The boyfriend always dislikes and avoids me for my stature in _'s love clinic well

The boyfriend always dislikes and avoids me for my stature in _'s love clinic well

I have the boyfriends of four years of a place, we know through QQ. I graduate from university 2003, for being with him, I leave the native place, city to come him. Everything is very good at the very beginning, we have gone through the trials and hardships of life together.

I know no matter how good men and women will quarrel, but a funny one is, reasons bickering are all concentrated on my bodily form, my stature of one point six meters, while just knowing him, 50 kilograms, increase with age, fat, 56 kilograms. I do not like dressing up very much at ordinary times, but fresh and cool too. He can always think me fat, non- enough to have taste. I am very angry, tell him, if you mind appearance in this way, substitute. He apologizes to me, will pick at me after but spends the period of time. I have almost collapsed! Though I say that does not mind on the surface, who can not really mind? I do not know whether he has other reasons to pick at me, because am I fat? I have recalled carefully, probably during quite a long time, he has been picking at me, develop to now and seem to stay with me, it is specially hurt and wronged.
The friends around me all say he is too concerned about face-saving. I am very in pain, I am 29 years old this year, non- small, what shall I do?
Reply:
Do not mind the man of woman's stature in this world? Yes, but few. Most men mind. If you see a man liking loving a stature the woman that is not very good very much very much, then that woman must have a forte in other respects. Certainly, the ripe man will pay attention to the woman's mental personality temper spirit,etc. even more, but general men are all concerned about face-saving, hope one's own woman around can add dividing for oneself.
I do not say you must please him, should learn to dress up oneself, should reduce weight, want, let him have face, woman can very independent to stick to one's old way very much while being very much self- certainly, but such woman, would not look like you so, because one's own 29 year old now, non- small, the boyfriend dislikes oneself fatly and worriedly. To those women, I am me, I am just like this, you should like you to like, you should not like, please, please get out of the way, there is only a man of yours in this world!
If you are not this kind of woman who I said above, then you have to take action, he dislikes us for being fat, we reduce weight, this is easy. Gymnasium race apparatus Yoga is jumped and held, practises a good stature, the benefited one is oneself at first.
Remind one sentence afterwards, lack of forbearance in small matters upsets great plans. I have not been thinking all the time the woman pester the detail very much - -He picks at you, you can not stand. You want to think about it, if he does not pick at you, change you directly, can not you stand even more? So, if needing, challenge with others easily, let others substitute, others really substitute, do not you really mind? If you can really not matter, you can change him first now! After all, you hate to part with him and can not leave he minds him, if he is not the person who you minded, it is fat or thin that you will not mind him and say you. So, you can not mind him, then pay attention to his opinion - -Reduce weight and build up body well, even if in the future something unexpected may happen any time, you will say good-bye unfortunately, have one proud stature of people resume to you very much important even. Time will not be wasted.


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