Fear of having palpitation of white collar women
White collar women, did you have palpitation? If your answer is definite, then, you should enhance vigilance! Amy is a staff member of one advertising agency in the capital, beautiful single girl. Though over 30 year old the intersection of drifting clouds and wild crane come and go all alone still, company achievement dull even, but in friend, colleague enclose, Amy firmlied get and loved. Amy always thinks privately that lacks the distinction oneself, for example not strive to be strong to seek to do others down at work, it is tolerant, forbearing and conciliatory to treat the colleague. However, Amy's amateurish life has been vivid and dramatic all the time, except work, work overtime, indulge in the bar, do shopping, the high economic income has offered the essential material base for her single life. No wonder Amy is known as to the outside " Have no time to fall in love " (used at the end of a special alternative, or rhetorical question)! Recently, Amy's friend, colleague got busy about Party for a grand birthday for Amy under her suggestion. Gather the old friend of Amy's new friend on Party, have the Tang Dynasty music such as bands, advertising circle well-known figures add to the fun. Birthday Party spends the salary income of more than half a year of Amy, has got uncountable beautiful blessings and flowers. However, the 30th birthday later, Amy felt a kind of baffled weariness and terrified suddenly. 30 year old a lucky sign to a woman, especially to white collar, because colleague in the company one than one time young. Amy has already begun to discover, oneself is not interested in the topic that the new colleague discusses by oneself, obviously felt the existence of the generation gap later. If can to company when being young, can if caring nothing for media of one's own work particularly, that is because you are young, " Stay here grandfather is own to stay the intersection of grandfather and " . Now, Amy produce, have a sentimental attachment for by first kind bearing the weight of one's own mediaing of undertaking suddenly, while there is a kind of crisis awareness. Amy begin, watch the mood and guess the thoughts to boss even, suspect anything, boss will let her leave with one righteous and honourable reason. Hard work of the helpless, work of the emotion and weariness of psychology make Amy produce a kind of fear to the future. Amy federation feels tired for no reason at all, has a rest too it would not help matterses. The body function seems to intensify one's efforts to drop too, the often baffled cold, so long as there is a staff member's cold in the office, Amy is unable to escape. It has to be the intersection of cervical vertebra and disease and have a headache, Amy body and mind in stage in an emergency everywhere in a word. White collar like Amy " Syndrome " Person at our side there is no lack of such people. Especially the woman, they are more sensitive, more fragile. Their fear comes from the pressure of the work, the intension of life, come from their heart and bother even more. The main fear is concentrated on: " money " Salary income and life style of the white collar women of panic disease of the way have been the yearning of the ordinary women all the time. However, anxious in white collar women" The money " The person of the way is not still small number. First of all, how long can such so-called high salary last? Because woman these serve foreign enterprise or individual enterprise mostly, unstable to become psychological obstacle of them right away. Especially to women like Amy, they have no psychology of giving up working as a temporary labourer all the time, to future and " The money " The worry of the way is unavoidable. In addition, because of pursuing the fashion, having life of the style, white collar's beautiful philtrum does not lack " The new poor clan " . So-called " The new poor clan " Mean that there is no bank account as well as there are no high consuming groups of one's own property in those cities, mostly single woman among them. Everything dare, buy when they rich, borrow money, can subsist too have money, but whom they realize to spend money bring in shopping " The happy feeling " . A Chinese old lady comforts others before being approaching one's end: " I can buy a house with the money deposited at last! " But an American old lady says gratifiedly before being approaching one's end: " I can clear off the loan of one's own apartment at long last! " Undoubtedly, increasingly many Chinese women are here to turn towards " The American old lady " Dress. As the white collar clan, their salary is usually generous, but theirs " The flowing water " Crazier. Look like Amy, the salary is 6000-7000 yuan every month, often one fen does not exist. In the words of Amy, earn money very hard, can't treat oneself unfairly certainly by oneself, as for future, had better look for a backer. Age and panic disease Suffer from like Amy " Age and panic disease " Womens white collar increase constantly as time goes on too. Because they face it the crisis which the rookie eliminates and risk which the boss dismisses, and because of " 35 years old " Kept outside of the door by numerous wanted advertisement. The middle age the reason why company's advantage in the foreign enterprise,etc. is lost gradually, because the work of quick rhythm, high pressure suits young people even more on one hand, on the other hand, some foreign enterprises are poor-performed, getting a salary raise of old staff " The rule " Often make the boss difficult to bear. Dismiss an old employee, can change two young people, this is some bosses' way to choose the right person. Benefit proportion that the boss should consider being invested and produced after all. " Age and panic disease " It is a kind of psychological phenomena, it is a social phenomenon too. If you are the mediocre professional women who crossed thirty years of age of an achievement, though you are unable to change " Only the age theory " ,But you can regulate one's own panic psychology at least. Age is unable to change, the one that can change is your knowledge, ability, go on " The second phase of development " ,Always sit down in order to treat more than oneself " Judge " Fine. What the white collar life of fashionable life syndrome is pursued is concept, fashion, style, brand and individual character. Modern consumption culture is mostly interesting and pursuing designing to theirs, this enables a lot of things of lose while pursuing fashionable life of white collar, cause a lot of negative effects, form modern's characterized fashionable life syndrome. It is shown in the following several aspects: Some white collar of night life syndrome, in order to relieve the tense pressure of working in the daytime, they do not choose to come back home to have a rest but go to the bar or amusement city seething with people, may think so relaxed body and mind, actually this is not so. The night life not only can't relax the tense nerve but also activate all cells of body, make them in the excited state. Such false recreation way endangers the health of giving up the white collar seriously. Crazy to do shopping syndrome finds, white collar recreation ways of women are mainly to do shopping according to the investigation " . They take advantage of and look for in the top-grade store on festivals or holidays " The prey " ,That may be a set of clothes of high price, it may be a famous-brand lipstick too. They seem that it is getting scattered to let the pressure from job market write the midstream freely and easily in money. But often run counter to desire. The pressure that can not really remove the work that crazy to do shopping, but lead you to enter into the mistaken idea of doing shopping blindly . Light source the intersection of air conditioner and the intersection of syndrome and a lot of people like, turn on light in office, illuminate not on in the room. Hardly realize, the light will be brought to people and given up wounded too. People can eyes will be tired as time goes by under incandescent lamp, therefore cause headache; Work under the air conditioner all the year round, cause the air conditioner disease too. The hungry disease of muscle is because of the change of the life style, people's total amount of exercise is reducing, especially white collar women, they are brain workers bending over one's desk working for a long time, very easy to suffer from " The hungry disease of muscle " . The intersection of city and the intersection of body building and to have brisk business, prove, increasingly many women friend begin, resist with the practical action too place " The hungry disease of muscle " Emergence.
|
0 comments:
Post a Comment