The white collar looks for a partner in marriage which point is valued most?

The white collar looks for a partner in marriage, which point is valued most?
According to the report a few days ago of the media, the business of matrimonial agency that this city had faced the white collar personage has been quite flourishing recently, thousands of of white collar members of many matrimonial agencies among them. The single white collar's standard of choosing spouse has compared with before already had many changes, finds the knowing the real situation of the member according to one matrimonial agency: When men choose spouse, appearance has already withdrawn to the second, education, intension rise and occupy the first, the third comes from family; And women choose spouse and ask moral standing for the first time, secondly it is relevant factors such as the intension,etc.. The standard change to choosing spouse, How is your view? If you are also in choosing spouse " The key " In period, how about your standard systematic arrangement of choosing spouse? " pleasing to the eye " First it has already been some years since I am engaged in white collar matchmaking services, really saw some changes of they in choosing spouse. Education, intension are conditions that everybody pays attention to very much, but because of we " happy life " Do white collar matchmaking service while being full-time, in this respect is out of question generally. What the male white collar emphasized to the wife very much feels at the first sight, this is not but beauty required simply is " pleasing to the eye " ---Comprehensive embodiment of appearance, intension, makings. This has determined whether he would like to continue the contacts, could realize the other side's inherent virtue to a great extent. So speaking from the time order, " pleasing to the eye " List before conditions such as education, intension,etc.. Have some change worth mentioning, white collar man that we receive it exceeds one's own women to be no longer " cold " as before to education, income (used after a verb to indicate the completion of an action). Nowadays, women's integration capability will produce very great influence on two people's standard of living in future too, certainly the association resisting the life storm even more is very more popular. As for women, they are influenced by respects such as family,etc. older, so seem more rational in choosing spouse: Ability, education, intension, personality are factors that they consider synthetically. But under equal conditions, women incline to choose " carefully, attentively " even more Man. There is a story: A girl feels in first appointment the other side is too introversive, want to refuse originally, have never expected the other side has sent a red and big apple here and made commemorating specially at that night, then consider that determines to continue the contacts one night later. They two have already fixed quickly now. Beautiful cold who who does it love that the standard like needing to make the standard in advance alone? This too dogma! Everybody is the modern young people, so inflexible? Want me say the intersection of love and it, have surprised to take place at any time, all set standards can not catch up with " situation " Change and fail completely,clear-cut without being it would be bettered and indefinite standard, who loved then, whose condition is my standard. To be frank, standard, it, shows others, persons loved suit oneself, only know oneself. That first list people not thought that oneself take first, I'm afraid that can not find the satisfactory remaining half slowly because of this. The so-called one " Love the standard who is of someone " Do not say that there is not standard, but object to empty talk and dogma. Having received so many education by oneself, there are the feeling of self-confident and minimum aesthetic and observation peoples. According to personality of me, fall in love with one really, education, intension, moral standing of him know what's what in me already then, since he is exactly " The emperor ordained by Heaven " ,I do not just need to muddle up again, the so-called standard is him! (virgin bell) Must be capable I had once had a failed marriage, young at that time, lack the social experience, the thought is simple, so long as the other side is a person of excellent character, just take good care of some to me. Though parents oppose, act wilfully and marry him by oneself, this marriage became my eternal pain finally. After marriage, the difficulty not expected comes one after another, because husband's ability is bad, so small that changes an electric bulb, draws a telephone, put through sewer, is even as big as having dealings with external world, some thing that show up, want me go, do, he speak plausibly and volubly dish still: "Able people should do more work. " I am always busy, do day and night, has already influenced one's own work finally, do exhaustedly, really very arduous again, work hard very much. If life can give the chance to me once again, I think men the most important thing is ability, knowledge, secondly come from family, must be well-matched in social and economic status, the education which both sides receive, family background should be similar, it can't be with a wide gap and too big, woman's strong man's weak family can not be happy, happy. Life is realistic and cruel after all. Defended red in order to pass the appearance auspicious day can only step back since ancient times ing, well-matched pair are standards of choosing the happily married couple. But as the change of the society develops, people's thinking begins to change, does not choose the girl friend how to give priority to appearance again, and more consideration ability and insight and jobs, this the situation makes rightly The modern's life is larger and larger in pressure, the expenditure of every expenses is getting more and more too, pursue high-quality life, only realize by young couple's great efforts, it is obviously unable to realize by the husband's income only. Unit benefit that I belong to all right, under the girls in the unit let the boy in the unit basically, say jokingly at the same time: Rich water wear the intersection of stranger and field. Their choice has no fault absolutely. Get married, buy house, acquire furniture, and even child huge to educate, invest afterwards, totally want with the solid economic base to be backing. In the face of reality, though beautiful appearance make people to be pleasing, too have to make way for other. (king pomegranate wind) A person of excellent character to share in trouble before this Spring Festival, a distant relative comes to my home, invite me to participate in the wedding banquet of his daughter. While chatting idly, I find this relative is not very satisfied with the target that the daughter chooses, the main reason is that this man has got married, divorce because the former wife have extramarital relation. Inquire after moral standing of son-in-law their as me, he agree repeatedly, daughter and son-in-law in the intersection of Huangpu and the same units of job along the river. One day, the daughter falls into the river because of carelessness, the man sees this, disregard own safety and leap to the river, save the daughter. From then on, the daughter would always cherish the memory of the kindness of saving someone's life, will think deeply he had noble moral standing, such as making body and him, can be happy definitely I think, the relative's daughter really has " eyes " to choose spouse . You know, after setting up the family, should make two people healthier in long life, permeated with the inclination, imbued with value, its basic pillar lies in moral standing. Only so, ability, while meeting the changeful thing in the future, busy and trader, stick together through thick and thin, share in trouble, live a long life together. The Liu 's rejects " fat " Become I am partial and fat innately for the stumbling-block, the overweight person has a lot of difficulties in this popular and slim era. Because is fatter, can't buy the beautiful clothes which suit oneself size, it is unable to let oneself seem beautiful, vigorous. Though have Well educated and gentle personality, but my persons who have never pursued at one's side. Parents give me introduce several, meet, have no message while being too far away to be readily accessible always each time. Now, I can only Try one's utmost
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