The white collar beauty is good " The heart is bitter "

The white collar beauty is good " The heart is bitter "
Work well, well paid womens white collar,it is many live more unhappily people day. Yesterday, study in U.S.A. associate professor of treatment Song GuiYing coming back says, felt self-humiliation, was lonely, afraid old and pursuing abnormally and beautifully, it is white collar common psychological problems of women. Song GuiYing says, white collar common psychological problems of women are numerous, such as dealing with the not good interpersonal relationships, the idea is not geared to actual circumstances; See other women succeed and imitate blindly, the result runs counter to desire; Self-confidence is insufficient; Rich, have rooms, there are cars but have no friend, feels lonely; Because the advertising unit require more job hunters are here " Under the age of 35 " ,Many white collar women all have frightened age; Wear the unusual or exotic dress for asking beautifully or displaying oneself, reduce weight unboundedly, illusion can be more beautiful. In addition, the marriage question is not lacked of: Some getting unmarried and frightened to keep in touch, not frightened to marry with opposite sex; It is been married is there couple personality and the psychology with, sexual life harmoniously, extramarital affair,etc. problem. If this kind of psychological pressure goes beyond and bears the limit, not merely will cause psychological obstacle even psychological disease, will also initiate the body to react, such as endocrine regulation, period disorder, mammary gland hyperplasia, the serious one can lead to the fact tired syndrome. Song GuiYing thinks, the psychological problem appears mainly because does not understand oneself. White collar women should find out about one's own strong point, weakness and existing problem, adjust and control in right time, can seek help from psychological consultation and treat if necessary. Song GuiYing has put forward some methods to relieve psychological pressure. She hopes for white collar women to learn tolerantly, learns compromise; Drop pretentious airs, exchange with people, pour out more; Study in order to improve personal training more. (Li Yang) " Beijing Morning "

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