Morbid psychology and setback in childhood

Morbid psychology and setback in childhood
A man teacher of middle age, night is often perplexed by the nightmare. It is due to the snake to be and total in the nightmare, namely often present a poisonous snake in the dream, or twine his both feet, or is spitting red tongue to him. He is often woken up, it is in a cold sweat to frighten. Traced to its source, there was such experience when he is 7 years old originally: Went out to mow with several children as a child, proper he pushed a clump of cogongrasses aside with the left hand, scurry out a blue and green ashy snake suddenly. He is frightened so much as to wail and cry immediately, at the same day night, he had a high fever, suffered from a disease. After recovering, he becomes timid, that snake has become his a " worry " from now on ,Always frighten him in the dream. People often say, the thing in the world, it takes place, the change can all trace to its source, the forming of people's psychological characteristics is the same. Psychology tell us whether even one reach year in octogenarian such as octogenarian while being living, a lot of behavior there are close relations with the experience in childhood. Likewise, the forming of one's morbid psychology, can also trace back to the life that his childhood goes through, especially the shade that the setback that he goes through leaves in his immature soul. Austrian psychologist A Adler is in book of his " feels self-humiliation and surmounts ", it proves, one's psychological characteristics can look for its clues from his memory of childhood to enumerate the abundant material. Why accident that one suffer by childhood stimulate very easy to form psychological shade, thus cause the forming of the morbid psychology? This because Childhood psychology ripe yet, personality not independence, so, often lack enough resisting ability in the face of the outside setback. Finally, all sorts of setbacks yield a psychological pressure and the accumulation comes down. Can form the setback and leave the neglect, turmoil of indifference and family life which are no more than parents of the psychological wound most at childhood age. The doctor of a psychological clinic in Shanghai has received a pair of demobilized soldiers married couple, always capricious that they tell 18 -year-old daughter's mood, some minor matters will evoke the wave change of her mood in life, or pester and does not express, or cry and scream endlessly. The psychologist tells them, this is a kind of " apt to surge making " Psychological disease. This kind of disease mostly because childhood was discriminated against or maltreated, can't get the warmth of the family, it is a response of a kind of anxious psychology. The daughter was raised by the grandmother after being born in originally, because the grandmother was sick, employed a nurse. The nurse thinks that it is her added burden to look after this girl, curses and beats in the dark easily. In this way, time getting long to form " easy to defy, make " Psychological disease. In sum, a morbid psychology which adults shows has countless contacts with experience in childhood. The setback in childhood, often become the origin that morbid psychology forms. This tells young parents, should make one's own child have good psychological quality, can become the powerhouse on life and undertaking after growing up, must give child the sufficient love, soon for a family atmosphere of stable, quiet and warmth of the child's creation, will protect children and will not allow him to be injured on spirit and emotion carefully.

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