White collar 1 How far personal way can go single

White collar 1 How far personal way can go single

Boyfriend's girlfriend has changed a dozen and a dozen, which of oneself is one's own favorite most which one is not known to love; Work change again and again, know which piece like where one specialize in by oneself most by oneself; City and residence have changed another the one,
Do not know where is one's own home where is one's own real home
They are the white collar of monobasic city of the modish, set the trend, but is wrapped up in and coerces by the trend, in sky of city, vary color of season, pat freedom and lonely wing frequently. They are an admirable group, higher income, lower working degree of stability, open, freedom, mysterious, frequently to vary work and opposite sex's friend, seem again that then a kind of single noble standing head and coming and going all alone forever. They almost pursue and stimulate, be happy and succeed fanatically, under the ambiguous urban light, what kind of face, what kind of heart reflect them?
In March in early spring, can not hide the face of tired out sum vicissitudes in a mood is impassioned.
"Why not get married? "
"It is worthwhile not to get married. Afford to understand. There needn't be division with ethical personality, needn't owe anyone's debt either. "
With person that me speak, in fact is either very getting small, 30 several, it is exactly man's most charming age. One group side purposes of people that this really makes, freedom, open but sincere, does not quibble, not false, do not even refuse " The love of one night " ,For and charming in success to a certain extent because forthright, because candid and sincere don't shoulder the chains of soul ing.
But I want to say, rest on and snuggle up to green and dissipated and luxurious abundant life red, can not hide loneliness and loneliness of their soul; Behind what has been frequently made friends, but the estranged and diaphragm between men that soul can't be incorporated, faces flashed and crossed in the subway, it is only magnificent and incomparable but fragile bright-colored peach blossoms after all; In pursuing the road where the high salary frequently relieves a sentry constantly, lose one's own originally due direction more and more; In march toward in the successful voyage step by step, happy to have no way of, grasp far more and more probably.
All these, I'm afraid it is all only because we mind very much successfully! In pursue succeed in, forgetting oneself to be original and happy and succeeding in, forgot own due responsibility and obligation at the same time. They often say: The pressure of the work is too large, did not dare to get married, did not dare to give birth to the child. In fact, this is that they escape the quibble of responsibility exactly. Because to ordinary common people of overwhelming majority, they are successful personages. But they themselves are in the successful personages, so will be chasing greater success constantly.
Indeed, they may very busy, but they unwilling to leave, give oneself, give one's own the intersection of parents and child and people oneself dote on any time, so the favour more and more of weariness that they seem more and more. Their road only runs quickly, but there is no scenery. Different charges in nature fast food and culture fast food that they enjoy, after all, all just in order to wake work and passion of living up. Because they too getting tired out, weariness lose feeling in life, master easily to one's own ability and interest to happy sensitivity. We have all gone through the enormous change these years, some people are developed, living very moistly, some people come to a halt, live dully, but but inner world is the another scene.
So, the latecomer attempting to take them as role model, must think over by oneself: The tranquility of heart, originally really pursue, perhaps it is more important than success of the common customs. Because of the happiness, do not take succeed as a basis. Success is only a result, it is the course to be happy. This world is always so, besides envying each other, or envy each other - ---One's own, have never cherished; Only lack, it is the best. Life is bitter and short, how long is the future?
More important, one, when he bears responsibility bravely, he really seems tall and big and beautiful. At any time, all of us should not forget one's own responsibilities for family and obligation. People's age can't be gone beyond, will study conscientiously soon at age that should study, will marry and give birth to babies when it's time to marry and give birth to babies. Time is the most merciless knife, we should neither should pay be pushing responsibility backward constantly in advance in the future - ---Equal to never bearing responsibility like that. Regret because of feeling ashamed in the face of parents and family so eventually.
In addition, no matter when, success can only be the minority forever, once your youth has not died and succeeded again, and then come to collect and abandon the love, family and happiness on one side in the past again, with what will you pick up it? The ancient people's words " Marry and settle down " ,Do not say that " set up one's own business and get married " ,The probably in that modern white collar is seeing through the deep reason without end too!
New monobasic white collar, when could plant and find one's own real home in the city? ! Perhaps has seen through the reason among them, can no longer swim and walk on the complicated space alone.


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