Witness a repulsive scene on mother's bed

Witness a repulsive scene on mother's bed
Good doctor, how do you do: Some day two years ago, push away as me at the door, heave in sight mother and one go our man in a scene in bed often suddenly day. I bury this on the bottom of heart, do not tell and suffer from father of heart disease, have not told the short-tempered elder brother either. I am big three now, I can be unable to forget it. A repulsive scene often appears on the brain, makes me overwhelmed with sorrow, often wash one's face with the tears, not daring to accept the love of the different charges in nature that I like either, because I feel and abhor the marriage. I do not know how to do, please help me! (the sand of Zhongshan) The good doctor answers the sand: As the daughter, witness mother is unfaithful to her husband, your mood is understandable. " extramarital affair " Destroy the marriage and family, violate the ethics, the ones that produced are relatively complicated. In any case, let it pass by while being past. The one that should emphasized is, she is your mother forever, what is the mother and daughter? Someone says, the mother and daughter are that the all right life and death is interdependent, two women weeping in each other's arms, can melt and misunderstand, hate it for understanding, a pair of tolerant enemies. Your the intersection of wedding and to mother feeling demonstrate abhor, explain your understanding that hold a kind of health, reason in marriage and family. But mother of yours " Forfeit one's integrity " Throw on oneself, feel frightened too about the normal marriage relation, and reject the love of the opposite sex that likes, it is irrational to do it in this way. The normal marriage and family are beautiful, why can you feel repulsive? The key to the question lies in you have sense of guilt of a certain degree. You actually let one's own behavior lighten mother and " forfeit one's integrity " in order to punish oneself Fault,is it on the heart been one's own well to make a little. If often cherish the sense of guilt, then certainly will cause the psychological obstacle, influence the psychological health. You can tell the psychologist your idea in the heart of hearts, after listening to the doctor's explanation, you will have a kind of as if relieved of a heavy load sense, feel much more relaxed psychologically. On this thing, you have no fault oneself, punish " forfeit one's integrity " that oneself can not gain your mother . So long as can treat life with the healthy, positive attitude, and is responsible for marriage and family in the future, can have a clear conscience.

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