's marriage psychology of the way of checking different age men and women and saying good-bye

's marriage psychology of the way of checking different age men and women and saying good-bye
Had a new departure rule for a long time after 90 after 80, might not be " conclusive " Evidence calculate say good-bye. Phone the other side and cross the Rubicon, there are no any contact, the other side to already move in two weeks, already Stone has been used to seeing for departure way like evaporating in this kind of human world.
There are new departure rules after 90 after 80
"We have said good-bye. "
"Who put forward? "
"No one carries, has not got in touch for two weeks. "
If you see such a dialogue must not be surprised. Had a new departure rule for a long time after 90 after 80, might not be " conclusive " Evidence calculate say good-bye. Phone the other side and cross the Rubicon, there are no any contact, the other side to already move in two weeks, already Stone has been used to seeing for departure way like evaporating in this kind of human world. Better, through blog being or a little rich to stay a speech, or declare that says good-bye through a message, certainly notify by the other side just,be explained,there is no you to want I still more talk. And the attitude towards emotion after 90 that the change of this kind of departure way is great after can reflect 80 ing. First of all, the reason to fall in love after 90 after 80 is numerous, the friends of men and women might not be goals of the marriage, may only hollow boring, or love in order to fall in love, because feel lonely, etc in the strange land also for the moment. Since not planned to have results at the beginning, saying good-bye just turns into a thing while suspecting, say that saying good-bye does not just need to be entangled with by every means, it is good to send a message. In addition, and 90 very difficult to throw to one emotion into too many after the 80, rhythm of life too fast, mean it can be that the energy that an emotion is invested is limited, mean too chances are numerous, as the emotion encounters the bottleneck, they will be " lazy " Solve problem,"lazy " Flower so much energy talk to the other side say good-bye. Anyway there are plenty of chances, has lost this, perhaps there is the better one.
Regard getting married as the love prerequisite after 70
And different to some extent after 70, they usually begin a section of love with the purpose of getting married, so usually put into a lot, will not say easily either that say good-bye. If really get to the brink of what should say good-bye, they will make the decision cautiously, then will say that says good-bye to the other side face to face, and show one's own attitude and reason, because they think this is to the other side's respect, the respect to this emotion, also give explaination one's own. Even sometimes, they will obtain the favorable turn of this emotion in the course of saying good-bye from saying, let the other side and oneself have a chance to retrieve.
Say good-bye and equate with divorcing after 60
After 70 compared, treat and say good-bye more seriously and prudently after 60, and the fixed contacts target proposes saying good-bye, tantamount to the thorough break-up of one's own emotional life, so say good-bye to them how much wording is that one is not lighter than to divorce it. If has really reached the stage saying good-bye, they will hold family's meeting, communicate one's own decision with idea with family, under making the situation that the whole family agree, go to do deep talk with the other side again, they will organize languages ahead of time, try hard to minimize the injury brought to the other side, if necessary, even will communicate with the other side's family. That is to say, it is not totally two people's thing to say good-bye after 60, is the things of two families, the distance of associating because in their view and marriage has been already quite near.
Way that say good-bye change constantly, hide every a generation to emotional change of attitude among them, mean marriage from the contacts, it is for getting married to the contacts, it only represents that associate to and then reach the contacts, this is really worth causing our deep thinking.
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