Disease wife lie in bed 28 The annual husband does not abandon fulfilling " L Stick together through thick and thin " R Commitment

Disease wife lie in bed 28 The annual husband does not abandon fulfilling " L Stick together through thick and thin " R Commitment
" In so many years, it is really not easy for him to live, the wife is confined to bed, the things inside and outside of family are managed alone by him " It talks about one's own the intersection of neighbour and piece to be prosperous to revitalize, Ms. Liu say with feeling dish.
Ms. Liu tells reporters, 28 years ago, Zhang ChangXing's wife got a serious disease, confined to bed from then on . At that time, had 3 children under their knee, the largest child is just 12 years old. Piece prosperous to revitalize, provoke the heavy burden of the family by first people, should work and support the family to paste the mouth, and also look after the wife confined to bed .
In the afternoon of the 16th, the reporter comes to Mr. Zhang to settle the residence of the Residential Area in Taijiang well. Two beds are being put side by side in the room where Mr. Zhang lives, Mr. Zhang's wife lies on a bed among them, another bed is Mr. Zhang's.
After greeting a reporter and sitting down, Mr. Zhang sits to the wife's side very naturally, stand up for the wife, inquire softly she has something to need. Mr. Zhang says, stands up and wipes washing for the wife regularly, it is a thing that must be done every day, the wife was laid up in bed 28, had never had bedsore, has got up three or four times and attended to the wife every night, have already become the ordinary affair .
One day of 1982, Mr. Zhang's wife came down with disease, sent to the hospital and rescued, people rescued over, but must be accompanied by bed from then on . 3 children of Mr. Zhang's were all small at that time, the heavy burdens of the families all fell on the shoulders of a person of his quickly.
Mr. Zhang worked in of vegetables company, must go to the unit at over 5 o'clock at dusk at that time, not getting home until seven or eight o'clock the next morning, the child going to school often goes to the school hungrily. He who came back home, could not often have a rest, began to attend to the wife. Because of lacking enough rests, fell asleep while feeding the meal to the wife sometimes, the bowl has been gone to the ground to break into pieces, the meal has spread a place, after he tidies up, cook the meal for the wife again.
Recall that arises for life in these 28 years, Mr. Zhang says, those initial several years, live very difficultly in life, it is a blessing that there is friends and family's help, have come over very much. The child is after job marriage, burden is much lighter. The children are all very filial nowadays, and he can look after the wife wholeheartedly.
As to husband and son, Mr. Zhang's wife always thinks oneself is in arrears of much more. Mr. Zhang says : " A word that the wife most often says is ' if I am not this sample now, you would not live so arduously. ' " L
Ms. Liu says, get to Mr. Zhang's home each time, it is careful to see him and look after the wife, lie in bed for a long time, wife of Mr. Zhang sometimes can send temper to him, but each meet such a situation, Mr. Zhang comforts always detailed language . In her impression, have never seen Mr. Zhang lose the temper in front of the wife, this pair of couple is very difficult, very rare too.
Mr. Zhang is 69 years old this year, retired he at home looks after the wife's time more. " Couple's kindness of one hundred days of the first, as couple, will be originally blissful with enjoying the difficult with acting as one soon. " Mr. Zhang says. (Wu HaiHong )
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