Wonder I am a virgin's why he does not need my _'s love clinic

Wonder I am a virgin's why he does not need my _'s love clinic

Net friend: " nine sisters " Puzzled:
I am a 29 -year-old woman, the person that the feudal concerned about face-saving self-esteem of the tradition is extremely strong. The woman in my mind should be keeping chaste and undefiledly before getting married, no
Should be a strong woman, just in order to gain the man's respect, so, I have been stubborn all the time to think, will certainly keep one's own body well before getting married.
The increasingly many man hopes to seek a good woman whose clean body regards for oneself at one's side, talk with unpleasant a lot of men talk: Want to let a virgin get married, go to the kindergarten! Though has lost several targets in guarding by mistake, I do not feel regrettable and regretful.
I stubborn to think every in before marriage with the intersection of I and opposite sex of person who speak of, need only to talk overly, I do not think he respects me, moreover expect he just plays with me, it is not the serious wanting and I associate, what I thirsted for is the love taking marriage as prerequisite, so until 28 year old, I pieces of virgin still, virgin no doubt pleasant, a one that can not marry all day of mother " The spinster " Three words are chatted about.
Though the self-esteem is still the injury of receiving mother, think about it later, wait for me to meet a really honest man, his sure cherishing this one of mine well " The spinster " . It's a pity I am wrong, that year of 28 years old, a fortune-teller said I can meet that man hitting this year.
Have crossed it soon, has also really met. That is introduced to my man by a friend, he goes to work in a unit of foreign enterprise, there is the car that has rooms. We are very satisfied each other, because age is not small each other, we begin to prepare the marriage after the parents of both sides agree to soon.
One month before not getting married, I and he live, arrive together when he proposed cohabitting many times, I whether pieces of virgin deeply proud of because of oneself again night then. It make ones that unexpected by I,at he is for sheet it is red that but it demonstrates that any is joyful very to that. My heart is a little uneasy.
In two weeks before getting married, he calls and says that does not think we are really so suitable, so want me to give him time of more to consider again, also say that don't be met in this period of time. I have chilled with disappointment in the heart after listening to. Wonder why he wants to treat me like this, I have watched over oneself such a long virgin's body to give to him. He should be glad! For why want, say, consider that does not obvious to want, promise the marriage wedding?
We said good-bye finally, the absurdity of the reason is suffered unspeakably by me, unexpectedly he thinks I am a woman without a little strong point, a virgin is because I do not have any glamour that can be attracted to the man if he only thinks so I get for 28 years old. In other words, I even if pieces of 28 year old return to " old woman of the man " who no one takes .
This has become the deepest pain in my life, I will get married in a few days. With a piece of eight honest husband handing over to it, one year older than I, he and not still more virgins carry to the virgin without exception, I do not know that insists that it is the pain of injury like this to bring so for a long time oneself. Also the real one has understood men.
Man wish eagerly, hope oneself can find, make wife is can when the real virgin appears by one virgin even more, unexpectedly I have become a woman who nobody dare to marry. Is not this grieved?



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