White collar: Lawyer on one hand psychologist on the other hand

White collar: Lawyer on one hand, psychologist on the other hand
In the west, as you find that it is a bit unusual to behave in one's own mood, behavior, will go to look for the psychologist to consult voluntarily, as usually as treating cold. With the development of society, the progress of people's ideology, increasingly many Chinese have realized the importance of the psychological health too. See we are relatively successful " White collar " ,pressure because it is which doesn't bear more in they,last more setback, facing bigger challenge, they will be just in various contradictions inevitably, can deserve to be called the person living the most tiredly, the most bitterly. See: Block the Vice President of one side in the company alone, in order to raise the sales amount of the enterprise products, do 10 year wholeheartedly, make great merit, but oneself think " win " always With " pay " Incommensurability, especially compared with general manager, the psychology is more uneven, can there is no confidence of going alone by oneself, the psychology is unusually contradictory and painful; Hospitable and competent personnel manager, have annual working experience of foreign enterprise in U.S.A. MBA degree summation, self-satisfied, but perfect the personality of the doctrine enables his President ask for perfection to oneself, even sleep every night and can't help thinking of the fault of oneself at work too, the work of the second day is listless, full of mistakes, form the vicious circle finally; Proud and aloof line manager's work is very outstanding, but often feel lonely, dull, because their except that work never wishes to have a chat some to the colleague " Vulgar " Topic,as time passes become live in solitude,depressed; Most afraid the store manager speaking in the public occasion, blush in intension that, unatural all over, wanted to say was forgotten thoroughly too, everybody still thought he was a man of action immersing oneself quietly in hard work, but does not know the secret anguish of his heart; Marketing executive often on business, a amusement often comes in and goes out in the KTV, night club in order to help entertain the guest of honor, the wife suspects he has a behavior against the law, often makes a scene with him, also propose divorcing, he feels very painful. As " white collar " ,It is in fact apter to be perplexed by interpersonal relationships question, mood question, emotional question, psychological pressure question, personality question, neurosis,etc.. These questions are unable to tell to relative, friend, can not be solved by taking medicine only, so the help of the psychologist should be very important. No wonder the west is called: A successful entrepreneur always holds a lawyer to each hand, holds a psychologist to each hand. In the modern society, in the tense working environment, when you feel the pressure, we should learn to relax the self- method, manual labor, do exercises, travel, sing, dance, friend have a get-together, move about, help someone else,etc. the very good relaxing the method while being charitable. More and more tense today, everyone needs to relax in right time, remember " It is that the sea and sky are boundless to return one step " .

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