Pay attention to the pack of dynamite around

Pay attention to the pack of dynamite around
Pursue achievements, hope to gain the superior's good opinion, get and move long, and all sorts of other conflict of interests, have a kind of competitive relation among the colleagues. And this kind of competition has mixed complicated factors such as personal emotion, taste, relation with superior,etc. to a great extent. Everybody unite as one on the surface, kind safe, in the heart but every all abacus perhaps. Stake lead to the fact between the colleagues sharing in trouble, may think of their own worries respectively too, so the relation is unavoidable to be tense. Colleague, work together everyday nearly, bow, disappear, look up, meet, have of different various kinds of trifles thing take place each other. Each personality, the intersection of temper and natural disposition, advantage and disadvantage expose more obviously too. The weakness especially on shortcoming and personality on everybody's behavior has been exposed much, will guide and take place various contradictions, conflicts. The lance follow and some conflict superficial, some are privately; Some are open, some are obscure; Some display in that outside, some are latent. All sorts of unpleasant to interweave, together, can initiate various contradiction. Between the colleagues, though each other's age qualifications will be different to some extent, because there is not feeling of distance, so can not offer the long heart. You look down upon me each other, I can not take a fancy to you, the consciousness of our each other's six of one and half a dozen of the other is produced, must magnify the everybody the other side's shortcoming and weakness, accumulate over a long period, become the opposite tendency. Divide the work and deal with some things together together between the colleagues, how these things will have some one's own ideas to deal with everybody. What influence suitable or not, development of the unit correctly, have on that everybody's interests will, everybody has one's own account, one's own one is passed. Others' opinion, others' treatment method, everybody will bring with one's own comparing, once think others' level is not so good as oneself, the ability to deal with thing is not so good as oneself, will produce recalcitrantly. For example somebody does very splendidly, get the affirming and valueing, will make others produce the jealous heart of the superior, though a lot of people will not realize this envies. Because of all above-mentioned reason, people have, guard heart to colleague often. " say three sentence only on every people, can't throw one heart all " Give up piece at colleague relation can last thorough behavior. Everybody wears a pair of masks to treat one's own colleague, everybody needn't go to treat the colleague wholeheartedly sincerely, make between the colleagues often the polite, lie are pages and pages, and frank words, truth are little. People wave one false face in front of colleague often, conceal one's own various weakness, conceal one's own true thing. Select from centre halfback's network

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