to advertising for a life partner? " Hear, have single too impatient with advertise for a life partner, draw a clear line of demarcation personal value here even in order to show oneself clan often. Many adult singles have seemed to take great pains to guard a secret to this all the time, has regarded advertising for a life partner as and lost face, especially some women will neither marry, nor pluck up one's courage and step out this step all the life. So, in the place of matchmakers, the stranger advertises for a life partner the proportion is far higher than natives, men exceed women.
The purpose to advertise for a life partner is for expanding the friend-making chance, if it is all money to open and close mouths, 30 year old stand fast at 20 that year such as year old still " Can go to the hall, play the kitchen, endowed with both beauty and talent " Standard of choosing spouse,naturally will lose a lot of marriage chance,where will it be meaning that be advertised for a life partner?
Go to blindly date candidly naturally
Such traditional acquaintance way of blindlying date radiated vigor again in new era. The greatest advantage is to blindly date, both sides are very clear what is done by oneself, guarantee to exchange effectively; Blindly date since introduced by others, although it is impossible to know the background, know a bit sort of, the credit threshold has already been improved artificially, the party sets up defences degree can reduce a bit.
If the result of blindlying date is less than satisfactory each time, you should make good preparations for fighting repeatedly after suffering repeated defeats.
Someone can't make the restrained form at once when liking to act as a go-between for you, wave and say " The ones that introduce are sure to be not so good as meeting by chance " ," I am not worried yet " ,In the face of others' enthusiastic introduction, should give up worry, remove the burden, accept candidly naturally. And in a situation that the love does not come even after stalling for a long time, you should put down the figure, mobilize relatives and friends voluntarily, ask them to look for the marriage partner for you.
Not crazy about not to refuse love online either
Certain someone says to you that does not believe the love fairy tale in love online, someone proposes " seeing the light and dying " you too Sincere advice,but young people when it have a lot of look for by love one after another on network, QQ blindlies date, dates with the city Do not miss a gleam of chance. If must be through recommending solving the marriage problem, it is the simplest way that the network blindlies date, many young people work nervous, have no time through meet, talk, meet, talk again and then these way consume time and fall in love, network
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Blindly date woman's very much beautiful sexy _'s guide of blindlying date
Blindly date woman's very much beautiful sexy _'s guide of blindlying date
Recently, someone introduced a very beautiful and sexy girlfriend to me. After blindlying date, as soon as the sponsor tells me that the wife have no opinions, the sponsor wait for my answer, it is difficult that I make at this moment, why do you say this is?
Thing
Must say, my former wife is a beautiful and sexy woman, let the man compatriot envy carefully when get married from the beginning, they say my good fortune in love affairs is not simple, I am very proud, the man's self-respect is undoubtedly apparent to the limit. As time goes on, the wife often complains it is too slow that I am transferred and promoted, make money too little, salary of one month is not enough yet she buys a famous-brand garment, I am worried too. Do anything to be difficult nowadays, salary of me lower very very lucky, where dare to expect and get a salary raise even. Later on my former wife and I say, she wants to say good-bye to me. Do I ask her why in surprise? She says, in a classmate gathering, meet a classmate of high school by chance, he likes her while going to school, go abroad later, come back home, develop very successful several years ago, pieces of the intersection of diamond and king 5 old, often invite her to dinner, give a valuable present to her. She says the property of the family is me, I put the man aside in self-respect, ask her to be unhelpful too earnestly, we has to place say good-bye. The Mummy is so angry as to take to one's bed and never leave it again, the daddy moans and groans all day, my heart pulls out coolly and pulls out the cool one, one week tight 4 kilograms, I swear: Even if the fairy maiden wants to marry me but married either.
Speak one's mind, I like sexy woman at heart, nowadays at I afraid, look for one more sexy woman, let others keep thinking about very, am not I all in vain in the end?
Everybody kiss, I hear of the online past master such as forest, have a wise move, please get me a decision, I to marry the intersection of appearance and ordinary woman, make wife, marry sexy pleasant woman, become a wife? The sponsor is still waiting for the answer, this requests you, first meet again, I must go to the hospital to look after the Mummy
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Recently, someone introduced a very beautiful and sexy girlfriend to me. After blindlying date, as soon as the sponsor tells me that the wife have no opinions, the sponsor wait for my answer, it is difficult that I make at this moment, why do you say this is?
Thing
Must say, my former wife is a beautiful and sexy woman, let the man compatriot envy carefully when get married from the beginning, they say my good fortune in love affairs is not simple, I am very proud, the man's self-respect is undoubtedly apparent to the limit. As time goes on, the wife often complains it is too slow that I am transferred and promoted, make money too little, salary of one month is not enough yet she buys a famous-brand garment, I am worried too. Do anything to be difficult nowadays, salary of me lower very very lucky, where dare to expect and get a salary raise even. Later on my former wife and I say, she wants to say good-bye to me. Do I ask her why in surprise? She says, in a classmate gathering, meet a classmate of high school by chance, he likes her while going to school, go abroad later, come back home, develop very successful several years ago, pieces of the intersection of diamond and king 5 old, often invite her to dinner, give a valuable present to her. She says the property of the family is me, I put the man aside in self-respect, ask her to be unhelpful too earnestly, we has to place say good-bye. The Mummy is so angry as to take to one's bed and never leave it again, the daddy moans and groans all day, my heart pulls out coolly and pulls out the cool one, one week tight 4 kilograms, I swear: Even if the fairy maiden wants to marry me but married either.
Speak one's mind, I like sexy woman at heart, nowadays at I afraid, look for one more sexy woman, let others keep thinking about very, am not I all in vain in the end?
Everybody kiss, I hear of the online past master such as forest, have a wise move, please get me a decision, I to marry the intersection of appearance and ordinary woman, make wife, marry sexy pleasant woman, become a wife? The sponsor is still waiting for the answer, this requests you, first meet again, I must go to the hospital to look after the Mummy
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What 8 minutes blindly date to settle the lover? 's guide of blindlying date
What 8 minutes blindly date to settle the lover? 's guide of blindlying date
Only, whom fast food take many, taste too can become, choose, right away may turn one's head over while being pleasing to the eye slightly, look for the next goal that can bring out the appetite. Do you know which respect the other side likes choosing most? This text is that the looks members of the same clan must read the rule before setting out.
Aries:
The Aries people overflowing with enthusiasm, the oppressive atmosphere that most afraid awkwardly while blindlying date, so needn't pretend the restrained and shy fair maiden, or abysmal cool brother, can regard blindlying date as a friend chatting idly gathering, the other side can enthusiasm had one's bosom filled with to take out absorbed among them instead. And Aries people like to ask about your taste, or the scene that imagination future combines very much while blindlying date, the talking in professional jargon type puts forward the question of getting along that will be faced, sound out the number of the common language, whether can give him enough private dense spaces. If you have a good impression on this white sheep, then cater to his tastes.
Taurus:
With the blind date of Taurus, the ones that must not be worn are too casual. The old ox does things and always follows a prescribed pattern in speech or action, it is a major issue to blindly date for them, if you dress too at will, will let him think that lack sincerity and respect. In addition one of the most important points is that Taurus people have very strong possessiveness on all beautiful things, very nitpicking to the appearance, if you do not have abundant confidence to one's own appearance, then mend one and make up at once, needn't whitewash, but will keep clean, fresh and cool, not greasy at least, the hair must not be messy.
Gemini:
Gemini is the various communication occasions and most active group of person, they will consider appearance conditions such as the appearance, stature,etc. to some extent naturally, if can take so as to appear on the scene. But the place that they take notice of even more is a personality and ability is complementary, you needn't have his strong point, his weakness wishes eagerly to be filled by you, such an association will not waste resources, and does not lack the temperament and interest. If he can make money very well, will hope you are good at keeping house, if he is steady and sure and calm and steady, will hope your much manufacture is romantic. So, very necessary to investigating before blindlying date, should be while affirming him while blindlying date, try hard to manifest one's own difference.
Cancer:
Like looking for a quiet coffee shop or tea at the time of the sensitive Cancer blind date, weave life with you while appreciating the lyrical music. Must not take the family or friend, this will let them feel uneasy. He minds your romantic experience very much, although will not interrogate your past sedulously, but you had better tell he (especially the person injured on the emotion) as soon as possible ,Let him experience your honesty, because all things hidden in the dark place are potential crises for them.
Leo:
Blindly date very casual with person of Leo, dress, have, you had better look a little bit ripe, serious. You may feel that there is a pressure in front of them, but they actually wished eagerly even more you are an outstanding tamer, so must not have no will of one's own, look all psychology down upon, regard the other side as paper lion, may move him like this. Certainly, the lion is a lion after all, you finish catching a stick, remember to want for a sweet date in time, make him docile to you, can keep majestically.
Virgo:
Virgo is generally acknowledged " Nitpicking king " ,The thing of blindlying date is no exception. Plain one goes to fulfill an appointment, he thinks you too careless; Contain and attend, will think you like the pendulum table, vulgar; There are too many words to think you say another word, want to try to be friendly with; There are too few and think you too wooden, does not have temperament and interest words. The most nitpicking one is your personal hygiene, the clothes needn't be enough for the modish, but absolutely clean; The hair can not be jet-black enough, but must be fresh and cool. Find the topic that the other side is interested in as soon as possible while blindlying date, shift his attention.
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Only, whom fast food take many, taste too can become, choose, right away may turn one's head over while being pleasing to the eye slightly, look for the next goal that can bring out the appetite. Do you know which respect the other side likes choosing most? This text is that the looks members of the same clan must read the rule before setting out.
Aries:
The Aries people overflowing with enthusiasm, the oppressive atmosphere that most afraid awkwardly while blindlying date, so needn't pretend the restrained and shy fair maiden, or abysmal cool brother, can regard blindlying date as a friend chatting idly gathering, the other side can enthusiasm had one's bosom filled with to take out absorbed among them instead. And Aries people like to ask about your taste, or the scene that imagination future combines very much while blindlying date, the talking in professional jargon type puts forward the question of getting along that will be faced, sound out the number of the common language, whether can give him enough private dense spaces. If you have a good impression on this white sheep, then cater to his tastes.
Taurus:
With the blind date of Taurus, the ones that must not be worn are too casual. The old ox does things and always follows a prescribed pattern in speech or action, it is a major issue to blindly date for them, if you dress too at will, will let him think that lack sincerity and respect. In addition one of the most important points is that Taurus people have very strong possessiveness on all beautiful things, very nitpicking to the appearance, if you do not have abundant confidence to one's own appearance, then mend one and make up at once, needn't whitewash, but will keep clean, fresh and cool, not greasy at least, the hair must not be messy.
Gemini:
Gemini is the various communication occasions and most active group of person, they will consider appearance conditions such as the appearance, stature,etc. to some extent naturally, if can take so as to appear on the scene. But the place that they take notice of even more is a personality and ability is complementary, you needn't have his strong point, his weakness wishes eagerly to be filled by you, such an association will not waste resources, and does not lack the temperament and interest. If he can make money very well, will hope you are good at keeping house, if he is steady and sure and calm and steady, will hope your much manufacture is romantic. So, very necessary to investigating before blindlying date, should be while affirming him while blindlying date, try hard to manifest one's own difference.
Cancer:
Like looking for a quiet coffee shop or tea at the time of the sensitive Cancer blind date, weave life with you while appreciating the lyrical music. Must not take the family or friend, this will let them feel uneasy. He minds your romantic experience very much, although will not interrogate your past sedulously, but you had better tell he (especially the person injured on the emotion) as soon as possible ,Let him experience your honesty, because all things hidden in the dark place are potential crises for them.
Leo:
Blindly date very casual with person of Leo, dress, have, you had better look a little bit ripe, serious. You may feel that there is a pressure in front of them, but they actually wished eagerly even more you are an outstanding tamer, so must not have no will of one's own, look all psychology down upon, regard the other side as paper lion, may move him like this. Certainly, the lion is a lion after all, you finish catching a stick, remember to want for a sweet date in time, make him docile to you, can keep majestically.
Virgo:
Virgo is generally acknowledged " Nitpicking king " ,The thing of blindlying date is no exception. Plain one goes to fulfill an appointment, he thinks you too careless; Contain and attend, will think you like the pendulum table, vulgar; There are too many words to think you say another word, want to try to be friendly with; There are too few and think you too wooden, does not have temperament and interest words. The most nitpicking one is your personal hygiene, the clothes needn't be enough for the modish, but absolutely clean; The hair can not be jet-black enough, but must be fresh and cool. Find the topic that the other side is interested in as soon as possible while blindlying date, shift his attention.
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Blindly date at the dinner gushing out with best manning blood talk the intersection of _ and guide of blindlying date
Blindly date at the dinner gushing out with best manning blood talk the intersection of _ and guide of blindlying date
Have to write, accompany each other, die out for two weeks of human nature to present the funeral oration for this vigorous, beat breast and stamp feet, grief and indignation of mine. The ones that made me deep realized, there is not highest grade the most, highest grade in the world in this. If time can flow backwards, I will speak four words to my mother, will not " go either " . If should add time before the words of these four again, I hope it is " 100 million years " . What is meant by the super narcissist? What is meant by the super cow hide candy? What is meant by the super realistic group? In the flowering shrubs Wan, a leaf is not stained with the body. The reader listens to me sentence by sentence, please, my one week in deep distress, the supernatural horse's highest grade is the floating clouds here - -
One of the highest grade, super narcissist. This old to come up, memory not all right. On the somth, a matchmaker guides one little partner and check-ins and meets each other, practises medicine (and then narrate as some helpers of private clinic) according to the filling a post with credit industry ,It is said the appearance is impressive, it is said it is honest and tolerant. In the old mother's murder eyes and all neighbours " The deep friendship " Care under,it is engage in a small talk to have to go forward, ask that old stuff whether because answer mutually mutually, not lasting information. The look of turning round is dim, what kind is forgotten. A face happiness of old mother, call by oneself hopefully. Wait for two days, does not see the incoming telegram, happy relaxation. Twelve o'clock past (girl, send spring at midnight, disturb one's sweet dream) ,Unexpected letter, a group says the diction, has qualities reasonably. The reader reads, please: "From what is known the opening not. To me, it gets married to be very remote thing, two people stay sometimes difficult at short range. (kindness, so reasonable too!) I am not thought of a telephone to force to get married
,That is a thing all one's life.
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Have to write, accompany each other, die out for two weeks of human nature to present the funeral oration for this vigorous, beat breast and stamp feet, grief and indignation of mine. The ones that made me deep realized, there is not highest grade the most, highest grade in the world in this. If time can flow backwards, I will speak four words to my mother, will not " go either " . If should add time before the words of these four again, I hope it is " 100 million years " . What is meant by the super narcissist? What is meant by the super cow hide candy? What is meant by the super realistic group? In the flowering shrubs Wan, a leaf is not stained with the body. The reader listens to me sentence by sentence, please, my one week in deep distress, the supernatural horse's highest grade is the floating clouds here - -
One of the highest grade, super narcissist. This old to come up, memory not all right. On the somth, a matchmaker guides one little partner and check-ins and meets each other, practises medicine (and then narrate as some helpers of private clinic) according to the filling a post with credit industry ,It is said the appearance is impressive, it is said it is honest and tolerant. In the old mother's murder eyes and all neighbours " The deep friendship " Care under,it is engage in a small talk to have to go forward, ask that old stuff whether because answer mutually mutually, not lasting information. The look of turning round is dim, what kind is forgotten. A face happiness of old mother, call by oneself hopefully. Wait for two days, does not see the incoming telegram, happy relaxation. Twelve o'clock past (girl, send spring at midnight, disturb one's sweet dream) ,Unexpected letter, a group says the diction, has qualities reasonably. The reader reads, please: "From what is known the opening not. To me, it gets married to be very remote thing, two people stay sometimes difficult at short range. (kindness, so reasonable too!) I am not thought of a telephone to force to get married
,That is a thing all one's life.
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