Psychological problem and _'s psychological general knowledge of wind vane of security after checking 80

Psychological problem and _'s psychological general knowledge of wind vane of security after checking 80
After 80 at present, after the family and heavy pressure of working, the psychological health receives the serious test, the psychological problem is more and more prominent.



The psychological problem 1: Depressed mood mdash; mdash; Dull, it is very dull
The habituation is numb, aesthetic and tired, feeling of freshness excessive hellip; hellip; After these words can all be used for describing 80, we are stimulated to grow up, used to changing, is used to adapting to the change. If it is a modern disease to be depressed, after being born in 80 modern, how to run? Love, study, job hunting, interpersonal hellip; hellip; Can all be gloomy, begin to have feeling of freshness, feel barren slowly, the beginning that depressed that barren, unhappy will hit a person.
Safe wind vane: Everybody has depressed mood, the more important thing is for a space of depressed oneself, defend depression as defending thieves, let it see and sew and bore instead. 80 due to depression, it let us live oneself on modern society, remember depression of you mean depressed mood often, don't give oneself cap to spike depression always.
Psychological problem 2: Frightened mdash of social activity; mdash; Introversive crime, or the export-oriented trouble that gets into?
Some people after 80, have already stepped into the society, the protection of the family, and ldquo; I am the eldest rdquo; Sense of superiority quickly all. A lot of people find the question of the human communication: ldquo; How could I let colleagues like me? rdquo; ,ldquo; I let the intersection of superior and getting well the intersection of and rdquo unintentionally; ,ldquo; There is no rdquo of sense of ownership in the company; hellip; hellip; The introversive person thinks oneself unsocial, will not speak with others; Export-oriented people think one's own one publicizes and lets people envy, someone will injure mdash in the dark; mdash; Unable to guess others' heart, it seems it is one's own faults.
Safe wind vane: Social problem, it is not a difficult problem just begun to face after 80, our ancestors have all met. Hinder you from coherent to take the four seas have while being export-oriented while being introversive, the more important thing is how give oneself first career to orientate you, social activities are all purposeful job market activity, look for one's own position well, it says anything what should be said, needn't see people adding dishes, only need to finish oneself, it is the right way!
Psychological problem 3: mdash of confusion of choosing a job; mdash; Wonder what oneself wants on earth
Jumping to questioning after the 80, make elder headache. It seems that we can tell ldquo very easily; I will not do rdquo; hellip; hellip; Without patience, willpower lacks resolution, it seems to be really our question. But result in choosing a job confusedly, it is not a question of the willpower, but do not we know what oneself want? The right world behind 80, know mdash if see the major issue that will happen in 2008; mdash; Fast, changeable, information is numerous and jumbled, pressure enormous hellip; hellip; The more major issues are, the more we think oneself negligible, it is may be no use for even if negligible person to have needs. Moreover, does not worry by birth that eat and drink after 80, does not like seeing the news hookup, only like cats to stand up with playing with mdash by oneself; mdash; Have the basic demands been all satisfied, so scarcely know what oneself really wants? Said later to 80, seemed still more to know what oneself did not want: ldquo; I can not stand rdquo with ordinary working hours; ,ldquo; The superior can not see my rdquo out of the common; ,ldquo; I suppress and crook, can't represent rdquo of Chinese boxing; ,ldquo; I change 9 job, want, resign rdquo again; hellip; hellip; Develop all in ldquo in life, job; Do not want rdquo; Li are lined with ldquo instead; Need rdquo; ,Without initiative planning, take one steps and see one step, and willpower that it is out of patience certainly.
Safe wind vane: The one that find oneself and want most is a very difficult thing. Should begin oneself from understanding first. Understand oneself in the past first, and then ask oneself in the future, the job will be planned, should plan to begin since life. We need to think about oneself that was still alive in 2080, what he have to want?
Psychological problem 4: There is no easy disease mdash; mdash; I will not love others at all
Love without sad no doubt,become excited at all, let people not be gloomy really. Back 80s because only stay alone,produce criticize by ldquo one; Have, love the intersection of disease and groups of rdquo; ,It reaches to be old enough to get married age, become excited to someone else still. Do not understand love will not love. ldquo; Looks rdquo of members of the same clan; , ldquo; The longing for clan rdquo flashes; , ldquo; Wait for the love clan rdquo; hellip; hellip; There is no manifestation of the easy disease. Without love, often caused because it is great to be loved bubbles, has never lost, have not understood naturally how to strive for. Most people after 80, as the only-child, have not needed to share parents' love with siblings, a lot need, produce, satisfy yet, so would not replacement go think others' need at all, so would not love.
Safe wind vane: Fail in love often good than narcissism, at least can teach how go, love we. Study how to go to meet others' requirement first, find these demands, it is to treat ldquo; There is no easy disease rdquo; First step.
Psychological problem 5: The love is frustrated mdash; mdash; Say good-bye but not know how to fail in love
In turning to the letter for help, 60% are all questions about the love emotion, among them with ldquo; The love is baffled rdquo; The highest hair.
Age after 80, by 2008, 28 largest years old, 18 minimum years old. According to eight stage theories of the psychologist Eriksson's life, 18-30 years old, on the occasion of ldquo; The exercise loves rdquo; Life stage,it is to be solved it is in principal contradiction ldquo; Intimate rdquo; With ldquo; Lonely rdquo; Contradiction. That is to say, on this age bracket, we must meet love, stand its test and temper, lean out the head from a person's small world, learn to use the love to stick oneself and others mdash; mdash; Is baffled and makes a mistake for the love, are all problems that this age will inevitablely face. ldquo; The person who I love does not love me for my rdquo; , ldquo; Why does the love disappears and does not see rdquo so quickly; , ldquo; The love injures rdquo each other; , ldquo; The love is really fragile thing rdquo; , ldquo; I do not believe the love rdquo again after failing in love; hellip; hellip; These sadness brought because of being baffled, though make people heart-broken, also let us become an adult. We just become the adult's after learning to lose. Wait until we talk about ldquo; Departure rdquo; When, does not fear failing in love no longer, it has been practised that our love I'm afraid.
Safe wind vane: Used to saying that say good-bye after 80, anyway not like, divide. But a lot of people do not know how to fail in love needs study, it is sad to deal with, summarize the experience, without person that love is baffled, do not know how to love. Since everybody rushes, please rush a little more boldly in this question.
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